Penis Size Dilema

[Wickywoowoo]

Please dont take this the wrong way, but perhaps you are reading too much into my statement. Or perhaps I tried to hard to make my point. I'll try to give you a good example of what I meant. Let me give you a little info about me...I am a bigger girl, I could stand to lose 40-60 pounds. It doesnt look bad on me (my frame supports it well)but you can tell that I'm meant to be a bit smaller, although from just looking at me, you wouldnt believe me if I told you how much I weigh. My boyfriend of 5 years (and if he sees this thread he is more than welcome to introduce himself and correct me if I'm wrong if he wishes)has seen me at 60 pounds lighter. He knows what he had and could have again (as far as my body goes) but he is still not displeased by me. He doesnt tolerate me or put up with me just because he loves me more than anything. He actually enjoys the way my body looks and is very turned on by it. But I can guarantee you that if I woke up tomorrow 60 pounds lighter, you wouldnt hear a complaint from him. And if I woke up the day after that and I was the same size that I am today, he wouldnt complain either. That is what love does for you, it comes with the territory. What I do for him mentally, spiritually and emotionally are more important to him than what my body looks like. You dont put up with someone, you accept their imperfections as such because you love them and quite frankly who honestly wants to be with someone who is perfect? Most of us would wind up developing an inferiority complex if all of our mates were perfect.

And i agree with you... No one is worth years of misery. If you dont or cant love someone for all that they are, then what kind of relationship is that?

Yeah, but what you described is changeable, my problem isn't, you can make yourself feel even better if you want, I can't, I am always gonna feel worthless

 

[nike]

with all due respect wickywoowoo, if your self worth lies within your penis size, then I am truly sorry for you as it is but one part of your complete person.

 

[Wickywoowoo]

with all due respect wickywoowoo, if your self worth lies within your penis size, then I am truly sorry for you as it is but one part of your complete person.

I have nothing to offer anyone, so I don't really deserve the 'all due respect'. I am not gonna bother posting here anymore, no point.

Bye

 

[Ladybird]

A moment of honesty...

Wickywoowoo... I've been reading this thread and I can't help but post.

As I read it you're insecure around women because of the size of your penis.

I've got a couple of things I'd like to share with you.

First... I had a lover a few years ago who was a tall and well built man. He's very attractive and has a lovely deep voice that belongs in radio. He is confident and flirts with every woman he meets. He also has a 3inch penis.

The size of his cock has nothing to do with his attitude and manner.

Second... you may have read some of my posts around here. I love to flirt and tease. I've posted pics of my breasts on several threads. I come across as confident and self assured. Because I am.

What you don't know, is that I have weight to loose, a stomach covered in stretch marks from my pregnancies, as well as some very ugly surgical scars.

I don't allow that disfigurement to affect my manner or outlook. I flirt and tease here, because I enjoy it. I also have lovers in real life. They make love to me not because of my body, but because of how I use it, and the enthusiasm with which I use it.

Don't you get it? How you look.. be it your penis or your belly, doesn't matter. It's your attitude that does.

You really sound as though you have a chip on your shoulder. Sit down and think seriously as to what it is. I don't think it's your penis at all... I'm guessing it's something much deeper.

If you want to PM me to talk about any of this... feel free. I'm friendly and approachable. And I care.

 

[knightstalker]

I don't know how much you care about this guy ..If you care or love him and see a future lie but if you are only playing around with him then tell him the truth ...Only my two cents ..hope all works out for you but I don't get how this guy could possiable think he has a huge cock when it fits into such a small hand ...

 

[Wickywoowoo]

Re: A moment of honesty...

Wickywoowoo... I've been reading this thread and I can't help but post.

As I read it you're insecure around women because of the size of your penis.

I've got a couple of things I'd like to share with you.

First... I had a lover a few years ago who was a tall and well built man. He's very attractive and has a lovely deep voice that belongs in radio. He is confident and flirts with every woman he meets. He also has a 3inch penis.

