Penis Size Dilema

[Wickywoowoo]

That is what we all say.

Put us in a nude lineup, who do you think the woman are going to pick?

True, you have 2 guys, exactly the same personality, looks, everything, identical twins, except 1 is 9 inch, the other is 5 inch, I wonder who would be chose.

Dick size is NOT like breast size, breasts are not important in sex, nowhere near as important as the penis anyway.

Females just lie & say it is not important just to keep us hpapy, but if an argument happens, you can bet there are plenty of 'come up short' & 'lack of manhood' remarks.

 

[SlickTony]

I'll believe breast size doesn't matter that much when I stop seeing so damn many stories where women seem to have DD cup size.

The second man I ever had asked me how I compared, size-wise, to my first husband. I honestly forget what I told him, it was such a long time ago, but I didn't think it mattered that much.

 

[Wickywoowoo]

I'll believe breast size doesn't matter that much when I stop seeing so damn many stories where women seem to have DD cup size.

The second man I ever had asked me how I compared, size-wise, to my first husband. I honestly forget what I told him, it was such a long time ago, but I didn't think it mattered that much.

ok, some stupid guys like big boobs (I don't), but if a girl doesn't have big boobs, does that mean the guy won't feel anything & not be satisfied?? NO

If a guy has a small dick, does that mean the girl won't feel anything & won't be satisfied, YES. Size matters, why can't people just admit it. I have a small dick, but at least I know I am not as good as others cause of it

 

[SlickTony]

Well, you know how the old song goes--"it's not the meat, it's the motion..."

 

[Fun4Wolfgang]

I know I'm not the biggest...and I know I'm not the smallest, but my wife LOVES the way I use it. Enough said!!!

 

[SailorC272002]

Well, you know how the old song goes--"it's not the meat, it's the motion..."

But, have you noticed how silent the ladies have become on the thread. They know they prefer, or would at least like to try 8 inches of manmeat. But most of them are trying to not hurt our egos.

 

[Wickywoowoo]

But, have you noticed how silent the ladies have become on the thread. They know they prefer, or would at least like to try 8 inches of manmeat. But most of them are trying to not hurt our egos.

Yeah, but I would rather a girl came right out & said my dick is too small to satisfy, at least she is honest & has the guts to tell the truth, instead of this 'size doesn't matter, it's what you do with it'

Then the argument happens & they are all like 'I will find a real man who can satisfy me', just be honest, tell guys if they are too small, they probably already know, I know I do

 

[beth-n-mike]

female chiming in ...


ok , men , we understaqnd you all think we think of nothing but your penis size when we regard you sexually...

while i am not one of the silly twits who says its not important..
i wont deny the fact that you tend to be way more hung up on it than women tend to be...

fact is the vagina stretches and contracts...

just cuase ex number 1 had a 10 inch dick , doesnt mean that current with , say 5 inches cant satisfy as well...

because after all, if youre between my legs with your tongue , and i am in mid orgasm , the last thing in my mind is how big yor cock is.....

now... playing devils advocate , and offering tips...
to men who are ... less than amply endowed.. if youre concerned your partner may not "feel" enough during sex, then go with doggy style , or her on top .. those are the deepest penetration positions...

ok, and please guys , remember there are NO nerves in the interior of the vagina. only on the outer 2 inches or so ....
the rest, is just a feeling of fullness, and perhaps bumping the cervix.. which is a feeling that, cant possibly be explained..
but , CAN be done with a small penis as well....

but , even that, far more important to a healthy relationship than penis size is communication ,empathy,honest and true concern about your partners pleasure, erotic touching, and foreplay, clitoral stimulation, g spot stimulation, labia stimulation... and last and least important , penetration

get over it , youre the ones with the penis, and you have my pity.

 

[Wickywoowoo]

female chiming in ...


ok , men , we understaqnd you all think we think of nothing but your penis size when we regard you sexually...

while i am not one of the silly twits who says its not important..
i wont deny the fact that you tend to be way more hung up on it than women tend to be...

fact is the vagina stretches and contracts...

just cuase ex number 1 had a 10 inch dick , doesnt mean that current with , say 5 inches cant satisfy as well...

because after all, if youre between my legs with your tongue , and i am in mid orgasm , the last thing in my mind is how big yor cock is.....

now... playing devils advocate , and offering tips...
to men who are ... less than amply endowed.. if youre concerned your partner may not "feel" enough during sex, then go with doggy style , or her on top .. those are the deepest penetration positions...

ok, and please guys , remember there are NO nerves in the interior of the vagina. only on the outer 2 inches or so ....
the rest, is just a feeling of fullness, and perhaps bumping the cervix.. which is a feeling that, cant possibly be explained..
but , CAN be done with a small penis as well....

but , even that, far more important to a healthy relationship than penis size is communication ,empathy,honest and true concern about your partners pleasure, erotic touching, and foreplay, clitoral stimulation, g spot stimulation, labia stimulation... and last and least important , penetration

get over it , youre the ones with the penis, and you have my pity.

ok, how would you feel if the sexual organ you were born with was not good enough, how would you feel if a guy had to take other ways to get off other than full penetration??

