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What do you people do at period time? Do you just have sex as normal, or do you leave it for that period? Would you do other things, fingering for example? Even oral sex? Have you done these things? Was it good? As a woman do you feel especially horny/not horny when on your periods? do you feel comfortable with men doing things at that time of the month?

I know my last girlfriend was willing to have sex while on her period, but I'm at a point of lack of experience right now and I really feel more information is in order. So please, relate :)
 
i have had sex on my period with my boyfriend right now... never had sex on my period before him its not a bad thing to me i shower 2 times a day every day. so its not a bad thing... plus i am extra horny on my period and right after...
 
Well, from the male perspective, I'm all systems go any time...hehe. I guess more than anything it depends on what is comfortable for the woman.

For some this time is a huge hormone rush and they love it, others don't want anyone within a mile.

For the record I've had sex, manual play, and oral with women during their periods. Then I've had times where the woman I was with and I just went to movies, or shared a nice conversation during those days...

Towels are necessary, and this can open that sex in the shower fun.
 
Shower sex can be just as hot as can be while Aunt Flo is stopping in town. It's a nice break from the "traditional" sex actually.:eek:
 
oh mercy, for the two days before my period I am just like one big raging hormone, horny as the day is long! (Which makes them not all that much different from most days, actually...) Seriously though, when I am "coming on" I am just sooooooo gagging for it it's unbelievable.

But then as soon as it comes, it is like someone flipped a switch off! I don't want to even think about sex, I don't want my husband near me, I don't even want him to look at me from across the room!

By about the third or fourth day as it wanes I start to get interested again, but not particularly horny, and may or may not have sex at this time. Usually the evening when I know it's passed altogether, I have a nice long steamy bubblebath, maybe douche if I haven't for a while, then go to bed all squeaky clean - and get down to some dirty business with myappreciative hubby.

Incidentally girls, a friend of mine told me that if you are wanting to fuck 'on your moon' but you or your partner are squeamish about the whole blood thing, get ahold of some natural sea sponges and get one up in there; apparently this is how prostitutes and porn chicks are able to work through their cycle because it absorbs like a tampon and the guy can't feel it (or if he does, it just feels like your own spongy tissue). If you're ambitious you can even use these instead of tampons altogether, through your whole period - this is the most 'ecologically correct' way to go because you can just rinse them out and reuse them again. (Not the most practical tho!)
 
sqSS said:
What do you people do at period time? Do you just have sex as normal, or do you leave it for that period? Would you do other things, fingering for example? Even oral sex? Have you done these things? Was it good? As a woman do you feel especially horny/not horny when on your periods? do you feel comfortable with men doing things at that time of the month?

I know my last girlfriend was willing to have sex while on her period, but I'm at a point of lack of experience right now and I really feel more information is in order. So please, relate :)

I think it's really up to the woman's own level of comfort, and yours. Personally, back in the day (when I dated men), there was only one that I was comfortable with enough to have sex on my period.

Now, days my partners are female. There is a hormone rush sometimes, but most months we don't get our periods at the same time (thank God!!!)

We stay away from the oral (I'm not a vampire), but there are so many other things that can be done.
 
peachykeen said:
oh mercy, for the two days before my period I am just like one big raging hormone, horny as the day is long! (Which makes them not all that much different from most days, actually...) Seriously though, when I am "coming on" I am just sooooooo gagging for it it's unbelievable.

But then as soon as it comes, it is like someone flipped a switch off! I don't want to even think about sex, I don't want my husband near me, I don't even want him to look at me from across the room!

By about the third or fourth day as it wanes I start to get interested again, but not particularly horny, and may or may not have sex at this time. Usually the evening when I know it's passed altogether, I have a nice long steamy bubblebath, maybe douche if I haven't for a while, then go to bed all squeaky clean - and get down to some dirty business with myappreciative hubby.

Incidentally girls, a friend of mine told me that if you are wanting to fuck 'on your moon' but you or your partner are squeamish about the whole blood thing, get ahold of some natural sea sponges and get one up in there; apparently this is how prostitutes and porn chicks are able to work through their cycle because it absorbs like a tampon and the guy can't feel it (or if he does, it just feels like your own spongy tissue). If you're ambitious you can even use these instead of tampons altogether, through your whole period - this is the most 'ecologically correct' way to go because you can just rinse them out and reuse them again. (Not the most practical tho!)

Sea sponges? Really? I've never heard that. I wouldn't rinse and reuse them (Uhhhh, ) can you imagine the bacteria?! Lemme just ask, do you wet the sponge first? In my mind I think a sea sponge is pretty rough isn't it? Ouch!!!!!
 
sqSS said:
What do you people do at period time? Do you just have sex as normal, or do you leave it for that period? Would you do other things, fingering for example? Even oral sex? Have you done these things? Was it good? As a woman do you feel especially horny/not horny when on your periods? do you feel comfortable with men doing things at that time of the month?

