Pegging...

HoneyBrunette

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So Im interested in any experiences with this. Ive been asked to peg a friend of mine, Im keen but never done it before (although Ive been on the receiving end of anal many times).

Any advice for a new pegger? He has never been pegged but has played by himself with dildos. Anything I should do? Shouldnt do? Should generally be aware of?

Many thanks
 
So Im interested in any experiences with this. Ive been asked to peg a friend of mine, Im keen but never done it before (although Ive been on the receiving end of anal many times).

Any advice for a new pegger? He has never been pegged but has played by himself with dildos. Anything I should do? Shouldnt do? Should generally be aware of?

Many thanks

Go slow for his first time. For me, I found it more pleasurable on my back with my legs high. It both felt better and I loved watching her take me. Also, for me, the thicker the better. Man, now I’m really missing that feeling.
 
So Im interested in any experiences with this. Ive been asked to peg a friend of mine, Im keen but never done it before (although Ive been on the receiving end of anal many times).

Any advice for a new pegger? He has never been pegged but has played by himself with dildos. Anything I should do? Shouldnt do? Should generally be aware of?

Many thanks

Looooooooots of lube. And its better if you work up to it. Have him get some progressive plugs. Dont expect to go full femdomme porno on him right out of the gate lol
 
So Im interested in any experiences with this. Ive been asked to peg a friend of mine, Im keen but never done it before (although Ive been on the receiving end of anal many times).

Any advice for a new pegger? He has never been pegged but has played by himself with dildos. Anything I should do? Shouldnt do? Should generally be aware of?

Many thanks

Go slow but do not give up after you begin. I prefer a FeelDoe rather than a strap-on for a much more personal intimate feeling. I also prefer the missionary position with the lady on top and my legs spread wide like a slutty whore! The sexiest thing my ex-Wife ever said to me was “DAMN! You can take more up your ass than I can take in my pussy!” ...as she kept on fucking me as deep as she could.
 
Damn, I wish i just had a friend i could ask to peg me. Lucky friendship you 2 have!
 
Nina Hartley actually has an instructional video that she did about this.

It was very well done and you can probably find it on the Adam & Eve website.
 
Ok, I'll bite.

I have a fuckton of experience sticking things in my puckered portal of pleasure, but being pegged can be scary, because the pegger isn't getting any tactile feedback from the peggee's peg receptacle. It's really easy to hurt someone and not realize it.

So, obviously all the typical anal advice of relax, lube, etc, so forth; but then let them be in control of how quickly and deeply you enter them. (unless this is a femdom fetish scene, then all bets are off).

When the stars align for my wife and I to simultaneously be in this mood, we have the best luck letting me ride her cowgurl style. Our feeldoe type toy curves properly to hit my P spot this way, and I get to be in control. Because jabbing when it needs jibbing fucking hurts BAD. Toys are less forgiving to one's insides than penises.

Anyway, we usually do this after I've brought her to several of her own orgasms, because a couple minutes of me riding atop her is *going* to result in her belly and chest coated with cum, even if it's just from my cock rubbing on her belly as I move.
 
@guns444. We do have a great friendship. Long distance and long duration. We both have partners but find we are close enough for this kind of request. There is a lot of trust and care there.

Everyone else... thank you for your inputs.

Does anyone have any advice on wearing a strapon if we go that route? Im not porn star thin (not obese either!) They jusy look scary and not terribly comfortable...
 
Watch some videos at straplessdildo dot com notice the strapless strapons need help

But

You should get something out of all that work
 
Pegging can be a pleasureful experience for both partners. Go slow in the beginning. Use lots of lube. Work up to a large strap- on.And listen to each other.
 
Ok, I'll bite.

I have a fuckton of experience sticking things in my puckered portal of pleasure, but being pegged can be scary, because the pegger isn't getting any tactile feedback from the peggee's peg receptacle. It's really easy to hurt someone and not realize it.

So, obviously all the typical anal advice of relax, lube, etc, so forth; but then let them be in control of how quickly and deeply you enter them. (unless this is a femdom fetish scene, then all bets are off).

