maybe with the masturbation thing its to do with making the effort. if you're just in bed having a 'duty wank' (sorry can't think of a better way of putting it) its more likely to be less intense than in a different environment,like the shower,or when ur making an effort,as during phone sex.
Just my quick thought of course but as in shared sex its often better if you make the time and spice it up a little. for me anyway.
Just my quick thought of course but as in shared sex its often better if you make the time and spice it up a little. for me anyway.
