Paying for it...

[lisa_in_ct]

I have a crazy question...has any woman here every been paid to have sex with a man? If so, I'd like to chat. I've been made an offer and it seems so wrong but then that's the part that's exciting. Any feedback is welcome (guys or girls). Guys if you've paid women for sex I'd like to know what you received and what you paid.

 

[Monazwx]

I never been paid, but am curious about the following:

1. Amount offered
2. Relationship of the person to you
3. What's included (sex-wise: oral, vaginal, anal, etc.)

Are you considering doing it? Or already made up your mind?

If offered though, I wouldn't take anything less than $1000 for one night. Well, a few hours the most.
Make sure he gets tested.

 

[lisa_in_ct]

Well he's just a guy I met, a married frustrated guy (so many of them out there). The offer was $500 for a couple hours, oral, vaginal and possibly anal. He would use a condom - we both agreed safety is paramount. I've never done that before but the thought is intriguing. I'm sure it happens out there and I'd like to hear from someone who can share their experience. Thanks for your reply.

 

[Monazwx]

Married guy = no future for the relationship
Which maybe okay is this is to be a one-night stand only.

I think someone asked a question similar to this before, I'm looking through the archieves for the thread.

If I find it. I'll post it tonight.

 

[Monazwx]

Found it quicker than I thought.
Entitled, "Paying for Sex"

Enjoy.

http://www.literotica.com/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=77908&highlight=prostitute

 

[Jaded1]

Lisa...........

This is only a question that you yourself can answer. Although it can be a large ego booster right now. But what will be the effect in the long term? Believe me I have no disrespect for ladys that make a living by getting paid for sexual favors. Not everyone can accept that lifestyle. Keep in mind he may ask you again and again. Were do you draw a line or do you ever draw a line? Myself I seldom enjoy sex! I do enjoy making love to a partner for hours on end. Its about her pleasure and taking her to levels she has never experienced. If I were approached and offered money I am not sure if I would be able to perform at the level I enjoy. But, thats only me.....................

Jaded1, CT

Oh, and I don't believe it do to a lack of male partners willing to make love with you............

 

[aeroman]

lisa

I have sent you a PM on this subject, too shy to post it here!

aeroman
aeroman555@hotmail.com

 

[Monazwx]

Don't be shy Aeroman, you're on Lit.
Share, share and please share!

 

[Guest]

 

[CuriousMiss]

Everyone is paid. It just depends on if it is $ or gifts of appreciation.

 

[SexyChele]

I was taking a walk one evening in a relative bad neighborhood (roomie was having an argument with her b/f, needed to leave), and some guy came out of nowhere and kept saying, "20 dollars, 20 dollars." At first I didn't have a clue as to what he was talking about. Then he motioned off towards his car, and the proverbial lightbulb came on. I refused and kept walking. That was in 1982.

Didn't feel particularly erotic about the idea of giving some dirty stranger a blowjob in a half broken down old Chevy. Nope. Not one bit.

Bleah!

 

[peachykeen]

I was taking a walk one evening in a relative bad neighborhood (roomie was having an argument with her b/f, needed to leave), and some guy came out of nowhere and kept saying, "20 dollars, 20 dollars." At first I didn't have a clue as to what he was talking about. Then he motioned off towards his car, and the proverbial lightbulb came on. I refused and kept walking. That was in 1982.

Didn't feel particularly erotic about the idea of giving some dirty stranger a blowjob in a half broken down old Chevy. Nope. Not one bit.

Bleah!

Yeah, double ick.

Not to mention the ever-present possibility that he might have been some sort of whacko serial killer who didn't just want a quick BJ but maybe also some death and dismemberment - eek.

 

[Shadowann2]

There was a guy friend of mine who had the biggest crush on me. He knew I wasn't interested in him "that way", but he also knew I was dying for some extra $, so he offered me $40 for a BJ. I accepted his offer mainly because I was curious to see if I could go through with it. Well, I did go through with it, but I felt like shit afterward. I felt like I had sold my self respect and dignity for $40. I'd never do it again for any amount of money.