When the stars align for my wife and I to simultaneously be in this mood, we have the best luck letting me ride her cowgurl style. Our feeldoe type toy curves properly to hit my P spot this way, and I get to be in control. Because jabbing when it needs jibbing fucking hurts BAD. Toys are less forgiving to one's insides than penises.

Anyway, we usually do this after I've brought her to several of her own orgasms, because a couple minutes of me riding atop her is *going* to result in her belly and chest coated with cum, even if it's just from my cock rubbing on her belly as I move.

Based on my experience, this is all very good advice.
OR...
Get a real man with a real penis to fuck your husband while you stroke and suck him!
 
Fucking love when my wife puts it in my ass. We have been doing this for almost 6 months now. At first it was almost everyday. Now she makes me earn it based on how well I fuck her. She is an incredible women.
 
Based on my experience, this is all very good advice.
OR...
Get a real man with a real penis to fuck your husband while you stroke and suck him!

The craziest most intense experience my wife and I ever had was a guy in my was as I fucked behind with a dick in both our mouths and we ended up fighting for all there cum
 
Based on my experience, this is all very good advice.
OR...
Get a real man with a real penis to fuck your husband while you stroke and suck him!

Caveat..not attracted to men. I dig the prospect of how it would feel, though.
 
@guns444. We do have a great friendship. Long distance and long duration. We both have partners but find we are close enough for this kind of request. There is a lot of trust and care there.

Everyone else... thank you for your inputs.

Does anyone have any advice on wearing a strapon if we go that route? Im not porn star thin (not obese either!) They jusy look scary and not terribly comfortable...

Being on the receiving end, I can't speak to harness comfort, but my wife has never complained. My suggestion is don't go cheap. Get something sturdy. You want it to fit snugly so the dildo moves with you. So many videos you can tell the harness is too loose because the person wearing it is thrusting but the dildo isn't moving.
 
Thanks all! I appreciate the input. Im off work today so going to go window shopping to see what I can buy locally.
 
So Im interested in any experiences with this. Ive been asked to peg a friend of mine, Im keen but never done it before (although Ive been on the receiving end of anal many times).

Any advice for a new pegger? He has never been pegged but has played by himself with dildos. Anything I should do? Shouldnt do? Should generally be aware of?

Many thanks

I’d love to have a friend like you.... I was pegged once... I loved it... She, not so much... I hope you do....
 
So Im interested in any experiences with this. Ive been asked to peg a friend of mine, Im keen but never done it before (although Ive been on the receiving end of anal many times).

Any advice for a new pegger? He has never been pegged but has played by himself with dildos. Anything I should do? Shouldnt do? Should generally be aware of?

Many thanks

Go slow, a lot of lube. Not to big of a strap on , maybe 6 ,then a nice blk rubber 8 inch later? Keep up the dirty talk like
" do you like it?" take it, take it, take it" .and Maybe a hand job at same time
I'd love to try that too lol
 
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So Im interested in any experiences with this. Ive been asked to peg a friend of mine, Im keen but never done it before (although Ive been on the receiving end of anal many times).

Any advice for a new pegger? He has never been pegged but has played by himself with dildos. Anything I should do? Shouldnt do? Should generally be aware of?

Many thanks

Please visit Ruby Ryder's website on pegging. You'll find peggingparadise to be the absolute best source of high-quality information. You can fast-track straight to Podcast 112 for a primer on the psychological aspect of pegging for women, but the entire site is a gold mine of information. You'll also find there a great deal of information about the best toys and harnesses and where to find them. (And Ms. Ryder has a couple of Literotica stories on the topic . . .)
 
I’ve done some pegging and the first time I did it, I was terrified of hurting him. Obviously with pegging you don’t have the sensation you would with an actual cock so it’s hard to tell if it’s going in okay. He laid on his back with his legs on my shoulders and I slowly guided it in checking with him as we went along to make sure I wasn’t hurting him. Use a lot of lube and then use some more lube. I loved watching him stroke his cock while I fucked him, as he got close to cumming though, he wanted to fuck me so he took the strapon off me and pounded the hell out of me. It’s one of my favorite memories.
 
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