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[Killishandra]

I'm not quite sure what to think of that.

ah well I'll just laught.

To each their own, Aeroil. Some people would recoil at what turns you on too, remember that. Being an exhibitionist and having rape fantasies is not that uncommon, right? Am I missing something here? Are we not on a BDSM board and are those not common fantasies (or in my case, I have turned it into a way to support myself through college) for a submissive to have?

 

[tealsphynx]

Considering that more women are much larger than I am, and they are still beautiful and hot, I take no offense at CC's or Kitty's opinion of my weight or size. Pregnancy has that effect on a body. It slows the metabolism and sometimes it takes a while for it to kick back in. I would much prefer to have a curvy feminine body than the sickly sticklike body of many of the "hot" stars and models. I eat reasonably healthy and excersize, but this is the way my body desires to look. I'm not too sur why CC has decided to attack me, or my beloved sub in this way, I don't recall having any disputes with her in the first place, or even having public accusing her of being this troll. Either way, I'm not bothered in the least by her opinion, because, it is HER opinion and not mine or the opinion of those close to me. As to the being cocky opinion, well, yeah, can't deny it...but then again I do have the biggest spirit cock of any women I know.

 

[tealsphynx]

To each their own, Aeroil. Some people would recoil at what turns you on too, remember that. Being an exhibitionist and having rape fantasies is not that uncommon, right? Am I missing something here? Are we not on a BDSM board and are those not common fantasies (or in my case, I have turned it into a way to support myself through college) for a submissive to have?

Alot of gals strip to go through college, it's awsome money! Hell, if I were where I was headed two years ago, I'd probably be stripping my way through college too. Besides I know some clubs let you decide how much you take off, there were a couple in CA where I lived that did mostly only topless. Many states have adopted the "No Touchie" rule as a way to help cut down on the molestation of strippers and to get rid of the "prostitute" label. These gals are dancers, they just happen to dance nudie, or mostly depending on the place. LOL, I saw you dance nudie..hehehee, you slapped your own ass it was cute

 

[graceanne]

I think you all are dealing with this really well. When I saw what she'd written I was worried that their was gonna be a huge explosion.

And TS - if you're fat, I wanna be fat like you. lol I'd kill to look as good as you do, and be as comfortable with my body as you are.

 

[shy slave]

Considering that more women are much larger than I am, and they are still beautiful and hot, I take no offense at CC's or Kitty's opinion of my weight or size. Pregnancy has that effect on a body. It slows the metabolism and sometimes it takes a while for it to kick back in. I would much prefer to have a curvy feminine body than the sickly sticklike body of many of the "hot" stars and models. I eat reasonably healthy and excersize, but this is the way my body desires to look. I'm not too sur why CC has decided to attack me, or my beloved sub in this way, I don't recall having any disputes with her in the first place, or even having public accusing her of being this troll. Either way, I'm not bothered in the least by her opinion, because, it is HER opinion and not mine or the opinion of those close to me. As to the being cocky opinion, well, yeah, can't deny it...but then again I do have the biggest spirit cock of any women I know.

TS Your right not to take offense from CC.
FFS she is an 18 yr old who was hanging out for hours on here, instead of partying and being 18!!

As for post-pregnancy well i have been waiting for 18 yrs to get my figure back, its probably a bit late but when its ready to wander back to me I will be patiently waiting.

Curvy, feminine bodies are much sexier than stick thin women who look like one scene and they may break.

 

[tealsphynx]

TS Your right not to take offense from CC.
FFS she is an 18 yr old who was hanging out for hours on here, instead of partying and being 18!!

As for post-pregnancy well i have been waiting for 18 yrs to get my figure back, its probably a bit late but when its ready to wander back to me I will be patiently waiting.

Curvy, feminine bodies are much sexier than stick thin women who look like one scene and they may break.

I'll keep my eye out for prepregnancy figures just floating around, if I see one I'll kick one your way I may have phases where I spend hours on Lit..but then again I stay at home and raise my son, so when the house work is done and the baby is asleep (which seems like almost always) I come and get a little pervy kick on the boards. <shrug>

 

[chris9]

I, too, like curvy women. And I think that the self-confidence to show a body that's NOT the socially preferred stick-thin makes it even hotter.

 

[graceanne]

TS Your right not to take offense from CC.
FFS she is an 18 yr old who was hanging out for hours on here, instead of partying and being 18!!

As for post-pregnancy well i have been waiting for 18 yrs to get my figure back, its probably a bit late but when its ready to wander back to me I will be patiently waiting.

