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[chris9]

Comments, such as:


A.
"stick thin women who look like one scene and they may break..."
&
"sickly sticklike body..."

Are no more acceptable, than:


B.
"big fat women who look like it would take 3 scenes just to spank HALF their ass..."
&
"cottagecheeselike cellulite dimpled body......" (These are NOT comments i would ever express, but i made them up, and posted them anyway .... but ONLY to make a point.)


Which comments (A or B) fit you best? Regardless of your answer, many of the comments posted in this thread regarding body shape come across to me as being thoughtless and rude, whether those sentiments were intentional or not.

Making fun of fat body types is unacceptable. Most don't seem to understand that making fun of thin body types is also unacceptable.

There is NO difference.



i've often wondered why so many seem to not understand this.


Wonderful advice (for either group A or B).... And yeah, whether anyone here can relate or not ..... even many in group A would benefit from remembering this piece of advice.

You are, of course, right, sinnOcent. I apologize if I have insulted you, or even if I haven't thought properly before posting. Yes, I know that there are women who don't like their body because it's too thin.
I was -again- getting a bit upset that women with 'normal' bodies, not the model-like, shaped up, long legs ones, get called 'fat'. It's not as if TS was fat. She has a hot body, but one that's more in the norm, more what women have in real life, women you meet everyday.
Right now I'm doing a course where we are about 20 women, and almost all of them are thinner than me. Not good for my self-confidence. This sentence is right for me, too:

My insecure part of me was very hurt at being called fat. The logical part of me knows that I'm not

Well, I haven't been called fat, but if my insecure part gets going, I certainly feel it. Then I have to argue myself into not feeling that way, which is quite hard to do...

So calling someone fat who isn't is for me something like a jump-start into being mad at society. Then I say/write things without considering both sides.

 

[FurryFury]

My only problem with stripping for my man...or dancing for that matter period is that I"m not too comfortable with the way my body moves. It feels awkward. I was in a dance class, but it was more ballet and jazz than anything else, and the moves were rehearsed over and over again before we practiced them in sequence for the performance...though I have thought about getting one of those learn to strip dvd's for a special occasion, but paydays don't seem to happen often enough.

That does make a difference, if you aren't comfortable you aren't.

My body loves to dance and anytime I go dancing I invariably get asked if I'm a stripper. It's just the way I move, I guess. So I'm pretty comfortable with dancing that way. The music starts and bam, I slither and so on. Guess I'm odd that way. One of many ways, I'm odd, I'm sure!

Strip moves for exercise is all the rage these days. I like that idea a lot.

Fury

 

[sphynx's dragon]

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Strip moves for exercise is all the rage these days. I like that idea a lot.

Fury

Ummmm.......I SECOND THAT MOTION!

 

[graceanne]

That does make a difference, if you aren't comfortable you aren't.

My body loves to dance and anytime I go dancing I invariably get asked if I'm a stripper. It's just the way I move, I guess. So I'm pretty comfortable with dancing that way. The music starts and bam, I slither and so on. Guess I'm odd that way. One of many ways, I'm odd, I'm sure!

Strip moves for exercise is all the rage these days. I like that idea a lot.

Fury

I love to dance, but I won't if I'm the center of attention. I will only dance in groups, and normally in darker area of the floor. lol

 

[Xelebes]

Dramaramaramaramaramaramarama unfolds!

 

[Aeroil]

Dramaramaramaramaramaramarama unfolds!

lol, and I could totally get in there and join it, but I'm really already bored with defending myself that once.
...meh

 

[Joe Schmoe]

I thought variety was the spice of life?

If all women were waifishly thin, or barbie dolls or rubenesque I'd become a lemming and begin my march towards the sea. It is never just the appearance that makes a woman sexy as hell but their embracing and exuding their femininity, that is hot schtuff.

No one is flawless, well maybe Jennifer Connelly, but I haven't tasted her cooking yet.

As for strippers, hell my bucks tucked into g-strings has helped many through college. I like looking at them, not just because I am a dirty old man but because I am a pervert. I think of stringing them up and caning that ass that they shook in my face, binding and clamping those luscious jigglies, making her crawl and beg and...

....where was I? Cripes, I lost my train of thought...damn you women. It is all your fault! God bless you all and tiny Tim too.

 

[f-cynyr]

im with joe,

what makes a women desirable is their sensuality, some wemon exude it , and its like a scent, and will draw men from miles around. as for strippers, i like them, but some dancer its a job, you can tell, others totally enjoy the exhibitionism, and get off on it. so do i.