The size of his cock has nothing to do with his attitude and manner.

Second... you may have read some of my posts around here. I love to flirt and tease. I've posted pics of my breasts on several threads. I come across as confident and self assured. Because I am.

What you don't know, is that I have weight to loose, a stomach covered in stretch marks from my pregnancies, as well as some very ugly surgical scars.

I don't allow that disfigurement to affect my manner or outlook. I flirt and tease here, because I enjoy it. I also have lovers in real life. They make love to me not because of my body, but because of how I use it, and the enthusiasm with which I use it.

Don't you get it? How you look.. be it your penis or your belly, doesn't matter. It's your attitude that does.

You really sound as though you have a chip on your shoulder. Sit down and think seriously as to what it is. I don't think it's your penis at all... I'm guessing it's something much deeper.

If you want to PM me to talk about any of this... feel free. I'm friendly and approachable. And I care.

I have a chip on my shoulder, self loathing people who hate who they are have a chip on there shoulder??

I just don't like the fact women think they can do what they want just cause they are women, they dont like guys acting like scum bags yet they do it themselves.

I don't think I deserve anyone, but guys WHO DO that don't get anyone cause of penis size get a really bad deal, cause they are usually the guys worth the effort, cause they makes them insecure, so they try to please at every turn, they are the guys who apprecitate what they do have, they are usually the ones worth having

 

[SlickTony]

[QUOTEbuild and penis size are not related.]

To Fanzee--it has been my experience most of the time that it has been. But, as I admitted previously, I might not have as much experience as some people.

And really, I would prefer a man to be a cunning linguist than be hung like a horse.

Damn, I haven't been able to figure out how that quote thingy works yet.

 

[Pervert]

This new guy is barely the length of my hand and I'm only a little over 5 feet. Should I lie and protect his ego or just tell him the truth?? Help me please.

Get a large dildo 8"-10" and the next time he's alone with you ask him to use it on you so that you can have fun too.

 

[fanzee1]

[QUOTEbuild and penis size are not related.]

To Fanzee--it has been my experience most of the time that it has been. But, as I admitted previously, I might not have as much experience as some people.

And really, I would prefer a man to be a cunning linguist than be hung like a horse.

Damn, I haven't been able to figure out how that quote thingy works yet.

well, i think it's safe to say that if you have any experience having sex w/men at all that you have more experience than me. I just know that i have seen some little duds in porn movies hung like crazy. Also, i have read in medical texts that build and penis size aren't related. That information is, of course, second-hand though. My own build is pretty big, and i'm usually told i'm slightly longer than average and a lot thicker, so i guess that supports your position. I can tell you, however, that some guys who are friends of mine break this pattern, both ways.

Hmmm, perhaps we could start a thread here w/an informal survey on the topic. But would folks be honest? Hmmm.

 

[SlickTony]

I have heard that those little guys in the porno movies wear extensions of some kind.

 

[Wickywoowoo]

well, i think it's safe to say that if you have any experience having sex w/men at all that you have more experience than me. I just know that i have seen some little duds in porn movies hung like crazy. Also, i have read in medical texts that build and penis size aren't related. That information is, of course, second-hand though. My own build is pretty big, and i'm usually told i'm slightly longer than average and a lot thicker, so i guess that supports your position. I can tell you, however, that some guys who are friends of mine break this pattern, both ways.

Hmmm, perhaps we could start a thread here w/an informal survey on the topic. But would folks be honest? Hmmm.

Yeah, a poll or something, finding out guys overall size & penis size, seeing what is average & if there is a relationship in build & cock size. That would be insightful

 

[Fun4Wolfgang]

Yeah, a poll or something, finding out guys overall size & penis size, seeing what is average & if there is a relationship in build & cock size. That would be insightful

Go for it. Put it out there and we will come answering!

 

[Wickywoowoo]

Go for it. Put it out there and we will come answering!

I dunno what to say in it, someone else do it, I can't make polls anyway, I get stuck on what to do

 

[Don K Dyck]

I Doubt It.