Guys were born with a penis for sex, & for some, that is not good enough, guys have a right to be stuck on it or depressed about it. I know it hasn't helped my mental state much.

Yes, we have fingers & tongues, & we are more than willing to use them, but we still get upset that we HAVE to use them to satisfy someone cause if we don't, they won't even tell we are trying.

Yes, we aren't totally hopeless in making love, but in our minds (at least for me anyway), we are not good enough, not adequte, not a man

 

[solid_]

I'm proud to be average.

I have often heard storys from ladys that have been with well endowned guys, they complain about the pain more often then say how pleasurable it was for them that cervix takes a hammering if the guys above say 7 inches.

So think of it this way if your average or under.

True ladies do have fantasys about being with a well hung guy and go weak legged and start frothing at the mouth when viewing pics of huge cocks. But the reaility is often differnt.

Am I right or wrong ? lets hear some replys on here from ladies that have been with well hung man in the 8+ inchs size.

 

[Wickywoowoo]

Why do they like looking at big ones & fantasize about them if they don't want them?? What is the point??

I still don't believe that they don't care, if they don't, why is that saying "size matters" so used then?? Why do they ALWAYS use it in fights?? Why do guys worry about it in the first place if it does not matter??

I just find it hypocritical they go on about how guys obsess with breast size when they have some guys absolutely terrified & too shy to go out & met women cause of there small penis & cause they worry about ridiculed.

Women moan about guys not helping them through there problems, well, it goes both ways

 

[huskie]

now... playing devils advocate , and offering tips...
to men who are ... less than amply endowed.. if youre concerned your partner may not "feel" enough during sex, then go with doggy style , or her on top .. those are the deepest penetration positions...

ok, and please guys , remember there are NO nerves in the interior of the vagina. only on the outer 2 inches or so ....
the rest, is just a feeling of fullness, and perhaps bumping the cervix.. which is a feeling that, cant possibly be explained..
but , CAN be done with a small penis as well....

ok???? I want to hear more women on this board agree to this statment. The women I have been with ALL prefered it DEEP. If thats so, then how could they not get pleasure from this?

 

[solid_]

Why do they like looking at big ones & fantasize about them if they don't want them?? What is the point??

I still don't believe that they don't care, if they don't, why is that saying "size matters" so used then?? Why do they ALWAYS use it in fights?? Why do guys worry about it in the first place if it does not matter??

I just find it hypocritical they go on about how guys obsess with breast size when they have some guys absolutely terrified & too shy to go out & met women cause of there small penis & cause they worry about ridiculed.

Women moan about guys not helping them through there problems, well, it goes both ways

Guys worry about size because in every porn movie or picture the guy is hung like king kong these man are freaks and not the norm.

only about 9% of the male population have penis size above 8 inches.

Same reason alot of ladys at one stage strive to be slim and skinny just like the glamour models.

People feel inferior if they dont match up to the mainstream images that are in papers/telly.

 

[Wickywoowoo]

Guys worry about size because in every porn movie or picture the guy is hung like king kong these man are freaks and not the norm.

only about 9% of the male population have penis size above 8 inches.

Same reason alot of ladys at one stage strive to be slim and skinny just like the glamour models.

People feel inferior if they dont match up to the mainstream images that are in papers/telly.

I don't care about the porn stars, I know they are not normal, I am just on about the way females keep up the impression that bigger is better, yet moan if some sleazeball says the same about breasts.

I don't get why they can find all the insults when needed, yet 99% of the time, they are all nice & kind & talking all this crap about the motion in the ocean, like fancy sayings will make the guy feel better.

I know females have similar problems, but males are supposed to help them with thiers, then they take the piss out of us for ours, I don't see why

 

[solid_]

I don't care about the porn stars, I know they are not normal, I am just on about the way females keep up the impression that bigger is better, yet moan if some sleazeball says the same about breasts.

I don't get why they can find all the insults when needed, yet 99% of the time, they are all nice & kind & talking all this crap about the motion in the ocean, like fancy sayings will make the guy feel better.