Curvy, feminine bodies are much sexier than stick thin women who look like one scene and they may break.

I'd kill to just have my post pregnancy weight. I was thirty pounds lighter and four pants sizes smaller.

And I was never stick thin. Before A I had the same measurements as marilyn monroe. (And I thought i was grossely obese - oh if I only knew then what I know now.)

 

[shy slave]

I'll keep my eye out for prepregnancy figures just floating around, if I see one I'll kick one your way

Thanks TS I knew I liked you

If Gracie ever gives up some of the cookies she bakes (and secretly hoards) you will be first on my list to get some

Now, I wonder why I don't have the pre-pregnancy weight I want so much

LOL

 

[tealsphynx]

I'd kill to just have my post pregnancy weight. I was thirty pounds lighter and four pants sizes smaller.

And I was never stick thin. Before A I had the same measurements as marilyn monroe. (And I thought i was grossely obese - oh if I only knew then what I know now.)

<Gives Gracie a BIG hug> I know someone who is struggling with the same thing. It's been 2 years since she had her last baby and she's gained weight. Though being sick and on meds doesnt help. I think the important part is to not compair yourself to what you see around you, but to listen to your loved ones tell you they see you as beautiful.

 

[tealsphynx]

I agree that stripping is about as close to prostitution that one can get without crossing the line... However, in Hawaii we have a "no contact" law, which means "no touchie, look only!" So realistically... I'd say I'm at least four inches away from prostitution.

Now I'm going to masturbate to the thought of a pimp beating me up... Why does such sick shit turn me on!?

What an excellent idea for roleplaying, though!

I think it depends on what move you're doing in your dance...sometimes you're waaaaaay further than 4 inches away from prostitution....sometimes it's more like 10 or 12 inches! I don't think there's any reason for someone to not take pride in their job, even if it's something that "civilized" society looks down on. You know they've found that the senators and representatives that push the hardest for anti-porn/prostitution laws are often the most indulgent partakers of the activity they are trying to abolish/ban/over regulate. I understand a No Touchie law with strippers, I read alot of articles about sexual harassment and even strippers being killed cause they didn't let the client touch/do all they wanted. I think it's safer, though I think it should be at the stripper's discretion...you wanna rub your boobies all over a clients face...hell you might get a higher "tip" than you would for not....I also personally think exotic dancing is beautiful. It's also a part of human heritage. In some tribes in other countries the ability to dance a man into desire is considered a rite of passage into womanhood. So....You go girl!

 

[h_i_s]

Comments, such as:


A.
"stick thin women who look like one scene and they may break..."
&
"sickly sticklike body..."

Are no more acceptable, than:


B.
"big fat women who look like it would take 3 scenes just to spank HALF their ass..."
&
"cottagecheeselike cellulite dimpled body......" (These are NOT comments i would ever express, but i made them up, and posted them anyway .... but ONLY to make a point.)


Which comments (A or B) fit you best? Regardless of your answer, many of the comments posted in this thread regarding body shape come across to me as being thoughtless and rude, whether those sentiments were intentional or not.

Making fun of fat body types is unacceptable. Most don't seem to understand that making fun of thin body types is also unacceptable.

There is NO difference.



i've often wondered why so many seem to not understand this.

I think the important part is to not compair yourself to what you see around you, but to listen to your loved ones tell you they see you as beautiful.

Wonderful advice (for either group A or B).... And yeah, whether anyone here can relate or not ..... even many in group A would benefit from remembering this piece of advice.

 

[Aeroil]

To each their own, Aeroil. Some people would recoil at what turns you on too, remember that. Being an exhibitionist and having rape fantasies is not that uncommon, right? Am I missing something here? Are we not on a BDSM board and are those not common fantasies (or in my case, I have turned it into a way to support myself through college) for a submissive to have?

Wasn't what I meant, killi, I was thinking more along the lines of whether or not to congratulate you for a clever counter or something.

Be careful about reading too much into what I say, I'm rarely that non-literal, and I have a rather abstract train of thought anyway.

