People, People Who Need People

[lavender]

I'm trying to at least maintain a modicum of humor. But, do you not sometimes wish that you didn't need others for anything?

I think I need to get tougher, stronger, wiser and much better able to do things on my own. Because, people always let you down.

You know there are some people in my life who I know would do anything for me - and for that I am eternally grateful. It just is a bitch when they are not living near you.

 

[Nobody Special's wife]

Yeah Lavy what ever you say hon????


Here some chocolate

 

[Minkey Boodle]

...are the luckiest peeeeople in the world...

We're children...needing other children...

Like buttah!

 

[Gusty Wind]

may I help you ?

 

[perks]

You know, I've been dealing with this in my life too, lav. I have a husband, and in spite of me trying not to have expectations in my life I did have some.

I expected him to take care of the car and all the mechanical stuff of the house.

Well, it didn't work out that way. So I read some books, I got a network of people that can answer my inane questions and now I'm doing that stuff myself.

Woman, you are strong, you are tough. You have support, it may not be sitting right there next to you, but you have it.

Anything you need, and dude, if you need me to talk you through changing a tire<I can do that now> I will do it.

It's tough, I want to hide in someone too. It will happen for us. We're kickass chicas.

 

[Saint Valentine]

Empowerment is a beautiful thing!

 

[Wiggles]

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[Rubyfruit]

In the end, all you have is yourself.

 

[Angel]

I think I need to learn how to need someone other than myself.

 

[lavender]

In the end, all you have is yourself.

I just can't let myself think that way, though.

 

[Lancecastor]

I'm amazed at all the "kickass chicas" for whom a flat tire is still a crisis.

Mammary glands must inhibit the ability to check tire pressure.

Inability to check the oil is apparently linked to the ovaries.

Crazy shit.

 

[Angel]

I'm amazed at all the "kickass chicas" for whom a flat tire is still a crisis.

Mammary glands must inhibit the ability to check tire pressure.

Inability to check the oil is apparently linked to the ovaries.

Crazy shit.

Thanks, but I can fix more things on my car than the average male.

 

[Lancecastor]

Thanks, but I can fix more things on my car than the average male.

Uh-huh. Sure.

 

[Angel]

Sorry, but I never had someone around to do all that shit for me. My car broke down, I bought a book.

No matter what happened, car, or something else I never had anyone to depend on but me. Now I don't know how to accept help from people, and I don't know how to function any other way but by myself. It isn't exactly a good thing.

 

[Gusty Wind]

lol..muahhh```

 

[freakygirl]

I'm amazed at all the "kickass chicas" for whom a flat tire is still a crisis.

Mammary glands must inhibit the ability to check tire pressure.

Inability to check the oil is apparently linked to the ovaries.

Crazy shit.

You don't know me to well.

I'm the only girl in my family. All brothers and male cousins. I was right out there with them working on cars, motorcycles and anything else we could find to "fix".

I have fixed plenty of cars. I've even restored a few in the past..

 

[Gusty Wind]

Sorry, but I never had someone around to do all that shit for me. My car broke down, I bought a book.

No matter what happened, car, or something else I never had anyone to depend on but me. Now I don't know how to accept help from people, and I don't know how to function any other way but by myself. It isn't exactly a good thing.

hehe.. hae the esxyyy men over to help...

and then orgy..lol
jk

 

[Gusty Wind]

I'm amazed at all the "kickass chicas" for whom a flat tire is still a crisis.

Mammary glands must inhibit the ability to check tire pressure.

Inability to check the oil is apparently linked to the ovaries.

Crazy shit.

hmmmmm sexyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

see what you leads us in to...

fixing cars ??????????????????????????????????????????



ooo..

hmmm maybe you can tell us a joke...

I need a giggles badly

miss you too..

 

[intrigued]

lavender, I used to liken need to suicide, and its taken me a very long time to accept that it isn't a personal failure or short coming to need people. Mostly, I keep to myself and don't need a heck of alot anymore. I don't want people around me because they bug me, but I do need the people I love. Not because I need something from them, but because I just need to be with them, enjoy them, and need to see that they are fine.

I've learned just how much I can do without by all the things that are falling apart and broken in my home. I do what I can, but mostly I've just learned to live without those things. I'd rather do that, than deal with all that comes with allowing someone to help me.

 

[Dillinger]

I want to say something. I just don't know what.

I'm a people though.

 

[CelestialBody]

 

[Zmey]

I don't need no ONE but it be nice to have some ONE ... around

 

[lavender]

I'm just being a baby and I've had a very bad day, all around. Normally I am not the kind to really need a good scream, kick something, etc. But today, I think it would do me a world of good.

I really don't have anyone to blame but myself - I'm well aware of that.

 

[Angel]

I'm just being a baby and I've had a very bad day, all around. Normally I am not the kind to really need a good scream, kick something, etc. But today, I think it would do me a world of good.

I really don't have anyone to blame but myself - I'm well aware of that.

You're human, let yourself scream like a baby once in awhile. It's better than forcing yourself to do "The Adult Thing" - sometimes you just need to let go to keep your sanity.

 

[freakygirl]

You're human, let yourself scream like a baby once in awhile. It's better than forcing yourself to do "The Adult Thing" - sometimes you just need to let go to keep your sanity.

Well said.