Penetration

[David112]

This is a question foar all guys out there, experienced or not at sex. I'm an 20yr old guy and just recently my girlfriend and I had sex together for the first time. For me it was the first time ever. The sex was beautiful, but when it came to penetration I found it very uncomfotable.
The pain felt like it was my foreskin being pulled back too tightly from the head of my penis. My forskin is tight when fully errect. We were not using a condom.
Do any other guys have this problem? Is it normal? Can it be treated without circumcision?

 

[Ms_Lilith]

This is a question foar all guys out there, experienced or not at sex. I'm an 20yr old guy and just recently my girlfriend and I had sex together for the first time. For me it was the first time ever. The sex was beautiful, but when it came to penetration I found it very uncomfotable.
The pain felt like it was my foreskin being pulled back too tightly from the head of my penis. My forskin is tight when fully errect. We were not using a condom.
Do any other guys have this problem? Is it normal? Can it be treated without circumcision?

I'm not a guy, but I know what I'm talking about.

1) You should have used a condom, not only for safety, but because it does prevent that pulling back of the foreskin, to some degree.

2) Use some lube. if you insist on not using a condom, then lube your penis (around the head, under the foreskin), as well as her vagina. This will cause less friction, and will allow you to penetrate without such pain.

3) It's normal. Don't worry. However, if the pain continues, even after you've followed my suggestions, see your doc. He might have some suggestions for you.

 

[Lust Engine]

Lube lube lube lube + condom!

It definitely sound as though you were going to the dry well there! If the woman was highly aroused she should be pretty moist & you should have slid right on in there without any problems whatsoever. Granted that's an ideal situation; some women don't moisten up as quickly or it could take more stimulation. That's why they invented things like KY & Astrolube (my personal recommendation). Granted it might seem awkward using that stuff at first but at your stage, what isn't awkward??

And like Vixenshe wrote- "Use a condom!!!!" No shame in using it and it'd probably alleviate any dryness problems if you use a lubricated condom. Besides why even risk becoming a dad at your age??

Good luck!

Also- no need to even think about circumcision.

 

[Fod]

well, with my experience, my girl is really wet. like when we have anal, i can just get it from her ass and then pop in. and her pussy is nice and wet and so good. now im just daydreaming about her, oops.

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

Re: Lube lube lube lube + condom!

It definitely sound as though you were going to the dry well there! If the woman was highly aroused she should be pretty moist & you should have slid right on in there without any problems whatsoever. Granted that's an ideal situation; some women don't moisten up as quickly or it could take more stimulation. That's why they invented things like KY & Astrolube (my personal recommendation). Granted it might seem awkward using that stuff at first but at your stage, what isn't awkward??

And like Vixenshe wrote- "Use a condom!!!!" No shame in using it and it'd probably alleviate any dryness problems if you use a lubricated condom. Besides why even risk becoming a dad at your age??

Good luck!

Also- no need to even think about circumcision.

I agree with Lust Engine; it sounds as if some lube would help. Remember also, that it was your first time and so therefore the sensations were new. After all, you aren't used to having your cock squeezed into such a tight place, are you?? This should subside as time goes along. Using a condom will help not only with keeping your foreskin from feeling it's being pulled back too much, but protect both you and your girlfriend from any unplanned pregnanacy And as has been stated before, you don't need to be called the "Fatherly One", just yet!
To comment on Fod's post; NEVER, NEVER take your cock from your girlfriend ass and insert it into her pussy!!! This is dangerous, as she can get infections from it. Visa versa is fine, but never from the backdoor to the front.
On the subject of circumcision, one word............DON'T!! Many women love the looks of an uncut penis (ME FOR ONE) and at your age it would be very painful.
Best wishes to you David and I hope you and your girlfriend have many pleasurable experiences.

 

[David112]

Thanks

Thanks for all your help people
It's really cool that a guy like me can be worried about something this personal and come here for some friendly advice

 

[~*sunkyssed_kym*~]

You're welcome David! That's what this board is all about. Even for "those who have been around ", like myself.

 

[lovechild27]

i can just get it from her ass and then pop in. and her pussy

AHH!!! Dont put it up her ass in then in her pussy....you are introducing some awful stuff into her when you do that...


and USE CONDOMS!!!!

 

[Guest]

My boyfriend has that same problem sometimes. Even if I'm wetter than even normal, it'll still hurt him sometimes. It's mostly because of a few birth defects (nothing that takes away from the great sex, of course) but when it does happen, I just go down on him to lube it up a little and get him tons more aroused. Then he usually slides in no problem.

 

[Lust Engine]

Re: Thanks

Thanks for all your help people
It's really cool that a guy like me can be worried about something this personal and come here for some friendly advice

It's always a pleasure to help out. I'm sure that you're not the first to have this problem and probably won't be the last.

Have fun. Stay safe.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

sometimes..

Some women are still dry on the outside, even when they are extremely moist inside.

One of my favorite thing sto do is drop down and lick my gf for a little bit if she is too dry. We both seeem to enjoy that It get her more aroused AND moistens the outside of her slit as well

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