I know females have similar problems, but males are supposed to help them with thiers, then they take the piss out of us for ours, I don't see why

I now what your saying there when in a argument with a g/f they will hit you with the undersized penis jibe. They do it because they now its one sure way to hurt us and deflate are ego ( over inflated at times). When im in a argument that as gone that low I usally come back with "There nothing wrong with my size you just have a bucket cunt."

Women now are fears and worrys about size better then we do, lol.

 

[Wickywoowoo]

Yeah, that is part of what I mean aswell, they do that in arguments, they also do it with there friends behind our back in 'girl chats', yet if a guy mentions breast size, he is a male chauvinist pig.

Females say it doesn't matter, then say it does, then it doesn't, then it does, so on & so on. How are males supposed to believe it doesn't matter when everywhere they go, it is all "bigger is better"

Females have the same problem, yet want us to help them & not worry about our problems, then if we don't do something right, the insults come again.

I honestly can't be bothered with females anymore, they are just worse than males when it comes to lies

 

[fanzee1]

female chiming in ...


ok , men , we understaqnd you all think we think of nothing but your penis size when we regard you sexually...

while i am not one of the silly twits who says its not important..
i wont deny the fact that you tend to be way more hung up on it than women tend to be...

fact is the vagina stretches and contracts...

just cuase ex number 1 had a 10 inch dick , doesnt mean that current with , say 5 inches cant satisfy as well...

because after all, if youre between my legs with your tongue , and i am in mid orgasm , the last thing in my mind is how big yor cock is.....

now... playing devils advocate , and offering tips...
to men who are ... less than amply endowed.. if youre concerned your partner may not "feel" enough during sex, then go with doggy style , or her on top .. those are the deepest penetration positions...

ok, and please guys , remember there are NO nerves in the interior of the vagina. only on the outer 2 inches or so ....
the rest, is just a feeling of fullness, and perhaps bumping the cervix.. which is a feeling that, cant possibly be explained..
but , CAN be done with a small penis as well....

but , even that, far more important to a healthy relationship than penis size is communication ,empathy,honest and true concern about your partners pleasure, erotic touching, and foreplay, clitoral stimulation, g spot stimulation, labia stimulation... and last and least important , penetration

get over it , youre the ones with the penis, and you have my pity.

No need to pity me for having a penis, thank you very much. I will say this though, to the guys who have been on this thread lamenting their relative lack of size, pay heed to what this woman says. She may have been a little rude about it but here's advice you can use!

 

[fanzee1]

ok, how would you feel if the sexual organ you were born with was not good enough, how would you feel if a guy had to take other ways to get off other than full penetration??

Guys were born with a penis for sex, & for some, that is not good enough, guys have a right to be stuck on it or depressed about it. I know it hasn't helped my mental state much.

Yes, we have fingers & tongues, & we are more than willing to use them, but we still get upset that we HAVE to use them to satisfy someone cause if we don't, they won't even tell we are trying.

Yes, we aren't totally hopeless in making love, but in our minds (at least for me anyway), we are not good enough, not adequte, not a man

man, you have to get over that. You really do. All of us have characteristics that make us insecure. This, obviously is your big issue. I'm not trying to give you a rough time but, in your own self-interest, get over it. You have a long life ahead of you and if you chuck in all hope that you can feel like a man sexually now, that really doesn't bode well for the future.

I haven't checked your profile but i'm assuming you are a pretty young guy. I can tell you that most young guys are very insecure about sexual prowess until they get some experience, no matter how well they are hung.

Simply put, it gets better with experience and age. Chin up!
Geez.

 

[fanzee1]

I still don't believe that they don't care, if they don't, why is that saying "size matters" so used then?? Why do they ALWAYS use it in fights?? Why do guys worry about it in the first place if it does not matter??

I just find it hypocritical they go on about how guys obsess with breast size when they have some guys absolutely terrified & too shy to go out & met women cause of there small penis & cause they worry about ridiculed.

Women moan about guys not helping them through there problems, well, it goes both ways

Wicky, an observation, i think the reason women may have used this point in fights with you is obvious. If they're in an argument with you, then they are going to say things they know will hurt you. And it's obvious to anyone reading this that size is a hotbutton issue for you. That makes you an easy target for such barbs.

 

[Wickywoowoo]

man, you have to get over that. You really do. All of us have characteristics that make us insecure. This, obviously is your big issue. I'm not trying to give you a rough time but, in your own self-interest, get over it. You have a long life ahead of you and if you chuck in all hope that you can feel like a man sexually now, that really doesn't bode well for the future.

I haven't checked your profile but i'm assuming you are a pretty young guy. I can tell you that most young guys are very insecure about sexual prowess until they get some experience, no matter how well they are hung.

Simply put, it gets better with experience and age. Chin up!
Geez.

