penis sensitivity

[RockSteadyGuy]

i know that alot of guys have problems with cumming too quick, but my problem is juet the opposite.
It takes me awhile to cum during sex, and i cant cum at all from oral or handjobs.

me and my current partner have not had sex yet(she is still a virgin) and it is really making her upset that i can't cum from her blowjobs.

does anybody know a way that i can increase the sensitivity in my penis so that i can get off faster? thanks

 

[gregor2001us]

If you are circumcised, then restoring your foreskin can do wonders....

 

[SweetErika]

How much do you masturbate? Do you use a very firm grip?

Are you on any medications?

Reducing the frequency and stimulation of masturbation is likely to re-sensitize you. Try not masturbating for a few days to a week before you get together with your gf, and see if that has an impact. You can also masturbate far more lightly than usual, use lube, practice masturbating with a condom on, and masturbate until you're really aroused, but not let yourself come until you're w/ your partner.

Once you get coming with her down, you can play around with your masturbation style and frequency to find a good balance for you. Coming with her will also likely help you get over the mental hurdle - you'll prove to yourself you CAN be stimulated to orgasm from oral, handjobs, etc., so it'll probably get easier and easier as time goes on.

Give her plenty of feedback, too - show her how you tend to masturbate, tell/show her what you want and really like.

Some medications can make it difficult-impossible to come. Psychiatric drugs are some of the main culprits when it comes to sexual side effects, so if you're on any meds or do drugs/alcohol, or even have a condition like Diabetes, I'd encourage you to talk to your doctor about your lack of sensitivity.