Penis size

[Brian4ever]

I always have this fear of having sex for the first time with
a women because of it.I always want to ask her before we
have sex to find out if she is one of those ones that only
likes well hung guys.

I do always feel like sad because sometimes I feel she may
not be happy with what I have.

Checkout the pic and you can see the problem.

 

[Amused]

Not for a billion dollars would I click on that.......

........but lots of luck, dude..........

 

[Smilodon]

looks perfect to me, Brian. I can guarantee that the majority of women would not be disappointed.

Good luck

Smiley

 

[SexyChele]

Brian,
It's in the attitude, not in the size. If a man has a healthy attitude about his penis, a woman will think it's sexy. I'd personally rather have a man that was more average (which is, actually, 5.5 inches), then something much bigger. Let's face it - large dicks HURT! And they can hurt like hell! There is much more fun that can be had with an average sized dick, trust me.

Besides, one thing I've noticed: when a man has an overly large dick (9" or more), most have the tendency to think that a woman should just be satisfied with his cock and forget everything else. Not true! I've found men with averaged-sized cocks are usually more oral and more experimental in their attitude, and that is a bigger turn on for me!

 

[P. B. Walker]

I know where your coming from...

Being of average size myself (6" long and almost 5.5" in circumference... depending on my state of arousal) I've wondered about the same thing from time to time. Mostly when I'm with a woman for the first time. I've never had any complaints from any of the women I've been with and they've all said I more than satisfied them, (with hands, fingers, penis, etc). But of course, they could have just been being nice and did not want to hurt my feelings. But you have to realize, this isn't something you can change or fix. Gotta go with what you got bascially. Once you realized that and quit worrying about it, you'll feel a whole lot better and be able to really enjoy yourself in the bedroom.

There are many different types of women. Sure there are "size-queens" out there. So what. Women can usually tell what your packing before you even get to the point of having sex. Don't ask me how, but most of them can (I said "most" and yes I'm generalizing). SexyChele is right, I think, when she says that many women perfer an average penis. I've heard the same thing from many other women. But then I've been to a couple "swing" parties where I watched several women go totally ballistic when they were getting fucked by a dude with a big dinger. They had incredible orgasms like they never had before. But I've also been with one woman who thought *I* was big... go figure.

I think if you get to the point where you are going to have sex with a woman, hopefully she's not with you just for your penis (and it's size). Hopefully you won't have a bad incident where she's just not satisfied. If they can't be happy with what you got then fuck 'em. That's the attitude you have to have cus it's not like you can change it. It's like someone asking you to grow a third thumb or something like that. And don't forget, sex is more than just ramming it in and out... like SexyChele said... oral, oral, oral... oral. LOL... I love oral, so I'd be doing that no matter what the size of my penis was. You'll drive yourself insane if you think about this too much and pretty soon you'll be so afraid to be with a woman, you never will be.

just my two cents... no offense intended to anyone.

- PBW

 

[Angel9476]

I can't agree more with the others! It's not what's between your legs but what's between your ears that count! SexyChele, had it right! Too many men who are well endowed have this attitude that they are doing the woman some big favor. Woman might go for it out of immaturity. But they usually learn that they don't have to settle for mediocre! Soon they'll learn to go for the GOLD. So Learn all you can and be patient, remember sex begins long before you hit the sheets! Tease, titillate, and pleasure each other!

 

[PowerOfOne]

<giggle> Nice chair!

 

[Babydoll5272]

Personally speaking

Normally women are more into "You" as a person, your personality, your heart, then and the size of your penis. Granted there is a lot of woman are concerned about the size, but ask yourself is that someone you would want to have sex with in the first place?

Personally speaking, I could care less what the size of a potential lover's penis is, if he is a good person. To me I care so much more about what is on the inside then your penis size. Besides that as the old phrase goes "It's not the size that matters, it's what you can do with it!"

My personal advice is, you need to start being secure in you and your penis size. The more confidence you come off, the less likely anyone will even care. Have confidence in your self and your lovemaking ability, and your lover will see that!

Good luck
DOLL

 

[Brian4ever]

Thanks alot for the advice.But I just see how alot
of women are in the 20 year old range.It's hard
enough finding a good person my age.