Actually, my bi-polar syndrome is my big 'hang-up', but penis size is something that pisses me off aswell.

I know you are all helping & putting in your point of views, but I just can't believe that it doesn't matter, I dunno what will make me believe it doesn't either

 

[fanzee1]

Actually, my bi-polar syndrome is my big 'hang-up', but penis size is something that pisses me off aswell.

I know you are all helping & putting in your point of views, but I just can't believe that it doesn't matter, I dunno what will make me believe it doesn't either

it's not about whether or not it matters. It's about what you're going to do in response. You can't change your penis size and you can't change what some people consider sexy. So your only real option is to change the way you approach the situation. No matter what your ethnicity is, there are women who won't want anything to do with you just because of that. You don't let that stop you from dating, do ya? No. You find ones who like you. Same basic idea is at work here on the "size matters," tip.

 

[wellnow]

Is it really this complicated? From what I've read here at Lit, I have more or less understood that:

• for cock size, it is about thickness rather than length. It seems that big to a man is long and to a women it is thick.
• women are partial to a big cock when there isn't a relationship and they just need to fuck.
• all things being equal between men they prefer the guy with the largest cock. (As a lady from lit posted some time back, "that is seldom the case" - that they are equal. So there is hope for the less endowed
• In most cases, intelect, manners, tenderness, love, etc. take precedence over penis size for a long term relationship, at least.

One thing that I do hate is the patronizing "size doesn't matter" and "yours is the biggest", etc.

That just reduces the trust factor between the man and women and can weigh heavily on the relationship.

Why can't women be honest and if they like a man, teach him to push her sexual buttons just like she might teach to dance. Maybe penis size could become a non-issue.

 

[Wickywoowoo]

it's not about whether or not it matters. It's about what you're going to do in response. You can't change your penis size and you can't change what some people consider sexy. So your only real option is to change the way you approach the situation. No matter what your ethnicity is, there are women who won't want anything to do with you just because of that. You don't let that stop you from dating, do ya? No. You find ones who like you. Same basic idea is at work here on the "size matters," tip.

I am scottish & white, what do you mean 'ethnicity'?? I didn't know that was a problem. Bi-Polar syndrome is a mental illness, depression causing anger & violent spells, that is my main problem, but having a small dick doesn't help.

I know what you all mean though, I just won't ever 'get over' the problem

 

[SlickTony]

perhaps bumping the cervix.. which is a feeling that, cant possibly be explained..
but , CAN be done with a small penis as well....

In fact, it's BETTER done with a small penis, because if it's done with a BIG one it HURTS. My second man wasn't nearly as long as my first, but I just loved it when he slammed it in, because it bumped my cervix just right; if a guy with a longer cock had done that, it would have been nothing but painful.

For the benefit of the guys who cite women bringing up their dick size in the midst of a quarrel, I have NEVER done that.

Based on my experience, I can say that if it's exceptionally long, you can't mount the man while sitting straight up, because it pushes at your cervix too much; I'd sooner rub and grind in a sort of elliptical pattern on a wide one.

There was one guy I knew during my college years that was pretty big, he might have been 9" or so; I'm certain that of all of them, he had the biggest one. I'm here to tell you, he not only HAD a big prick, he WAS a big prick, so really while size might matter somewhat, it doesn't matter that much.

 

[Wickywoowoo]

perhaps bumping the cervix.. which is a feeling that, cant possibly be explained..
but , CAN be done with a small penis as well....

In fact, it's BETTER done with a small penis, because if it's done with a BIG one it HURTS. My second man wasn't nearly as long as my first, but I just loved it when he slammed it in, because it bumped my cervix just right; if a guy with a longer cock had done that, it would have been nothing but painful.

For the benefit of the guys who cite women bringing up their dick size in the midst of a quarrel, I have NEVER done that.

Based on my experience, I can say that if it's exceptionally long, you can't mount the man while sitting straight up, because it pushes at your cervix too much; I'd sooner rub and grind in a sort of elliptical pattern on a wide one.

There was one guy I knew during my college years that was pretty big, he might have been 9" or so; I'm certain that of all of them, he had the biggest one. I'm here to tell you, he not only HAD a big prick, he WAS a big prick, so really while size might matter somewhat, it doesn't matter that much.

Ok, if it matters somewhat, that means that passionate, caring guys have to work even harder than they should to please someone they really care about.

And if they aren't nearly as good as the big 10 incher she had last time, she moans about 'pindick is shit in bed' & all that.

Females can't understand that about it, breasts are useless in sex, so that doesn't matter, so they can't compare or tell how it feels for guys, and then they give them advice & tell them it doesn't matter, not knowing the guy knows & has been told different & he will never believe it