I know my last girlfriend was willing to have sex while on her period, but I'm at a point of lack of experience right now and I really feel more information is in order. So please, relate :)

you people?

whats that supposed to mean?
 
My boyfriend and I have sex during my period sometimes when I'm not having the period from hell. Oddly enough, even though I'm too uncomfortable (physically, not mentally) to have regular sex, I can usually handle the backdoor lovin without a problem during my "time". I dont know...doesnt make sense to me, but whatever.

Sometimes giving him a blowjob is good enough for me. I dont like having orgasms during the first couple of days because they usually trigger horrible cramps. :eek: :( But I can never get enough of him, so as long as he gets taken care of, I'm happy :)
 
Lioness - the type of sponge you would use for this is very soft, they are not like the loofah scrubby sponge things (yeouch!). I dunno where to tell you to look for them; I got a couple at a shop that sells natural beauty products in London. Yes I wet it and wring it out before putting it in, and after using one and rinsing it I boil them for 2 mins, thanks for pointing out the hygeine issue. This is why I said it's not the most practical method (imagine explaining what you're doing to your coworkers in the office loo!) so I only use these at home.

I am sure there must be some more info out there on this on the net, probably places to order them and everything!
 
sqSS said:
What do you people do at period time? Do you just have sex as normal, or do you leave it for that period? Would you do other things, fingering for example? Even oral sex? Have you done these things? Was it good? As a woman do you feel especially horny/not horny when on your periods? do you feel comfortable with men doing things at that time of the month?

I know my last girlfriend was willing to have sex while on her period, but I'm at a point of lack of experience right now and I really feel more information is in order. So please, relate :)

I have never had sex during my period. Just don't like the idea of it.

I don't find my drive to be higher during my period, but the two weeks prior to my period, watch out! :D :p
 
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MahoganyLioness said:

We stay away from the oral (I'm not a vampire), but there are so many other things that can be done.


Sheesh, it's not like I get down there and suck her out or something...hehehe. Unless she's really gushing, oral sex after a shower isn't that different.

eee, I just read before I posted...sorry if that sounds kinda harsh. I think my initial point about doing what feels comfortable for the particular female is probably more relevant. (Although it's not gonna stop me from posting...gooo 1000)
 
Period week is pleasure-the-boyfriend-and-let-him-know-I-love-him week, otherwise referred to as "hummer week" in less romantic terms. :D
 
A diaphram properly inserted, a quick rince, Fun Time.

My wife often got horny during her period. She would use the diaphram as a container, and we would go at it as if nothing was different. Took it out in the shower.
 
My boyfriend isn't comfortable with it. Which is fine with me. It gives me a week to work on my oral technique.
 
First, in case there are those of you that have not heard of it, there is a new product for feminine protection during activities such as swimming and intercourse. It is called "Instead". It is like a diaphragm, only a bit softer. It is used during the period and collects the blood and basically holds it, much like a tampon. I received mine free in the mail from the company as a promotion and have no idea if it ever took off, or anything about its status on the market, as I haven't really had a need for it, or to keep up with it. But, its worth looking into if you really are uncomfortable with the thought. :)

I am extremely passionate before during and after my period. As I am in perimenopause, that is ALL the time. :) I have never had any man that was bothered by my period, and though I will only do it when I have a very light flow or have stopped briefly, it doesn't seem to be an issue for men. It certainly isn't an issue for me. :)
 
I am extremely horny before and during and after - well - hell- I'm always horny!:devil:

But to answer the question - yes - we do have sex with a towel down usually or tub/shower sex. Oral is great at that time too -but I usually have him use a dildo on me while he's in my mouth.
That way I don't feel completely left out:)

PS - I used to have a boyfriend that still love to eat me out even during that time - I was weirdly erotic!!
 
Well i am only on for 3 days, so most of the time we wait till it's over,

Oral while you are on is a no go area, i think thats a little over the top, and i know my guy would never do it.

cindy

:kiss:
 
Well I just have to add my two cents...Instead rocks!!

Sex during the flow doesn't bother my man one little bit. I usually work on my oral skills for a couple days because orgasms increase cramps...and face it if you have cramps you aren't going to be enjoying it anyhow. But for the couple days before and the first day of my hormones are in over drive ...look out:p
 
nothing wrong with it

i don't see any problem with it.......most women are hornier during their periods.....the only difference is more clean up and during oral stay up north around the clit.....no problems..... :devil:
 
I am extremely horny right before and during menstruation. I would not want to have to wait until my period was over before having sex.
 
I have had sex while on my period... it never made my cramps worse...

I don't think it's necessarily the BEST thing ever...

As I've grown a little wiser... (not older ;) ) I realized that anticipation is VERY arousing... I can wait a couple of days and then it'll make me appreciate it that much more...

However I'm happy to help him out! Giving him a blowjob, is a turn on in itself. yum yum :p
 
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