 

[Lust Engine]

There was a guy friend of mine who had the biggest crush on me. He knew I wasn't interested in him "that way", but he also knew I was dying for some extra $, so he offered me $40 for a BJ. I accepted his offer mainly because I was curious to see if I could go through with it. Well, I did go through with it, but I felt like shit afterward. I felt like I had sold my self respect and dignity for $40. I'd never do it again for any amount of money.

Ouch! $40??? I can understand what it did to your self esteem but what did it do to your friendship/ relationship??

 

[Shadowann2]

I saw him a few more times, but I was too ashamed to face him. I haven't seen him in years. I regret loseing such a good friend for something so stupid. I should have just followed my gut and not done it.

 

[aeroman]

OK, here's my 10 cents worth. Last year I attended a convention far from home and dared myself to contact a woman through an internet site, whose profile attracted me. As a married guy in his mid 50's, I am not the pick of the studs, but I have had some experience and, although horribly nervous, we met and had a great time. She was my age, very charming and we talked as much as anything, making me calmer and treating me with the utmost respect. She turned out to be a really great person to have paid sex with, very much into "it", she came (genuinely) 3 times, I came twice, not bad for an old fart! I paid $300 for 3 hours, well worth it. Bottom line: If I could find someone as decent and as sexy again, I would seriously consider it.

If anyone wants to know about some (paid) adventures in masturbation in Thailand, contact me at aeroman555@hotmail.com.

 

[RedStorm]

I said yes once to a trip to Vegas. He wasn't a stranger. He had lost his wife a few months before. We had a great time. He spent a lot of money on me and I loved it. Never regreted it.

 

[Norton77]

Paid....

Hi all.

I paid my ex for sex (we had split up by this time) and the sex part was fine, but with an ex there was an emotional tie, and eventually we both felt shitty.
So, we stopped speaking.

But, if it is with someone just for the sex/money and you have no other involvment..... go for it!

 

[Tallfella]

I have a crazy question...has any woman here every been paid to have sex with a man? If so, I'd like to chat. I've been made an offer and it seems so wrong but then that's the part that's exciting. Any feedback is welcome (guys or girls). Guys if you've paid women for sex I'd like to know what you received and what you paid.

I wrote a story about this scenario once .

 

[RomanHans]

My understanding is that some folks make a distinction between 'accommodating women' who are paid for sex from time to time, but do it more for the thrill or interest or other attraction, and professional 'escorts' (choose your euphymism) who advertise more or less openly about their services, and have no expectations about having any contact with the 'customer' beyond a single act.

The site escorts.com, I believe, has a few of the former listed on it...you might try to ask them (although they may be reluctant to answer, if they think that you're from a law enforcement agency). My own observation is that professional escorts ask for between $200 and $500 per hour, but I'm not sure if that's retail or actual price so to speak.

Roman

 

[MizzBehavin]

Well, it depends on the menu.

You get what you pay for:

You want me to wear my Chanel suit and escort you to a party? 500.00 an hour

You want domination? Anywhere from $50.00-$1,000.00 Do you just want to dress up for me? Cheap. My dungeon? It will cost you a fortune

Blow job? $100.00 and you MUST wear a condom

Anal? $200.00

Hot tub room with champagne? $250.00 for 40 minutes (30 min in tub 10 to get dressed and walk you out)

Straight sex with foreplay? $250.00 one hour

It's pretty much a cash service and I would not suggest handing over a credit card to a service that dopes up their girls and the pimp peeks in on ya.

 

[Jaded1]

Paying for it............

DAMMMMMM I knew I choose the wrong line of work. I only get $25.00 an hour....... Guess I can't afford BiFem36DD! Hey BIFem36DD ever do any charity work..... I really could use a helping hand here. But first how much.....

Jaded1, CT

 

[MizzBehavin]

Throwing you over my knee *spank*

No my dear.... I do not charge. But in case you haven't heard? Diamonds are a girls best friend. *hint*

 

[Jaded1]

BiFem36DD

Now who told you that I like OTK......

Oh Darl'n you got mail......

Jaded1, CT

 

[MizzBehavin]

Now you have mail babe

I guess you know this since I just got a +=pop-up=+ that I have a PM.

BTW..... how did you know I LOVE anything that pops-up?