Paying an escort vs seducing a new lover

[SassySheDevil]

Perhaps we lock his alts in a cage together, and we all drink wine and eat cheese while we watch them fight to the death?

I'm in! Only we have to find them all. Most are obvious. But I'm sure there's a few stragglers. He did have at least 1 "female" for a while. Might have been a few.

 

[sht4brains]

This thread is fucking HILARIOUS !!!!!

 

[KatieDoes]

I'm in! Only we have to find them all. Most are obvious. But I'm sure there's a few stragglers. He did have at least 1 "female" for a while. Might have been a few.

What a horrifying woman he would make. Yikes.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Hey, you’re the one that brought the pedestal.

Obviously, I’m going to preen a bit while I’m up here.

Nice curtsy ,

Preen , U splashed all the fucking water outta the bath. and made Jason face snort laugh.

 

[TheDarksiders]

I'm always interested when Lit's temperance society, the morality police, decide to mobilize. Obviously the OP hit a nerve, but this board is filled with threads and comments that could be considered offensive. There are many men and plenty of women who post sexist, racist, illegal, immoral stuff. Why this one?

Sadly, most posters in this thread have no idea what they're talking about. Only one that I can see has worked as an SW, and only a few have any extensive experience with "the hobby." If you know the culture of escorting, you know that the OP's post is entirely unexceptional. That hardly makes it ethically right to objectify women as fantasy objects of the male gaze and libido, but that's what the job is. We can hope for and fight for a professional environment that conforms more to our sense of gender politics and basic decency (and certainly we can find better ways to improve the world than shaming on a sex board), but at the same time we risk a paternalistic attitude toward escorts, as if they are helpless babes being victimized by their own clients. It's true that many men, perhaps the OP, hold repulsive attitudes towards sex workers (and women in general), but it's also true that escorts turn that around and advertise their services along the lines of male fantasies. That doesn't make it a healthy environment for anyone, but we either grant agency to escorts (or some escorts--and good luck picking) or we see them as victims. "Respect" is a weird word to be using within the world of escorting and is far, far more complicated than most posters here seem to understand.

But, to return to my original point, why this thread? What set people off that's so much worse than most of the Personals? I can see why people are grossed out by the OP's attitudes (and I share most of those feelings) but I can't see why it's any worse than much of the garbage out here.

 

[KatieDoes]

I'm always interested when Lit's temperance society, the morality police, decide to mobilize. Obviously the OP hit a nerve, but this board is filled with threads and comments that could be considered offensive. There are many men and plenty of women who post sexist, racist, illegal, immoral stuff. Why this one?

Sadly, most posters in this thread have no idea what they're talking about. Only one that I can see has worked as an SW, and only a few have any extensive experience with "the hobby." If you know the culture of escorting, you know that the OP's post is entirely unexceptional. That hardly makes it ethically right to objectify women as fantasy objects of the male gaze and libido, but that's what the job is. We can hope for and fight for a professional environment that conforms more to our sense of gender politics and basic decency (and certainly we can find better ways to improve the world than shaming on a sex board), but at the same time we risk a paternalistic attitude toward escorts, as if they are helpless babes being victimized by their own clients. It's true that many men, perhaps the OP, hold repulsive attitudes towards sex workers (and women in general), but it's also true that escorts turn that around and advertise their services along the lines of male fantasies. That doesn't make it a healthy environment for anyone, but we either grant agency to escorts (or some escorts--and good luck picking) or we see them as victims. "Respect" is a weird word to be using within the world of escorting and is far, far more complicated than most posters here seem to understand.

But, to return to my original point, why this thread? What set people off that's so much worse than most of the Personals? I can see why people are grossed out by the OP's attitudes (and I share most of those feelings) but I can't see why it's any worse than much of the garbage out here.

I don’t see or read every thread. I read this one and it pissed me off.

 

[cloeknox]

You know, it seems to me that there is no consensus here. Someone is willing to spend money to participate in the adventure. And someone is just comfortable to call an escort.
For example, I am from the second category of people. I'm not interested in any adventures, passion, or falling in love. A lovely evening is enough for me.
Although I am always careful about choosing an escort, so I use this service — escorts2.com. There is an excellent choice and fast service. In addition, the application itself is pretty convenient, unlike most others.

 

[Kittykan23]

I just came here to read the comments….on a porn site….about morality. Hold on, I’m gonna write another short sex story, I will be back!!!

 

[KatieDoes]

Sex and morals aren’t mutually exclusive.

 

[lanceGibs]

Sex and morals aren’t mutually exclusive.

Appreciated

 

[Nurseguy75]

...........

 

[Drinkmein]

Wow. At OP and some replies. Just...wow.

 

[AdrianHunter1234]

Escort girls make a living this way. This is their profession, which brings a stable income. In addition to work, they can have a husband, children and a personal life. In comparison, seducing a new lover means you'll have to invest time, energy and most probably money in order to make a person want you. Make no mistake, if your motivation is just sex, keeping a new lover close will be a hard task to accomplish over time. Escorts are not prostitutes. Girls provide not only escort services for important people at events, but also tantric massage in Manchester. They look beautiful and dress exquisitely. Also, they have a high level of intelligence and speak foreign languages.

 

[ChrisHerlihy]

I think it's best to find a beautiful young escort and pay her money for an hour of sex, rather than trying to find some woman and seduce her. This dating process and so on it's all boring and not interesting. By the way, I am a regular guest of this brothel -- citybutterflies.com. And honestly, I don't even need a girl, because I go there every Friday night and hire myself a beautiful, sweet and young girl who will please me for an hour and sometimes two. Therefore, I think this: if you don't need love from a woman, only sex, then it's best to hire an escort.

 

[SanchielTomblony]

Hi, it all depends on you. If you like to hunt for beautiful girls and get pleasure from the fact that you take care of them and then fuck, then, of course, it's better to seduce a girl and fuck. And some people, like me, for example, like the option of hiring an escort. At least it's easier for me to turn to Switzerland Escorts and hire my beautiful escort here, who will please me all night and whom I will fuck all night. And I will know that she is clean because she is an escort. She does not fuck with everyone in a row like ordinary hookers...