 

[HoldenMcCrank]

This is what I have heard

Women that are into "Big or Long" guys usually can tell if a guy is well hung Before they make it to the bedroom. (Ladies can you tell a guys size before you see him naked? )


Just remember "Dance with the one that you brought to the party". If you are making the effort to Please you partner then why should there be any problem?


Holden

 

[luv2tvl69]

Brian

Just so you know: Strictly sexually speaking Size DOES NOT matter if you know how to use what you have and give a woman pleasure. There are men with 8" dicks that just dont know what to do with them. There are men with 4" & 5" dicks that can make women see stars.

Its all a matter of you knowing your lover and the things that bring them the most pleasure. Great sex has to do with how attentive you are to your lovers needs, turn ons, and desires. It has to do with your not being selfish with only your orgasm, but with your lovers. This goes for both partners. Foreplay, sensuality, romance all these things build up to Great sex. Not size.

Hell if size was all that made a woman sexually satisfied we would all be having sex with Kielbasi and not even being with men.

 

[weathered2]

I wouldn't sweat it, dude. There may be the occassional girl that is only interested in huge cocks, but , really, most women are into how you think and how you treat them, and how good you are with all the tools in your kit. They don't give a damn if you just have the largest jackhammer if you aren't any good with anything else.

(edit)
Oh yeah, and I know this from first hand experience; I don't have the largest jackhammer either.

 

[MizTabby]

Cool tool

Thanks alot for the advice.But I just see how alot
of women are in the 20 year old range.It's hard
enough finding a good person my age.

Brian,
you're just the right size between your thighs
so while I look and fantasize
some lucky girl will be having sighs

 

[Guest]

Dude...

While I am fortunate to be above average... it is WAY more important to know what to do with it. I have had women who have been with guys that were well hung and hated it...

No worries... If you try and please the woman she will be eternally grateful.

(And if that doesn't help you out ... get a swediash made penis enlarger...)


it's not mine ... i swear!

 

[J.B.]

There's nothing worng with what you've got... Be proud of what God gave you man! Look I know you've heard this before but I'm going to say it again:
SIZE DOES NOT MATTER
I honestly think that this whole size issue was thought up by lazy men who have a large dick & don't want to do any of the work... As long as you know how to use what you do have & want to bring pleasure to your partner you shouldn't sweat the other stuff...

 

[SilverVeil]

Yep .... I agree. Size does not matter. If your tool is big enough to photograph, then it is fine. I could see it and you could pleasure me just fine with it.

Just as there are teeny weeny boobs, and boobs you could smother someone with, and thin people and overweight people, tall people and short people, there are big dicks and little dicks. It's all good.


There are many ways to compensate that women will appreciate.

If you feel that your "tool" is not going to do the job 100% than use the rest of your "toolbox". Hands, mouth, toys

As for positions for optimal penetration .... I have found that either with the woman on her back, legs up over your shoulders, your fingers on her nipples and clit every so often, works wonders. Or her straddling you.... you either laying down and her facing you... once again great position for nipple stimulation... or her back to you riding you to glory.

Either way works great.

The only time size should matter is when there is only one piece of chocolate cake left and you have to split it with someone.

 

[J.B.]

Right on SilverVeil!!!

The only time size should matter is when there is only one piece of chocolate cake left and you have to split it with someone.

 

[KinkyKandy]

Dont' worry about it. Its not the size...its how well you use it. I personally think if size matters to a girl she is just shallow and isn't worth your time.

 

[SilverVeil]

Never mind ....

 

[Brian4ever]

Re: Re: Penis size

I took that last year before I got rid of my digital
camera.Sorry

I can't believe I sold the damn thing for $60!But I
had to have quick cash at the time.

Besides I'm a fatass anyways.lol

BTW ... can you take a pic without the pants on ? And would you mind if I downloaded it to keep ? I happen to think your cock is very sexy and I like looking at it. Makes me wet.

Sexy is in the eye of the beholder, and honey... I would surely like to "be-holding" your cock.

 

[SilverVeil]

Re: Re: Re: Penis size

I took that last year before I got rid of my digital
camera.Sorry

I can't believe I sold the damn thing for $60!But I
had to have quick cash at the time.

Besides I'm a fatass anyways.lol

So what ? My ass is fat too

Yes, tis true .... but as they say ... more cushion for the pushin LOL

I like nice plump buns to grab hold of and use to pull someone closer. Grab a nice handful ...... ummmmmm yummy.