Ladies that orgasm from penetrative sex alone are in a minority

That's good to know. I used to be able to do it, but I had to be in this one particular female-superior position, and I had to be stoned; and now the stoner period of my life is far behind me. I've got to have my clit stimulated, and since I know exactly what feels good, the stimulation is mostly done by me. I hate to think of finding myself out in the field again--I have this notion, which I hope is irrational, that the world out there is full of women who can achieve no-hands orgasms, and the next guy I fuck is going to think it's weird that my clit needs some direct action. I'd like to think that women who don't need any "help" are no more common than 10" dicks--and really, truly, I'll believe one if I see it.

Hi SlickTony,

I think that the number of ladies who enjoy multiple simultaneous pleasuring is directly proportional to the number of men who know how to do it. When a woman is lying back in the miss position the clit receives very little stimulation from the penis 'cos the angles are all wrong. However, it certainly excites the scene when some clitoral stimulation is added to a thorough deep thrusting.

The same principle applies to pussy passion. It seems that clit nibbling is extremely exciting, but an added internal finger stimulating the G-spot justs blows her mind. The "Try this and Tell Me" thread has some interesting comments on this technique.

If man has two hands and a cock then why can't he use all three simultanoeusly to stimulate a woman to ecstasy? It's fun!!

 

[Don K Dyck]

Missed Opportunity

Size is only a issue if you make it one ladies fall in love for what you are not what you have swinging between your legs.

More to life and love then sex.

Ladies that orgasm from penetrative sex alone are in a minority so in regards to that how can size make any differnce. ?

Why would you only want to EXCLUSIVELY use penetrative sex while lovemaking? What a waste of a glorious opportunnity! Surely it would be better to stimulate her whole body AND mind, that way you will get much greater satisfaction.

 

[Wickywoowoo]

Well, for people like me, having the chance to try out ways of pleasing women is impossible

 

[Svenskaflicka]

Penis size

Gosh, I remember once when I was going to bed with this guy who - I swear this is the truth - had only 3" when fully erect.

My first reaction was to ask him:

"What has happened? Where's the rest of it?"

But I managed to bite my tongue and keep quiet. He had to make it up to me, though, with 5 rounds in a row that night. The weird part was that he was really proud of it, and actually thought that he was well-equipped.

We didn't part as friends, but that was another story. As we had our last fight, he insulted me, and as a revenge, I told him the truth, that I had never seen a man with such a short dick in my entire life. Can you believe it that he was actually surprised to hear this?

Who the f**k had been filling his head with stupid lies about him being well-equipped? And why? It was not as if he was nice enough to deserve women being kind to him...

 

[SlickTony]

Hi, Svenskaflicka! (FWIW, my dad's dad's side of the family came from Horby). Really, only 3"? That seems as hard to believe as the other extreme, not that I'm saying I don't believe you. How was it in the girth department?

 

[Wickywoowoo]

Re: Penis size

Gosh, I remember once when I was going to bed with this guy who - I swear this is the truth - had only 3" when fully erect.

My first reaction was to ask him:

"What has happened? Where's the rest of it?"

But I managed to bite my tongue and keep quiet. He had to make it up to me, though, with 5 rounds in a row that night. The weird part was that he was really proud of it, and actually thought that he was well-equipped.

We didn't part as friends, but that was another story. As we had our last fight, he insulted me, and as a revenge, I told him the truth, that I had never seen a man with such a short dick in my entire life. Can you believe it that he was actually surprised to hear this?

Who the f**k had been filling his head with stupid lies about him being well-equipped? And why? It was not as if he was nice enough to deserve women being kind to him...

What is your problem, you insult him cause he has a small penis?? Fair enough if you insult him for having a bad attitude, but for something he can't help?? Your pathetic

You are what I am talking about, what makes you think your better than the guy to have the right to insult him cause of that?? I would really like to know this.