 

[Killishandra]

what makes a women desirable is their sensuality, some wemon exude it , and its like a scent, and will draw men from miles around. as for strippers, i like them, but some dancer its a job, you can tell, others totally enjoy the exhibitionism, and get off on it. so do i.

You wouldn't believe how often men ask me (right there in the club) if I enjoy what I do... I try to explain that I do, and that it appeals to me on many levels. It's not something I'll be doing forever (well, I'd say there's a bit of an age-cap on being a dancer anyway) but when I quit, whether in a few months or a couple years, I know I'll miss it. It's exciting, my club is nice, my waiters and bouncers and manager and DJs are all WONDERFUL, the money is awesome, I enjoy dancing, it's great exercise, and I feel almost no pressure at work... If I'm tired, I go sit down. If I'm hungry, I go order food and take a break.

On the downside... Sometimes the attention can be a bit overwhelming for me and sometimes when our club gets overly crowded I have a problem with sensation overload. Also, I have to deal with drunk people and occasionally with very RUDE people. (Contrary to what one might think, the drunkest are not usually the rudest. I'm not sure what makes people rude, but it's not always the alcohol.) So, it's not just a piece of cake. But dancing has given me much more self-confidence, made me comfortable in my own skin (and nothing else ) and given me a THICKER skin (in regards to rude behavior from other people.) Some will snicker, but I believe this experience changes me for the better.

It's certainly something I'll reminisce upon when I'm 80 and in my rocking chair on the front porch.

 

[FurryFury]

I love to dance, but I won't if I'm the center of attention. I will only dance in groups, and normally in darker area of the floor. lol

Someone has to be the first on the dance floor or no one else will get up and dance. That is where I come in. *hugs* To you beautiful Graceanne! I'll wave at you in your group in the dark corner and give you cookies later! Or you can come dance with me. Boy do guys LOVE that!

Fury

 

[graceanne]

Someone has to be the first on the dance floor or no one else will get up and dance. That is where I come in. *hugs* To you beautiful Graceanne! I'll wave at you in your group in the dark corner and give you cookies later! Or you can come dance with me. Boy do guys LOVE that!

Fury

Boys, unless they're butt ugly (or drunk), do not like dancing with me. And since the only time I get to dance is when I'm with my friends - it's not an issue, they'll get up and dance with me. I don't mind being the first on the floor as long as other people get on the floor with me.

And my best friend - she's also one of the awesome dancers. One jealous chick at a function she had to go to with her boyfriend told her danced like a hooker.

 

[FurryFury]

You wouldn't believe how often men ask me (right there in the club) if I enjoy what I do... I try to explain that I do, and that it appeals to me on many levels. It's not something I'll be doing forever (well, I'd say there's a bit of an age-cap on being a dancer anyway) but when I quit, whether in a few months or a couple years, I know I'll miss it. It's exciting, my club is nice, my waiters and bouncers and manager and DJs are all WONDERFUL, the money is awesome, I enjoy dancing, it's great exercise, and I feel almost no pressure at work... If I'm tired, I go sit down. If I'm hungry, I go order food and take a break.

On the downside... Sometimes the attention can be a bit overwhelming for me and sometimes when our club gets overly crowded I have a problem with sensation overload. Also, I have to deal with drunk people and occasionally with very RUDE people. (Contrary to what one might think, the drunkest are not usually the rudest. I'm not sure what makes people rude, but it's not always the alcohol.) So, it's not just a piece of cake. But dancing has given me much more self-confidence, made me comfortable in my own skin (and nothing else ) and given me a THICKER skin (in regards to rude behavior from other people.) Some will snicker, but I believe this experience changes me for the better.

It's certainly something I'll reminisce upon when I'm 80 and in my rocking chair on the front porch.

Yeah, that's the stuff! Things to reminisce about when you are 80! That is one reason I am thinking of having some nude shots taken now. If I had a body like yours ever in my life, I would have totally gotten that done already!

I also have that noise, scent, stress overload thing and it's not fun.

Fury

Boys, unless they're butt ugly (or drunk), do not like dancing with me. And since the only time I get to dance is when I'm with my friends - it's not an issue, they'll get up and dance with me. I don't mind being the first on the floor as long as other people get on the floor with me.

And my best friend - she's also one of the awesome dancers. One jealous chick at a function she had to go to with her boyfriend told her danced like a hooker.

Yep that is evil bitch jealousy talking there! LOL!

Cool so we could dance together? Let's go! Weeeee!

It's funny, guys seem to think if two chicks are dancing together and into each other that they won't mind including a dude too!

Trust me the guys come, like a damn swarm and a few chicks too.

This is so funny since we are both married and not looking!