 

[tealsphynx]

There are thin women who are sickly looking. Their skin has lost color and their eyes and cheeks have become sunken like a living mummy for they are not healthily thin and their thinness not a result of natural causes (ie metabolism, healthy diet, excersise, illness, medication) It is a result of not eating right, not eating at all or eating and then vomitting. Many women in this category also lose their period because they throw their body into a type of shock. They lack the necessary amount of body fat that a woman needs to thrive. Their skin mostly is what I find disgusting. Their color is grayed and translucent. Their texture is undesireable. These are the overly thin women I find the most unattractive. And yes I have seen fat people who's skin takes on a similar appearance. They are fat from eating too much of the wrong things. They smell like decay both fat and thin alike. Stars like Teri Hatcher for instance I would imagine have this smell. The once shapely star has let herself become not only a walking skeleton, but she has lost her complexion. I was 100lb for a time, I've been to the point of my ribs and spine and hipbones jutting out to the point of pain my skin was so tight about them. I've been teased for being too thin, too fat, too short and probably just about anything there is to be teased about. I've learned that if it's not your body they attack, it's your clothes, your car, the brand of school supplies you buy...oh yes, they can be quite cruel. And I have learned that it doesn't stop just because you graduate school. I've listened to the old women I've worked with whispering behind eachothers backs about "her hips" this "her pimpley face" that. Yes, I have cellulite, it's normal. Its the way a woman's fat cells are shaped and that's just the way it is. ALL women who have the necessary body fat percentage that women need for their health will at some point in their lives have this "loathsome" body "problem". It's normal, so I don't fret over it. Yes, my thighs touch, they do giggle when I walk. But then again, so does the thighs of every woman I've watched walk, thin and thick alike. Yes, my stomach folds when I sit, not badly, but enough that I sometimes feel self concious over it. But then again the litte pouch on the lower tummy is normal for women, it's how we're built. If you look at women in developing countries they have it too. No, my chin and neck don't blend into one tubular mass up to my face...but then again even Brittany Spears has a bit of a wattle so what should I care if I do or not. I've got a curved body, my ribcage practically sits on my hipbones and my tits have always been proportionally smaller to my hips and ass. I am a pear shape, sometimes I'm almost hourglass. In the HOVAX system I'm somewhere between A and X. Some women, many with athletic body types who are thinner tend to be more H and that's better suited toward their lifestyle. I think that many people have gotten so used to the "free speech" idea that they forget that just because they have a right to say what they want, they also have the ability to keep nasty things to themselves. Yes, I'm guilty of this. Yes, there are times that I'll say something and mean it to be completely benign and then later find that it was taken malignently. I have many times restrained from saying things that I would believe to be hurtful, or if it has been too late I do try to appologize/clarify as I see necesarry. But as thinking feeling human beings there will be times that we will all be hurt, that we may respond harshly to things said and in turn fight back, again normal instinct at work here. I've been told that frustration is good for the soul, well then count mine well fed. My insecure part of me was very hurt at being called fat. The logical part of me knows that I'm not and that if I am willing to put forth the effort to change my body I can. Part of me would stay this way and flaunt the fertile shape of my body simply to spite what has been said and would encourage all large, "fat' "obese" "ugly" "thin" women to do so. Hell, women are so prideful, why shoud we sulk for the fact of not being the images we see in magazines such as "Fitness" , we should walk tall, proud of ourselves for being beautiful in spite of all the media bullshit. I know I do.

 

[graceanne]

Comments, such as:


A.
"stick thin women who look like one scene and they may break..."
&
"sickly sticklike body..."

Are no more acceptable, than:


B.
"big fat women who look like it would take 3 scenes just to spank HALF their ass..."
&
"cottagecheeselike cellulite dimpled body......" (These are NOT comments i would ever express, but i made them up, and posted them anyway .... but ONLY to make a point.)


Which comments (A or B) fit you best? Regardless of your answer, many of the comments posted in this thread regarding body shape come across to me as being thoughtless and rude, whether those sentiments were intentional or not.

Making fun of fat body types is unacceptable. Most don't seem to understand that making fun of thin body types is also unacceptable.

There is NO difference.



i've often wondered why so many seem to not understand this.


Wonderful advice (for either group A or B).... And yeah, whether anyone here can relate or not ..... even many in group A would benefit from remembering this piece of advice.

True enough. I hope I didn't say anything to hurt your feelings - everyone has their own body issues. And if I did, I aplogize. Some women can't gain weight anymore than I can loose it, and either body type should be seen as beautiful.

Yes there are extremes in each side of weight that are unhealthy. But even then we should watch what we say. Calling someone a skeleton is as hurtful as calling another woman a fat cow.

 

[FurryFury]

TS, great pics! I thought everyone looked great in them! I wish people weren't so quick to try and put others down because really, people are beautiful, bodies in all shapes and sizes are hot but it's what's inside that really gets me going. Looking at the pictures almost made me want to dress up for Halloween or go to that party I was invited to.

BTW, Killi, I think stripping is great hot fun. I want to go watch some live strippers. The one bachelor party I went to, they merely took off their clothes and didn't do what I would consider a show.

