Penis problem

[Eilan]

Because I think it looks too weird like that, and totally self-conscious about it. I just have this idea othat most girls would be totally turned off by it.

It looks the way it's supposed to look. I doubt if most ladies are turned on by flaccid dicks, anyway. I'm pretty indifferent to my husband's dick when it's not hard. It's just there. And sometimes it's longer when flaccid, but other times it looks like it's barely there. Go figure.

Sure, there are size queens out there, but a lot of ladies are attracted to the person before they find out what he's packing in his shorts.

 

[eXplorer63]

Well I am 6 and half hard and was really considering some external pills and stuff some time back.Read my thread 'What tool size is approprite'.
1.There are really good kind of pills availaible which promise you a lot of improvement.
2.If you go to the gym regularly,taking testosteorone injections may help.
However I am a virgin too at 21(other reasons) and i have not tried either of the two methods.Its better if you consider the stuff with a responsible eye.Wish you health.

I'm 6 inches hard and have no desire to make it bigger, I am what I am and sex isn't just about how far your dick can go, it's about tongue, fingers, hell it's about the emotional and spiritual side of a deep loving relationship.

A penis is a penis no matter what, they look the same and females and gay/bi males don't care about size, it's about the person they're with. And I'm also a virgin, 22 years old and a, quite proud to be the way I am.

 

[tanyachrs]

Because I think it looks too weird like that, and totally self-conscious about it. I just have this idea othat most girls would be totally turned off by it. And when erect, still way too small for them.

I can promise you that we don't care how big it is when it's soft. What would it be soft for anyway? As for whether it's "way too small" when erect, you'd have to give some measurements.

 

[SweetErika]

I'm 6 inches hard....

Then tell me this: Why is it cock threads encourage guys like you to advertise their size. Why not say, "I'm below/about/above average" if YOUR size is really relevant to the conversation?

I'm not just picking on you; anyone who's advertised their size here is welcome to explain why they feel the need to do so, especially all of you guys who say you're 7-8.5 inches (who knew Lit was such a hotbed of big cocks? ).




Good evening, Eilan.

 

[Eilan]

who knew Lit was such a hotbed of big cocks?

There is a correlation between online anonymity and cyber-cock size, dont'cha know?

Good evening, Eilan.

Good evening to you, lady. I'm being good in here, aren't I?

 

[BreeCarter]

Okay, I'll be perfectly honest, and admit I'm still a virgin, at 24. And the main reason why, is because I'm totally ashamed of my extremely small penis. If you've watched Howard Stern, you probably know what I'm talking about. The type of penis that's barely even there, when not erect.

Does anyone have any advice, or possibly guys who have the same type of penis, and somehow survived? Thanks.

sweetheart, i think i've been with the smallest penis ever, and prior to my husband it was the best sex i'd ever had, and i've had plenty. a small penis (contrary to popular belief) does not in fact matter unless you don't know how to use it. in your case, being a virgin, you learn by asking, trying, and continuing to want to learn more.

 

[BreeCarter]

Come on...you don't really believe there's a pill that makes your penis larger do you? Geez, there's one born every minute. The is no way to make you penis larger shy of surgery...and that's iffy.

true story.

 

[SweetErika]

Good evening to you, lady. I'm being good in here, aren't I?

Indeed. In fact, I've noticed the lack of snark of late. What's up with the self-restraint?

 

[sister76]

Okay, I'll be perfectly honest, and admit I'm still a virgin, at 24. And the main reason why, is because I'm totally ashamed of my extremely small penis. If you've watched Howard Stern, you probably know what I'm talking about. The type of penis that's barely even there, when not erect.

Does anyone have any advice, or possibly guys who have the same type of penis, and somehow survived? Thanks.

If I met a man with a smaller sized penis and we were really getting it on mentally I wouldn't give a shit, repeat WOULDN'T GIVE A SHIT! what size his penis was. Even if he didn't have one. Dude, size of a penis is just superficial shit in the realm of sex. Please get over it. I hope you do because there is no need! Actually there are a lot of women who really prefer small dicks. Women don't usually say that, though, because they don't want to offend guys or make them feel wierd. I would have no problem if I liked a guy and he had a small dick. My guy has an average size dick, and at times it has seemed too big. Just to let you know, there are women who like small dicks!

 

[Arrow2891]

Thank you very much Bree and Sister, for the encouraging thoughts.

 

[BreeCarter]

Thank you very much Bree and Sister, for the encouraging thoughts.

no prob sweetie. i know that there were so many stereotypes and shit and things that guys feel like they have to live up to, but those weren't put there by women. those were put there by men, and the women is the one who you're going to be with (asuming you're straight) and while there are a few who many believe that it's gotta be big, the rest of us (the majority obviously) don't care. first and foremost, it's personality, second it's chemistry. the size of your penis does not make chemistry, and in fact a big penis is actually a waste. quite frankly, i think a smaller one has the advantage. more likely to be able to get a girl off via g-spot during sex. and trust me, that's awesome.