People like you put me off humans more than I already am right now. You implied he didn't treat you nice, well, me & some guys I know treat people they way they treat us, so think of that next time Ms. Size Queen

 

[knightstalker]

Re: Re: Penis size

What is your problem, you insult him cause he has a small penis?? Fair enough if you insult him for having a bad attitude, but for something he can't help?? Your pathetic

You are what I am talking about, what makes you think your better than the guy to have the right to insult him cause of that?? I would really like to know this.

People like you put me off humans more than I already am right now. You implied he didn't treat you nice, well, me & some guys I know treat people they way they treat us, so think of that next time Ms. Size Queen

Sheeesh buddy back off a bit this isn't a thread to post vents and rants at ..I have a decent sized penis and have had women in the heat of battle tell me it iwas small or i am lousy in bed but so what they try to get you where it hurts your manhood ..She has a right to post what she feels like as does everyone here ....You will see there will be many comments you do not agree with so do not answer them if they are not directed at you ..There will be threads on subjects you may find offensive so just stay out of them remember where you are ....Try to be a bit more friendly and you will be welcomed here with open arms bud ..Take care and have a great day

 

[Wickywoowoo]

I don't care that she insulted him, it's the fact that she seemed to use that as a main reason?? I bet she would moan if he was like "your tits are too small"

Find valid reasons to insult people, big egos' annoying personalities, they can all be changed, dick size can't, so I would think a pretty low person would use that as an insult

Then again, every female I know has insulted me cause of mine, doesn't give me a good impression of females.

I am not ranting, I just asking why females use it as a reason to make a man feel like shit??

btw, I have the right to post what I want, like her, so tough if you think this is a rant, I just wanna know why females act superior when a guy has a small penis

 

[knightstalker]

You are right you have the right to post what you want ..I admit I was wrong ...I just hate to see a fight start here is all...I just do not see what the big deal is I have got into fights before with a girlfriend and harsh words are said with usually end up hitting someone where it hurts ...I am not above thois myself if I am told I suck in bed then I tell them it is because they are whatever comes to mind ...This is all I have to say on this so post away and try to have a good day ...

 

[Wickywoowoo]

I live in a small town, and EVERY female makes fun of me cause of penis size, every single girl I know. All because one girl walked into my PE changing room when I was showering in school after a very muddy game of Rugby one day.

She saw it, told every girl I & her know, and no I have no hope of finding someone, all because of females thinking they are superior.

I don't want to fight, I just don't see why females say all this, then when a guy says something, she moans & everyone sticks up for her, and if there married, she tried for divorce & half his posessions

I don't see how they can do that, are males not good enough to have people care about there feelings?? Doesn't seem like I am anyway

 

[buckminsterfutt]

Buy a little ruler just with centimeters. Give it to your current little boy toy and tell him its in inches. He'll have the proof he needs so much. At least the poor pathetic worthless little dude won't be bothering you as much. Hey, it not his fault he's insecure -- he's got a dinky little one -- what do you expect?

What ever else you do don't giggle, look at it and say "It looks just like a penis - only smaller" any more...


I'm afraid you'll still be thinking about Mr. Big constantly.

Wanna know why?

Basic male physics - the universe revolves around our cocks.

Woman just can't help themselves. Its gravitational attraction. Issac Newton proved it. It's all very scientific. Calculus ya know.
Trust me, I'm an engineer.

 

[fanzee1]

Oh please. This is getting to be pathetic. Wicky, tons of folks have tried to help you but you have to meet folks halfway. Quit wallowing in pity and get on w/living.

Enough already.

I live in a small town, and EVERY female makes fun of me cause of penis size, every single girl I know. All because one girl walked into my PE changing room when I was showering in school after a very muddy game of Rugby one day.

She saw it, told every girl I & her know, and no I have no hope of finding someone, all because of females thinking they are superior.

I don't want to fight, I just don't see why females say all this, then when a guy says something, she moans & everyone sticks up for her, and if there married, she tried for divorce & half his posessions

I don't see how they can do that, are males not good enough to have people care about there feelings?? Doesn't seem like I am anyway