people are arguing marriage on some website

[dolf]

They are incompatible~Shrug~ It's best to figure this shit out right away.

bitch! where've you been?

 

[pointless]

aklso, i don't really care about the names, but i think the ring should be a given if only because it just makes sense to me.

 

[chillywilly2]

Maybe she works construction or in a steel mill or something with tools and can't wear one...thats my excuse anyway.

 

[doctor_insanus]

but wedding dresses are so pretty.

also, they give me a boner.

they're still pretty though.

Bridal porn FTMFW.

 

[LallyH]

I changed my name cos I didn't like mine and his was better. I wear a ring cos I like jewellery. I never wanted to get married cos I hate weddings.

 

[pointless]

No they aren't, it's just that bridesmaid's dresses are so hideous they look like they're pretty.

hey, you have your weirdnesses and i have mine, damnit.

but everyone is looking at you. and everyone expects you to talk to them. and the cake costs 3x more than my car. and people get upset if they aren't invited, but show you up if they are. and everything needs planning.

alright. i get that. still...

 

[lovetoread]

What if it's two she? Would be sort of awesome if a lesbian couple decided to switch names at marriage, just for the hell of it.

Then both should wear rings and change names.

Goes for both genders.

 

[pointless]

Bridal porn FTMFW.

indeed. esp. w/ lesbians, but it all works.

and, on the subject of lesbians, i remember reading how one couple both changed their names. hell, even non-lesbians do that. noomi rapace did it. i don't hate that idea.

 

[RudeNastyAssBitch]

Ideal agreement and/or characteristics of a wife
Change name
Ring on finger and nipple
Comfortable collar
No footwear
Demure
Sexually submissive
No personal possessions
Memorize sports statistics
Only child of sickly, wealthy parents

Good Luck With That

 

[RudeNastyAssBitch]

bitch! where've you been?

If I Told You I'd Have To Fuck You...I Mean Kill You...

 

[bronzeage]

Then both should wear rings and change names.

Goes for both genders.

She did not change her name because she did it twice before and it was more trouble than it was worth. I had no trouble with that.

I don't wear a ring because I intend to die with all my fingers still attached to my hand. She has no trouble with that.

 

[julybaby04]

Name change for the woman and both wear rings. It is a respect thing in my opinion......and a very easy way to tell others that those people are off limits.

 

[dolf]

If I Told You I'd Have To Fuck You...I Mean Kill You...

i prefer option one.

 

[Peregrinator]

I told her she could do as she pleased with her name. We both hyphenated. I explain that to people by saying I love her and married her, I didn't purchase her.

We wear rings because it makes us happy that we're married to each other and it's a nice warm fuzzy to wake up in the morning and put them on.

Second wedding was definitely more fun, though possibly not because it was the second, rather because we were all more mature and definitely more seasoned wedding goers.

 

[Wat_Tyler]

Let them do as they want. I intend to.

 

[bronzeage]

Name change for the woman and both wear rings. It is a respect thing in my opinion......and a very easy way to tell others that those people are off limits.

It is a respect for tradition, but not necessarily for each other.

As for "off limits", a ring is as much of an attractant as lack of one.