 

[human_male]

I want to know how you got the idea that flaccid penis size is important?

Long as its obvious you're male, then what's it matter after that?

Oh shit!

 

[Eilan]

Indeed. In fact, I've noticed the lack of snark of late. What's up with the self-restraint?

Good question.

 

[eXplorer63]

Then tell me this: Why is it cock threads encourage guys like you to advertise their size. Why not say, "I'm below/about/above average" if YOUR size is really relevant to the conversation?

I'm not just picking on you; anyone who's advertised their size here is welcome to explain why they feel the need to do so, especially all of you guys who say you're 7-8.5 inches (who knew Lit was such a hotbed of big cocks? ).




Good evening, Eilan.

Actually I was stating my size just to prove a point, 6 is the average size and yet people still aren't satisfied, hell if I had a 3 inch cock when erect I'd still mention it just to say that size don't matter a jot.

 

[pedro_pinoy]

I have a 5-inch dick but I have screwed the brains of some women. A combination of 10 to 15 minutes of different tongue strokes of pussy eating and 30 to 45 minutes of fucking keep them coming back to me. I'm not bragging but I know how to control my orgasm while keeping my erection. By the way, I'm Asian and the women are also Asians.

 

[neo1970]

I have a 5-inch dick but I have screwed the brains of some women. A combination of 10 to 15 minutes of different tongue strokes of pussy eating and 30 to 45 minutes of fucking keep them coming back to me. I'm not bragging but I know how to control my orgasm while keeping my erection. By the way, I'm Asian and the women are also Asians.

I think you are right. Staying power and a hard dick is more important than a really big one. Too long then you hit the cervix. Too thick then you make her sour. Average dick(6"x1.6"), just above average dick(7.5"x1.8") and a dick just below average(5"x1.3") should satisfy a woman. But providing this satisfaction is not your responsibility. Women too are responsible to achieve their own orgasms in time. It is difficult for most men to stay on and on. I am also on a smaller size but it never caused me any problems to me or my wife. In fact it used to hurt her before our first child was born. Honest.

 

[izabella]

That sounds interesting. I'll look it up, thanks.

Hey - just ran across the same Dr. 90210 episode. They call it buried penis or hidden penis or concealed penis. The doc was saying it's not that uncommon, and he's done the surgery on quite a few men.

The guy also has a "peno scrotal web"

Both conditions are most often caused by over-aggressive circumcision.

 

[FaeryFire]

One of my fav quotes is: "I'd rather have comfortable sex with a great guy, than mind-blowing sex and nothing else"
Can't remember who said it, but it's so true.

There is actually fetish groups out there for women who really go for guys who are tiny or odd shaped, etc. I don't know a lot about it, but I saw an article in a magazine recently. I should look to see if they had any web addresses in there.

Seriously, don't worry about it. She's not much of a woman if that's all she is with you for.

My guy's penis retreats when soft, sometimes so far in that all you can see is a wrinkle of foreskin. I hadn't had another partner before him, so I actually thought that all guys dicks did this until recently. So if in doubt, find a clueless virgin! j/k.

 

[TBKahuna123]

Okay, I'll be perfectly honest, and admit I'm still a virgin, at 24. And the main reason why, is because I'm totally ashamed of my extremely small penis. If you've watched Howard Stern, you probably know what I'm talking about. The type of penis that's barely even there, when not erect.

Does anyone have any advice, or possibly guys who have the same type of penis, and somehow survived? Thanks.

Alright, I'll admit it, I can identify with this guy. When I was young I felt the same way, very embarassed about my size. If I'd taken the time to measure I might have realized that I was in fact average, but I never went that far. Still, while I didn't obsess about it, it defintely hurt my self confidence. Once I started dating and having physical contact, I realized that none of the ladies I was with were complaining, so I just kinda forgot about it.

It's deceptive though. You think that you MUST be below average because it looks so small when flacid. Later in life though, as I started really exploring the web and gathering sexual knowledge, i can across a very interesting site. I can't even recall where it was, but it was a medical study of sexuality, and one of the topics was penis size and the differences in flaccid to erect state. Did you know that if you took 10 guys who all had the same length of penis while erect, that all 10 would have different lengths when flaccid? A male with a 6 inch erect penis could be anywhere from 5 inches to 1 inch while flaccid. There's no correlation between flaccid size and errect size. Some guys simply get erect when blood flows into the penis, some guys grow substantially and become erect.

So what I'm saying is that just because your penis is tiny when flaccid, it doesn't matter. No woman who is interested in you is going to care about your penis size, especially when flaccid. As much as we tend to rag on guys cock size threads here, the reality is that we guys DO get hung up on it way more than we should. That's why we still get all the fucking penis enlargement spam, because SOMEONE out there is clicking those damn ads and throwing away their money.

