Personal Ad Recommendations?

[JMohegan]

Its irrelevant because the purpose of this thread was only to ask for suggestions on websites for meeting D/s, M/s minded people.

It wasnt about analyzing me and trying to figure out why I want what I want.

Please read my post again.

The point was not to analyze you, and it was not to judge. Hence my statement, "All fair enough."

I have never searched for a mate online, and have no interest in doing so. But Catalina's advice makes sense to me.

Our experience is if you post a good ad which sounds genuine and like you know what you want, you will attract those who are similar in their intent.

My point is that a personal ad on any site for "D/s, M/s minded people" is going to be a tough way for you to find a mate, simply because it will be difficult for any D's on the site to recognize you as an appropriate match.

 

[IsabellaSnow]

You got an answer from me and you were rude and dismissive. What do you expect?

No, I wasn't.

 

[JMohegan]

Maybe it is not the websites. Maybe it is the content of your personal ads themselves.

This is my point, exactly.

 

[Ebonyfire]

No, I wasn't.

Yes you were.

 

[IsabellaSnow]

Please read my post again.

The point was not to analyze you, and it was not to judge. Hence my statement, "All fair enough."

I have never searched for a mate online, and have no interest in doing so. But Catalina's advice makes sense to me.

My point is that a personal ad on any site for "D/s, M/s minded people" is going to be a tough way for you to find a mate, simply because it will be difficult for any D's on the site to recognize you as an appropriate match.

I read it thoroughly the first time.

And I read your previous posts - and have not forgotten them.

Regardless of how you intended it, it doesnt answer my question.

Maybe there arent any other sites out there.

I dont have trouble meeting men. I have trouble meeting men more dominant than myself. Dating isnt the issue - dating someone sexually compatible is.

 

[IsabellaSnow]

Yes you were.

If Im so offensive, why are you still lurking in my thread?

Does this kind of thing get you wet?

 

[IsabellaSnow]

This is my point, exactly.

Difficult for you to guess, as youve never seen one of mine.

 

[Ebonyfire]

If Im so offensive, why are you still lurking in my thread?

Does this kind of thing get you wet?

Because I can. And I am not lurking. Everyone (but you) know I never lurk. I post where I please, and if it does not please, do not read it.

And although you started this thread, you do not own it Laurel does.

As for me getting wet, that was a poor attempt to get at me. Do better next time.

 

[IsabellaSnow]

Post as you like.

Just post something that matters.

 

[Ebonyfire]

Post as you like.

Just post something that matters.

Ditto. It is not my problem you do not recognize good advice when you read it.

 

[IsabellaSnow]

You stated the obvious.

Not terribly helpful when one is looking for websites.

 

[the captians wench]

Its irrelevant because the purpose of this thread was only to ask for suggestions on websites for meeting D/s, M/s minded people.

It wasnt about analyzing me and trying to figure out why I want what I want.

I am dominant by nature. I do not strive to be this way, I simply am this way. But that doesnt mean I am necessarily turned on by controlling a man. I am not. At all. In my relationships, the man leads. If he cant, theres no relationship.

You want to discuss with me personally - which you dont, or you would have by now - feel free. But lets stop chasing me around to harrass me about it, shall we?

Its not something explained in one sentence - and surely not something I have to justify on a board where far more unsual things are widely accepted without question.

I don't judge - and I expect the same respect in return.

If you don't mind a sujestion that doesn't contain a www, it sounds to me like you may want so specify that you are looking for a dom who wishes to have a strong sub, rather than stating the D/d thing. You sound to me like you do wish you had some submissiveness, but you just have a dominit personality, so you need a dominit man who is willing to take the lead, and strong enough to keep you under that lead. I agree with J that most that ask about a D/d relationship are really of a certian breed not unlike those that I have already mentioned my actual searches turned up.

How ever I have not read your ads, so I do not know how they might appear to a potential. And as you mentioned you do not seem to wish for any help other than the sujestion of a www, which other than the ones you have already mentioned I do not have for you.

 

[IsabellaSnow]

If you don't mind a sujestion that doesn't contain a www, it sounds to me like you may want so specify that you are looking for a dom who wishes to have a strong sub, rather than stating the D/d thing. You sound to me like you do wish you had some submissiveness, but you just have a dominit personality, so you need a dominit man who is willing to take the lead, and strong enough to keep you under that lead. I agree with J that most that ask about a D/d relationship are really of a certian breed not unlike those that I have already mentioned my actual searches turned up.

How ever I have not read your ads, so I do not know how they might appear to a potential. And as you mentioned you do not seem to wish for any help other than the sujestion of a www, which other than the ones you have already mentioned I do not have for you.

Well thats an interesting suggestion.. Ill consider it. Youre description isnt too far off, actually.

Might pain me to refer to myself as a sub, though.

I have had a few D's say they understand it perfectly and were more than interested - it just didnt work out for other reasons.

Usually the "secretly" married kind.

 

[Betticus]

Where is this collarme profile?

 

[IsabellaSnow]

Disabled, at the moment.

Which I did last week after whilst talking to someone in the UK.

Isa doesn't multitask men very well.

 

[Betticus]

Disabled, at the moment.

Which I did last week after whilst talking to someone in the UK.

Isa doesn't multitask men very well.

Well, mine isn't hard to find at all if you wanted to peek. I'm the only betticus on the internet.