There is a thread on the How To board that has caught my attention.
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?postid=4336387#post4336387
The reason it caught my attention is because so often, there are threads written by men, asking what the average penis size is. Men ask what the average is, what's desired, they complain about a small penis, and are afraid that no one will love them with a small penis (if they're not a virgin, someone obviously did, and if they are, well then you need to try to succeed).
My point here is that so many men obsess about the size of their penis, and equate that measurement with self-worth. Women do this with their breast size, or with their weight. We let outside factors (like what Maxim and Chatelaine tell us) determine our self-worth, based on physical appearances. And I think it's wrong.
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I'm not saying I don't understand this. I do. I understand that a lot of women believe they are only sexual in as large as their breasts are. A lot of women think that if they have small boobs, men won't find them attractive, and they'll be left standing there with the small-penised men. (they should have an orgy).
My POINT is that I think it's wrong to let yourself (men AND women) get sucked into that method of thinking. You're saying that 'it's just the way it is'. Why should you just shrug and allow things to stay that way? Why not find someone you can talk to about sex.. like on the boards here, and then learn that your sexuality is in your head, in your heart, not just in your body? There are outlets for frustration, and there are places to talk about things with anonymity.
Society dictates far too much, knowing that most of the population will listen. Society dictates to those with small breasts and penises that they are undesirable, that they are inadequate. Are you willing to let a whole bunch of people who've never SEEN you, never spoken with you, never met you, to dictate how adequate or desirable you are? And if yes, then WHY? For goodness sakes, you're worth more than someone's pre-determined judgemental opinion of you.
THIS is my point, ladies and gentlemen.
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I'd like to know your opinions, folks. What do you think about society's 'standards' for sexuality? Have you ever felt ugly or asexual because you have small boobs, or a small penis, or are too heavy or whatever? I'm curious... I'd love to hear your stories.
https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?postid=4336387#post4336387
The reason it caught my attention is because so often, there are threads written by men, asking what the average penis size is. Men ask what the average is, what's desired, they complain about a small penis, and are afraid that no one will love them with a small penis (if they're not a virgin, someone obviously did, and if they are, well then you need to try to succeed).
My point here is that so many men obsess about the size of their penis, and equate that measurement with self-worth. Women do this with their breast size, or with their weight. We let outside factors (like what Maxim and Chatelaine tell us) determine our self-worth, based on physical appearances. And I think it's wrong.
*cut and pasted from the thread:*
I'm not saying I don't understand this. I do. I understand that a lot of women believe they are only sexual in as large as their breasts are. A lot of women think that if they have small boobs, men won't find them attractive, and they'll be left standing there with the small-penised men. (they should have an orgy).
My POINT is that I think it's wrong to let yourself (men AND women) get sucked into that method of thinking. You're saying that 'it's just the way it is'. Why should you just shrug and allow things to stay that way? Why not find someone you can talk to about sex.. like on the boards here, and then learn that your sexuality is in your head, in your heart, not just in your body? There are outlets for frustration, and there are places to talk about things with anonymity.
Society dictates far too much, knowing that most of the population will listen. Society dictates to those with small breasts and penises that they are undesirable, that they are inadequate. Are you willing to let a whole bunch of people who've never SEEN you, never spoken with you, never met you, to dictate how adequate or desirable you are? And if yes, then WHY? For goodness sakes, you're worth more than someone's pre-determined judgemental opinion of you.
THIS is my point, ladies and gentlemen.
*end cut and paste*
I'd like to know your opinions, folks. What do you think about society's 'standards' for sexuality? Have you ever felt ugly or asexual because you have small boobs, or a small penis, or are too heavy or whatever? I'm curious... I'd love to hear your stories.