Fury

 

[graceanne]

Yep that is evil bitch jealousy talking there! LOL!

Cool so we could dance together? Let's go! Weeeee!

It's funny, guys seem to think if two chicks are dancing together and into each other that they won't mind including a dude too!

Trust me the guys come, like a damn swarm and a few chicks too.

This is so funny since we are both married and not looking!

Fury

It was actually kinda funny. M was in the bathroom and this chick came up and said 'wow, you dance so sexy - like a hooker' and M was so suprised that she was just like 'year it's all in the hips'. It took her a couple of minutes to realize that even though the chick was acting nice she'd insulted her. Good thing - otherwise M would have punched the bitch. M's boyfriend was very relieved she didn't, though.

 

[FurryFury]

It was actually kinda funny. M was in the bathroom and this chick came up and said 'wow, you dance so sexy - like a hooker' and M was so suprised that she was just like 'year it's all in the hips'. It took her a couple of minutes to realize that even though the chick was acting nice she'd insulted her. Good thing - otherwise M would have punched the bitch. M's boyfriend was very relieved she didn't, though.

Oh no! We must use our words! Hitting is not allowed.

Fury

 

[graceanne]

Oh no! We must use our words! Hitting is not allowed.

Fury

LOL M's not big on words, and this chicks hubby was John's (her boyfriend) CO. Punching her would have been really really bad.

I personally think that not lowering herself to that chicks level was the best thing. M went right out and continued dancing, like she normally does. She drank, danced, and had a good time. I think that was the best response to this chicks OBVIOUS jealosy that she could do. And the next day, when she was telling me about it, I pointed that out, and she felt better.

 

[cati]

TS I think your pics are great and you do look terrific... all three of you!

Smiles at graceanne... I remember the group dancing, dark corner, don't wanna stand out thing...especially in clubs where I wasn't a regular. It's been absolutely ages since I did any dancing... I've always loved it!..sighs (I mean how else are the guys going to take notice if you don't shake your stuff... hummin' get down and boogie (takes a breath).... and to be able to dance like a hooker...OMG! somebody give me lessons.
I've looked into buying an exotic dance video too, but just haven't got around to getting it yet. Ummm I think "the Master" would die laffing...chuckles. Ah well.

 

[tealsphynx]

TS I think your pics are great and you do look terrific... all three of you!

Smiles at graceanne... I remember the group dancing, dark corner, don't wanna stand out thing...especially in clubs where I wasn't a regular. It's been absolutely ages since I did any dancing... I've always loved it!..sighs (I mean how else are the guys going to take notice if you don't shake your stuff... hummin' get down and boogie (takes a breath).... and to be able to dance like a hooker...OMG! somebody give me lessons.
I've looked into buying an exotic dance video too, but just haven't got around to getting it yet. Ummm I think "the Master" would die laffing...chuckles. Ah well.

Thank you cati.

 

[Aeroil]

Boys, unless they're butt ugly (or drunk), do not like dancing with me. And since the only time I get to dance is when I'm with my friends - it's not an issue, they'll get up and dance with me. I don't mind being the first on the floor as long as other people get on the floor with me.

And my best friend - she's also one of the awesome dancers. One jealous chick at a function she had to go to with her boyfriend told her danced like a hooker.

Ah I'd dance with ya.
Granted, I might try to pickpocket your cookies whilst we do, but that's the risk you take when dancing with Aeroil

 

[Xelebes]

I love to dance, but I won't if I'm the center of attention. I will only dance in groups, and normally in darker area of the floor. lol

I'm no stripper but I'm usually among the first on the dance floor once the music turns to my favour.

 

[Aeroil]

I'm no stripper but I'm usually among the first on the dance floor once the music turns to my favour.

*starts humming a trance song*

 

[chris9]

I'm usually one of the first to start dancing (not by myself though), no matter if I like the music. If I go out for dancing and end up standing around talking I get bored and tired quickly and will end the night rather early.

 

[graceanne]

Ah I'd dance with ya.
Granted, I might try to pickpocket your cookies whilst we do, but that's the risk you take when dancing with Aeroil

*sigh* And guys used to dance with me, in the hopes of feeling my boobs against their chest. Now they're just after my cookies.

And I'll also dance to anything, as long as it's got a beat.

 

[Quint]

Ummm...

Those costumes were wicked hot! I loved them both, and you guys in them!

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[Xelebes]

*starts humming a trance song*

That does get broing quickly doesn't it?

 

[tealsphynx]

Ummm...

Those costumes were wicked hot! I loved them both, and you guys in them!

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Thank you, Quint.