Penis Size Dilema

[Tempest173]

I've recently met a guy and we've done a few orals on each other and he's convinced that his penis is huge. However I've seen much better (not to mention bigger). Not only his he completley clueless he wants me to admit that he's bigger than my ex. That's IMPOSSIBLE!!!!!!! My ex was about ten inches and really thick. This new guy is barely the length of my hand and I'm only a little over 5 feet. Should I lie and protect his ego or just tell him the truth?? Help me please.

 

[Bindii]

Why should you lie? I certainly wouldn't!

Its not to say that you should tell him that he's too small etc etc etc...I mean don't be nasty about it but be honest.
Next time he asks tell him that no he isn't bigger than your previous boyfriend - but that it's also not important to you.

You can't pretend that he's something he's not just to protect his ego.

 

[exvitermini]

If you love him, wtf do you care if he wants to believe he is bigger than your ex? Lie.

he's obviously got issues with inadequacy and he'll have to work them out.

You seem also to have some issues with "tarnishing" the memory of your ex. Obviously you haven't let go of that ten incher just yet.

 

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[Chuckwrox]

Truth

Tell him the truth! You could tell him at the same time something about how good he is with it, but don't lie to him. Maybe someone else lied to him and now he thinks he's as big as they get.

Why do women make such terrible carpenters?

Because they've always been told things like the size of this guy's cock is 10"!

 

[Tempest173]

thanx you guys. i guess your'e all right, and no i haven't really gotten over mr. ten incher!

 

[ilovewriting]

I've recently met a guy and we've done a few orals on each other and he's convinced that his penis is huge. However I've seen much better (not to mention bigger). Not only his he completley clueless he wants me to admit that he's bigger than my ex. That's IMPOSSIBLE!!!!!!! My ex was about ten inches and really thick. This new guy is barely the length of my hand and I'm only a little over 5 feet. Should I lie and protect his ego or just tell him the truth?? Help me please.

I have the oposite problem, i dont think im big but my gf things im HUGE!!
I say dont lie.
He sounds really full of himself, so it cant hurt taking him down a notch or two, if he is really interested in you he want go totally ballistic at you or anything.
At the same time dont tell him he is the smallest guy on earth or anything, just use common sense.

 

[SailorC272002]

Trust me he already knows his size.

Every guy has measured himself.

Stroke his ego.

 

[SallyIsHere]

truth

Tell him the truth in a nice but honest way and move on to creating a great sex life. Fretting over inches is pretty shallow even for humans. You can't build a relationship around a 10 inch dick or D cup breasts. If you want something huge in you, go buy a squash.

Sally

 

[SailorC272002]

The truth.

He can't handle the truth.

He already knows. All truth is not good. Much like a guy asked the following questions:

1. Am I fat?
2. Do you like my hair?
3. Is she cute?

They are all dangerous questions that have to be answered very carefully and never wrong.

 

[Fun4Wolfgang]

Does he satisfy you? Do you like what he has to offer and more importantly, what he does with it?

Is he going to be hurt if you tell him the truth? Are you looking for something long term?

If he can't handle the truth, then I'd get OUT!!!

Just my opinion, by the way....

 

[princessa]

i'll give some more unwanted advice with all the other replies you have...

you're NOT his ego stroker/babysitter...

i'd go for someone more secure and hopefully mature enough not to ask or even mention your ex...

your response the next time he asks? something similar to the point of - are my breast nicer than your ex's, my bj technique, etc, etc...

 

[ilovewriting]

Yes dont even mention your ex.
It is rude anyway, and most partners, guys or girls, dont like hearing about their lovers exes.

 

[fanzee1]

thanx you guys. i guess your'e all right, and no i haven't really gotten over mr. ten incher!

well then why are you wasting time with mr. "mypenisisthelargestinalltheland"?

Just curious.

 

[weathered2]

I've recently met a guy and we've done a few orals on each other and he's convinced that his penis is huge. However I've seen much better (not to mention bigger). Not only his he completley clueless he wants me to admit that he's bigger than my ex. That's IMPOSSIBLE!!!!!!! My ex was about ten inches and really thick. This new guy is barely the length of my hand and I'm only a little over 5 feet. Should I lie and protect his ego or just tell him the truth?? Help me please.

Get him to sign up here and look around a while. He'll figure out where he "stands" pretty quickly.

 

[LusciousRedLips]

Just say "no"

Some things just don't need to be discussed in a relationship. Your previous sexual encounters is one of them.

Next time he asks, tell him you would prefer not to discuss your ex-lover and then don't.

 

[SlickTony]

The question is not necessarily whether anyone can handle the truth, but can they handle 10".

 

[LusciousRedLips]

HeHeHe

The question is not necessarily whether anyone can handle the truth, but can they handle 10".

Good one, Slick!

 

[Amfig]

The truth.

He can't handle the truth.

He already knows. All truth is not good. Much like a guy asked the following questions:

1. Am I fat?
2. Do you like my hair?
3. Is she cute?

They are all dangerous questions that have to be answered very carefully and never wrong.

He does know the truth. He cannot handle it. Cock size is the biggest cause of masculine insecurity.

You can't answer those questions carefully and ever be right! Just like the question: Do these jeans make my ass look fat?

The only answer is "I have the right to remain silent. Anything I say can and will be used against me." Forget the attorney stuff. Attorneys can't answer tose questions either. I know. In r/l, I am one.

 

[fanzee1]

He does know the truth. He cannot handle it. Cock size is the biggest cause of masculine insecurity.

You can't answer those questions carefully and ever be right! Just like the question: Do these jeans make my ass look fat?

The only answer is "I have the right to remain silent. Anything I say can and will be used against me." Forget the attorney stuff. Attorneys can't answer tose questions either. I know. In r/l, I am one.

yeah, what they said. although i would say overall sexual prowess is a bigger cause of insecurity than just penis size. that's just a part of it.


I, of course, have supreme, unshakeable confidence in my abilities

 

[SlickTony]

The opinion expressed by Esme, the narrator of my story "Carnival" on dick size, pretty much sums up mine.

 

[liloleme]

I can understand your dilemma. Sounds like the guy you're with is a jerk though. I've been with guys of all shapes and sizes. Rarely have I ever had men ask me if they were bigger than my exes. In the cases that they have, I am honest with them if they are larger. If not? Well, I don't want to lie, nor do I want to bruise their ego (although your guy sounds like he needs a little bruising). So I simply told them that I didn't want to be compared to their exes, and they shouldn't expect me to compare them to mine.

Good luck. And I hope for your sake that this is the only area of your relationship where he's an egotistical jerk.

 

[Wickywoowoo]

....

Seems like your not happy with a small penis. You seem to not like the fact he is smaller than your ex with 10 inches. Penis is a cause of male insecurity, it has added to my bi-polar syndrome a lot.

Tell him he is not bigger & get over yourself & your ex who was big, not everyone is a horse. Not everyone with a small penis is like him.

Most of us feel like shit cause of all the 'size matters' crap females start

 

[solid_]

Size is just a measurment its how you use it that matters.

 

[SailorC272002]

Size is just a measurment its how you use it that matters.

That is what we all say.

Put us in a nude lineup, who do you think the woman are going to pick?