So what should you do about your problem? Nothing, absolutely nothing. There's nothing you can do to make it bigger, so just go with it. Don't let it bother you, because it just doens't matter. If you want to compensate, make sure you know where the clit is, learn to communicate with your lover in bed, and become a master at cunnilligis. Trust me, spending your time learning to orally satisfy a woman better than any other human on the planet is a far better investment of your time, than trying to find ways to enlarge your penis. It will take you much further.

 

[tryptamine]

Ah, another "I'm embarassed about my dick" thread.

Listen man, the position that makes my girlfriend come most intensely only allows for about four inches (sometimes less) of penetration. The lesson to learn from this? Your dick size does not matter. It's all about skill.

I won't tell you what the position is...that's for you to discover in a mature and loving relationship with someone with whom you feel comfortable. But to feel comfortable with someone else, first you need to feel comfortable with yourself.

 

[Texguy84]

Um, just so you know... ALL of those pills that "promise" increased penis length and girth are garbage. ALL of them are a scam to get your money. And when they don't have the results that they promise, what man is going to have the guts to take the company to court and say, "They promised that these pills were going to make my tiny dick bigger. Well, my tiny dick is still tiny... I want my money back."?

Actually, even if you do go to court with them and say that, 90% of the time, your case will get thrown out of court. Turns out, most of these companies (at least the ones that stay around, and not the fly-by-night operations) never actually promise anything concrete. Witness the commercials with the obnoxiously cheerful Bob, who is happy (and his wife too!) because he takes Male Enhancement pills.

Note that at no point do they actually SAY that the pills make your penis harder or anything. If anything, they enhance your self-confidence (probably temporarily) cause you "know" the pills will make you hung like Chuck Norris any day now. Just lots of cheerful music, vague noncommital promises, and lots of visual innuendo. Just based on the visuals, the commercial seems to be saying more that the pills will improve your golf swing than that they'll do anything to you.

Anyhow, if one part of you isn't as big/good/whatever as you'd like, make up for it in other areas. Get REALLY good with your tongue (which, unlike your penis, CAN get bigger/longer, assuming you work it out regularly like you would any other muscle you wanted to make larger). Use your fingers to find that freaking G-Spot once and for all. Hell, just date girls with smaller vaginas (one person I've met online complains that anything more than 6 inches is a tight fit for her, and anything over 7 inches sends her running and screaming *away* from the guy.)

 

[eudaemonia]

Here's how I size a guy up in order of importance:

How engaged is his mind?

How open is his heart?

How big is his penis?

My ideal man would rank:
#1 Brains (humongous)
#2 Heart (expansive)
#3 Penis (healthy and functional)

Otherwise, he's just a dick with head.

 

[Arrow2891]

Hey - just ran across the same Dr. 90210 episode. They call it buried penis or hidden penis or concealed penis. The doc was saying it's not that uncommon, and he's done the surgery on quite a few men.

The guy also has a "peno scrotal web"

Both conditions are most often caused by over-aggressive circumcision.

Thanks for the info. I may look into it.

 

[Arrow2891]

Thanks you guys. You've really been a big confidence booster. Quite a bit of pressure has been taken off me.

I've got a couple of more questions.

For the people who have experienced these, When it comes to possible fuck buddies, or women who just want one night stands, do they usually prefer their guys big? I know now, most women in relationships, don't care about the size of your penis, if you like you enough, but what about the fuck buddies, and one night stands?

Next is a masturbation question. I've noticed 99% of the time, my orgasms from masturbation on my bed, are painfully average, sometimes even dull. Although a full bladder usually makes them a tad more enjoyable. The only times I have great ones, are from phone sex, or whenever I decide to do it in the shower. Can anyone relate to this, or have any advice?

Thanks.

 

[BreeCarter]

Thanks you guys. You've really been a big confidene booster. I've a couple of more questions.

For th people who have experienced these, When it comes to possible fuck buddies, or women who just want one night stands, do they usually prefer their guys big? I know now, most women in relationships, don't care about the size of your penis, if you like you enough, but what about the fuck buddies, and one night stands?

Next is a masturbation question. I've noticed 99% of the time, my orgasms from masturbation on my bed, are painfully average, sometimes even dull. Although a full bladder usually makes them a tad more enjoyable. The only times I have great ones, are from phone sex, or whenever I decide to do it in the shower. Can anyone relate to this, or have any advice?

Thanks.

as far as one nights stands or simple sex, honestly again, no preference. it's not about the size regardless. it's about if you know what you're doing with it. i've had huge, and he sucked, and i've had ridiculously small and it rocked. it seriously just does not matter.

as far as the masturbation, it sounds more mental than anything else. if it's really just physical, trying playing in other areas. your penis is not your only pleasure tool. you could try more ball play, or even a little anal play. (no it doesn't make you gay)