If I liked my body better, you can believe I'd be showing it off more and stripping would not be out of the question, in public I mean. I already strip for my man.

I just wonder if the strip shows I think of really exist these days. Where the costumes, music and all that equal a show? That's how I write stripping scenes when I write them. I put on the music, figure out the moves and costume to make it a whole themed show. Do the dancers these days just simply get nude and gyrate on the dudes and dudettes now? I'm really curious about that. In my state they can touch at least in private homes.

Way back when, I went to the male strip shows and boy those were shows! I want to see females live though. I want to see and do a lot of things.

Fury

 

[graceanne]

We went and got the kids their costumes today, and on the way that Bob Segar song that goes 'They just love to watch her strut' and I thought that if i was a stripper I'd love to strip to a song like that.

 

[FurryFury]

We went and got the kids their costumes today, and on the way that Bob Segar song that goes 'They just love to watch her strut' and I thought that if i was a stripper I'd love to strip to a song like that.

Do it for your guy then!

There are so many great songs to strip to! I am always thinking about that.

I just need to be a tad more comfortable with my body and a lot more of an exhibitionist to go public in private though, there are no limits, because I trust him to love and even like me regardless. In fact, I'd say he likes my body, face and core self far better than I do and vice versa.

Fury

 

[graceanne]

Do it for your guy then!

There are so many great songs to strip to! I am always thinking about that.

I just need to be a tad more comfortable with my body and a lot more of an exhibitionist to go public in private though, there are no limits, because I trust him to love and even like me regardless. In fact, I'd say he likes my body, face and core self far better than I do and vice versa.

Fury

*laughs hysterically* I'm not comfortable with my body, and I'd die of embarrassement. I'm not an exhibitionist. Beyond that I've only ever been to a strip bar once and it was creepy. A friend of mine was applying for the bartender position, but wasn't comfortable going there to apply by herself. She didn't take the job cause I pointed out that I wasn't going to come sit with her every night.

My point is I wouldn't have the faintest idea how.

 

[FurryFury]

I'm confused. You wouldn't for your guy? Or in public? Cause I wouldn't in public either. Though I have used some flashes to push my advantage in some bar games from time to time. Ya gotta use what you have.

Come on big boy can you really get that ball in the corner pocket when you are looking at this? No? Ooh! Too bad. My shot sucker! Yeah I play dirty. I play to win. I enjoy playing regardless though. Men are soooo easy to distract.

Fury

 

[graceanne]

I'm confused. You wouldn't for your guy? Or in public? Cause I wouldn't in public either. Though I have used some flashes to push my advantage in some bar games from time to time. Ya gotta use what you have.

Come on big boy can you really get that ball in the corner pocket when you are looking at this? No? Ooh! Too bad. My shot sucker! Yeah I play dirty. I play to win. I enjoy playing regardless though. Men are soooo easy to distract.

Fury

If he really really really REALLY pushed for it I would, but otherwise NO.

 

[RJMasters]

I agree that stripping is about as close to prostitution that one can get without crossing the line... However, in Hawaii we have a "no contact" law, which means "no touchie, look only!" So realistically... I'd say I'm at least four inches away from prostitution.

Now I'm going to masturbate to the thought of a pimp beating me up... Why does such sick shit turn me on!?

What an excellent idea for roleplaying, though!

Better back up about 2 inches then to keep the no touch law into effect...lol

 

[FurryFury]

If he really really really REALLY pushed for it I would, but otherwise NO.

I understand, really I do. I am not the sort to push anyone anywhere they don't wanna go. Goodnight beautiful Graceanne!

I have a meeting the early morning. *grr*

Fury

Better back up about 2 inches then to keep the no touch law into effect...lol

*snickers*

Good one RJMasters!

Nighty night and sweet dreams when you get there!

Fury

 

[tealsphynx]

My only problem with stripping for my man...or dancing for that matter period is that I"m not too comfortable with the way my body moves. It feels awkward. I was in a dance class, but it was more ballet and jazz than anything else, and the moves were rehearsed over and over again before we practiced them in sequence for the performance...though I have thought about getting one of those learn to strip dvd's for a special occasion, but paydays don't seem to happen often enough.

 

[Betticus]

I think cc is mad at me for something.

I think TS is pretty darn hot.

Marquis looks pretty good, why not flaunt it a little?


I sincerely apologize for having a life outside of lit cc. I'm sorry that I only get on aim once a month or so. There are people who can help you though, never fear. Life is too short to hate or be jealous of other people.