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sexybeast03 said:
I have a fantasy about being tied down, completely helpless while I get pounded in the ass by a mistress. Only after a long while letting me cum by pumping my dick while ramming the strap-on even deeper in me. First I have to serve her my making her cum with only my mouth.

I have tried bringing up something like this with my wife but she is very vanilla. So I wanted to hear if anyone have experience with this and how it turned out.
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I can’t help you with anything close to a personal experience, but I would like to share my thoughts with you, because I think you have accomplished more than you realize.

What strikes me most is that you’ve already done the hardest part: you talked to your wife about it.

A fantasy doesn’t have to become a reality to be meaningful. Sometimes it tells us something about ourselves. Sometimes it’s simply an interesting corner of our imagination. Sometimes it’s a desire we’d genuinely like to explore if circumstances allowed.

The fantasy you’re describing involves trust, vulnerability, surrender, and power exchange. Those themes are common enough that you’re certainly not alone in finding them appealing.

As for hearing from people who have actually explored similar interests, my impression is that the results vary widely. Some discover the reality is every bit as exciting as they imagined. Others find that certain aspects appeal to them while others don’t. And some discover that the fantasy worked better in their imagination than it did in practice. That can be true of many fantasies.

What concerns me a bit is that you seem to be focusing on whether the fantasy is valid rather than on the reality of your marriage. If your wife is genuinely uninterested, then that’s important information. It doesn’t invalidate your fantasy, but it does mean there are two people whose needs and comfort levels matter.

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with having the fantasy. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a spouse not sharing it, either.

The question I’d be asking myself isn’t, “How do I convince my wife?” It’s, “What role does this fantasy play in my life, and what do I need from it?”

For some people, simply being able to talk honestly about a fantasy with a trusted partner is enough. For others, the desire to experience it remains strong. Only you can answer where you fall on that spectrum.

In any case, I don’t think you’re unusual, and I don’t think you’re alone.
 
RustyRedheadSpitfire said:
I can’t help you with anything close to a personal experience, but I would like to share my thoughts with you, because I think you have accomplished more than you realize.

What strikes me most is that you’ve already done the hardest part: you talked to your wife about it.

A fantasy doesn’t have to become a reality to be meaningful. Sometimes it tells us something about ourselves. Sometimes it’s simply an interesting corner of our imagination. Sometimes it’s a desire we’d genuinely like to explore if circumstances allowed.

The fantasy you’re describing involves trust, vulnerability, surrender, and power exchange. Those themes are common enough that you’re certainly not alone in finding them appealing.

As for hearing from people who have actually explored similar interests, my impression is that the results vary widely. Some discover the reality is every bit as exciting as they imagined. Others find that certain aspects appeal to them while others don’t. And some discover that the fantasy worked better in their imagination than it did in practice. That can be true of many fantasies.

What concerns me a bit is that you seem to be focusing on whether the fantasy is valid rather than on the reality of your marriage. If your wife is genuinely uninterested, then that’s important information. It doesn’t invalidate your fantasy, but it does mean there are two people whose needs and comfort levels matter.

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with having the fantasy. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a spouse not sharing it, either.

The question I’d be asking myself isn’t, “How do I convince my wife?” It’s, “What role does this fantasy play in my life, and what do I need from it?”

For some people, simply being able to talk honestly about a fantasy with a trusted partner is enough. For others, the desire to experience it remains strong. Only you can answer where you fall on that spectrum.

In any case, I don’t think you’re unusual, and I don’t think you’re alone.
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Beautiful, wonderful insight and wisdom.
 
Like so many aspects of sex pegging can be many things. It’s great in a bdsm scenario but can also be a sensual, tender experience.
 
RustyRedheadSpitfire said:
The fantasy you’re describing involves trust, vulnerability, surrender, and power exchange. Those themes are common enough that you’re certainly not alone in finding them appealing.
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It also means there might be some baby steps here where she can be on board. Hand job with your hands on the bedframe. Work up to tied. She might never be up for a strap on but you might find more flavors than you’re getting.
 
40sBiCuckCple said:
I think I won life’s lottery when my wife married me. She knew I was bi and promiscuous, and I knew all the same things about her. By the time I was thinking about her pegging me, she had already bought a strap on and 2 different size cocks to fit it. We already had the velcro restraints. I never even had to ask, she told me what she was going to do. I willingly submitted. Life is good!
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exactly my situation. My wife knows about my bisexual activities and is totally uninhibited. She bought me a strap on for my birthday and knows ow to use it!
 
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