panty etiquette (no, I'm not stealing them)

[mrtnmoon]

some might think this is a stupid question, but I've actually pondered what is the right thing to do. anyway, my daddy used to always say that the only stupid questions are the ones you don't ask. so, here goes.....

a girl at work wears g-strings. how do I know this? there have been a couple of nights where, over the course of the evening and having the opportunity to watch her bend over multiple times, her pants have slid down enough for me to see. not any actual cheekage, but the waistband and enough crack to know that it was definitely not any regular ol' pair of panties. here's the question.... do I let her know that she's occasionally putting on a show, or do I just keep my mouth shut and enjoy it? she's only 18 or so, if that figures into the equation any.

 

[revchev]

Uh, keep your mouth shut!

If you are feeling badly about her situation, try not looking at her ass when she bends over (just kidding, look all you want).

 

[SkyyAngel]

I say shut-up and enjoy the view.

She might know already... some like to show off their butt-floss.

If she doesn't know she could think you a perv for looking... which you are but she doesn't need to know.... lol.

 

[mrtnmoon]

so far so good.... I was kinda hoping the general consensus would be that it's ok for me to look.

 

[DarkLover]

It's kind of a dilemma for a guy. It's hard not to look and she very well might want people to notice. But if you say anything, you risk being labeled a pervert for looking.

A female high school teacher told me her school's policy is to warn girls who do this, but a female teacher has to do it so that a man can't be accused of harassment.

I say keep your mouth shut, and whether you look or not is up to youl

 

[SlyKitten]

Why would you even think of mentioning the issue to her? She's 18 in 2005... of course she knows she's putting on a show!

Report her to human ressources right away, stating she does not respect the professional attire requirements!

 

[EJFan]

yeah. i assume she's dressing herself... and must know the heights to which the waistbands on her pants and panties rise... so she must know they're visible every once in a while. of course, that doesn't mean she's showing them to YOU, specifically... or to anyone in general. it just means she knows.

regardless of all that, i'd say just let it go... the legal implications (as DL mentioned) are enough to warrant just enjoying the view.

hey! that's an interesting point... if men can be accused of sexual harrassment for pointing out a woman's panties are visible, that's an inducement to not say anything about it... which, in turn, perpetuates the "problem"... THEREFORE... sexual harrassment laws are actually promoting the turning on of men by scantily clad women....

 

[Bridget69]

I don't see the need to say anything about it unless it interferes with other matters or is against dress code policies or something. Overall, one's underwear is nobody's business, unless they want it to.

 

[Lady Amber]

is what she's doing bothering you? Cause as a chick, most chicks know they are putting on a show, and they know that when they wear a g- string to work of all places. But whatever. if it bothers you tell her, if not why ruin a good thing? at least she's not one of those 13 year olds that pull their g-string so far up and pull their pants so low that everyone sees...and that's what encourages pedaphiles...

 

[bisexplicit]

at least she's not one of those 13 year olds that pull their g-string so far up and pull their pants so low that everyone sees...and that's what encourages pedaphiles...

Are you fucking kidding me? Thats what encourages pedophiles?

You might as well say women who are wearing little clothing are "encouraging" rapists.

 

[mrtnmoon]

is what she's doing bothering you?

no, no... hot young girls in thongs are among my favorites..lol. the only things that bother me about it are that I don't get to see it every night and the other pretty young girls don't do the same thing . I just seriously wondered if maybe I should tell her she's showing more than she might want to, and might want to start wearing a belt. I told ya it was a stupid question.

I know now that I'm just gonna keep my mouth shut.

 

[Ricwilly]

some might think this is a stupid question, but I've actually pondered what is the right thing to do. anyway, my daddy used to always say that the only stupid questions are the ones you don't ask. so, here goes.....

a girl at work wears g-strings. how do I know this? there have been a couple of nights where, over the course of the evening and having the opportunity to watch her bend over multiple times, her pants have slid down enough for me to see. not any actual cheekage, but the waistband and enough crack to know that it was definitely not any regular ol' pair of panties. here's the question.... do I let her know that she's occasionally putting on a show, or do I just keep my mouth shut and enjoy it? she's only 18 or so, if that figures into the equation any.

Around here it's a common enough sight that I assumed it was a fashion trend among the young women to show their thongs. Isn't it?.
Anyhow I'd keep my mouth shut and my eyes open if I was you.

 

[Eilan]

that's what encourages pedaphiles...

Pedophiles need no encouragement.

 

[Quoll]

Aaah the delights of the whale tail.

 

[bronzeage]

some might think this is a stupid question, but I've actually pondered what is the right thing to do. anyway, my daddy used to always say that the only stupid questions are the ones you don't ask. so, here goes.....

a girl at work wears g-strings. how do I know this? there have been a couple of nights where, over the course of the evening and having the opportunity to watch her bend over multiple times, her pants have slid down enough for me to see. not any actual cheekage, but the waistband and enough crack to know that it was definitely not any regular ol' pair of panties. here's the question.... do I let her know that she's occasionally putting on a show, or do I just keep my mouth shut and enjoy it? she's only 18 or so, if that figures into the equation any.

A true gentleman stands behind her and blocks evrybody else's view.

 

[boston_bbw]

I agree with the concensous, shut up and enjoy. Not to mention she could take saying something as sexual harrassment and then your bummin

 

[Agent 86]

IMHO: Only way you'll ever know for sure is go shake your dick at her & see what happens.

 

[Qina]

Around here it's a common enough sight that I assumed it was a fashion trend among the young women to show their thongs. Isn't it?.

Have you checked out Victoria's Secret lately? They sell thongs with nice little hearts and stars and things on the back... surely they're meant to be seen?

 

[sexyjenn]

if we're wearing a g string, we know we know. Enjoy the view

 

[millieteases]

Keep you mouth shut, like you've decided.

Don't stare - it's rude. Treat it just like you would if your mother/sister/whatever female relation bent over and her blouse fell open and you got a peak down it.

Don't stare. It's rude.

 

[Private_Label]

I just seriously wondered if maybe I should tell her she's showing more than she might want to, and might want to start wearing a belt. I told ya it was a stupid question.

I know now that I'm just gonna keep my mouth shut.

If you used those exact words "showing more than she might want to" without specifying what, and let her decide if she needs to wear more work appropriate clothing. While this may not be the same situation as the handyman's "toolbelt making the crack of his ass show" it could still be innapropriate for your work place. A client could get the wrong idea if he/she saw the show.

 

[Hanon435]

be subtle



write her a note


an when she bends over slip it in the g string

 

[Michi_Knickers]

haha keep yr mouth shut and enjoy a g-string is meant to be seen

 

[eudaemonia]

A female high school teacher told me her school's policy is to warn girls who do this, but a female teacher has to do it so that a man can't be accused of harassment.

What a twisted lesson to teach young men and women: it's okay for girls to wear sexy underwear but not okay for it to show or for boys to notice. That's just so fucked up! No wonder the world is so full of of sexually confused people.

For godssakes teach your kids to embrace their sexuality _and_ be protective of it.

 

[eudaemonia]

A true gentleman stands behind her and blocks evrybody else's view.

Spoken like a, well, true gentleman.