Pain

[owieouchouch]

I have a fetish, but do not know the name of it or how to gain information regarding it, please help.
I enjoy inflicting pain on myself to a lesser degree. I do not want to stick rods throught my penis or anything to that degree. To date: I have I have placed clothes pins on my nipples and have used a butt plug to my intense satisfaction.
In todays's world, there have to be some websites devoted to this fetish and hopefully some viewers have been there and done that, if so, I welome your response.
Thank you.

 

[Hisownprecious]

Consider looking around the BDSM boards, dear. There is alot there to learn. i know i have benefited from these places. i'm sure you will find what you seek.

As for pain...hmm...i have my own personal views about pain. i generally keep them mostly between myself and my Master.

Good luck, dear heart...

And welcome to lit...


joanna

 

[dollface007]

The name for a person who enjoys inflicting pain on themselves (or having others do it for them) is a masochist. You're into masochism. Any website that deals with BDSM (as mentioned above) will cater to your fetish...as in bondage, domination, sado-masochism.

 

[owieouchouch]

Thanks to both of you . To show you how little I know, I thought that mascohism was when one person applied pain to another only. But, it makes sense that what I plan to do is mascohism.

After I have gone down this route and learn the level of pain I can tolerate- who knows, visiting a dominatrix? But that sounds so cold and impersonal to pay someone for something that should be shared and equally enjoyed between two persons.
Thanks again.

 

[Master Nerd]

To show you how little I know, I thought that mascohism was when one person applied pain to another only./B]

Deriving pleasure from the act of inflicting pain on another is called sadism.

 

[owieouchouch]

Sadism

I don't want to inflict pain-just enjoy receiving it.

 

[ReadyOne]

Joke:

What did the Sadist say to the Masochist?


The Masochist said "Beat me! Beat me!".

The Sadist said "No! No!".

 

[Limbhugger]

A subject I very much enjoy. Here's a thread I posted about this very thing, sorda.

Oh and be careful with clothespins, no more than 10 mins or so or you start running the risk of nerve/vessel damage.

Pain

 

[owieouchouch]

Thanks

I had no idea that you could hurt yourself by leaving the pins on too long. But it hurts so good that I hate to take them off.
In one of your series of pictures, you had a cock strap on.
Do you know of a website where I can go to purchase one and other equipment of this nature?

 

[Limbhugger]

Re: Thanks

I had no idea that you could hurt yourself by leaving the pins on too long. But it hurts so good that I hate to take them off.
In one of your series of pictures, you had a cock strap on.
Do you know of a website where I can go to purchase one and other equipment of this nature?

Anything that hurts can hurt you. That's why it hurts.

You can likely find a strap in the Literotica toy store and blowfish.com is always a great place for quality stuff. Just about any adult store will have some form of cock strap. These too must be used with care and caution!

The very first thing you should do is educate yourself. Learn about limits and dangers and safe play. Try going to the BDSM Talk forum and find the Library thread. It is a sticky thread so it will be at the top. Lots of very good links and info there.

 

[owieouchouch]

Thanks

I really appreciate your sending me in the right direction in that I was going to jump in to my fetish without preparing myself properly:viz; the dangers and pitfalls involved. Thanks again, I certainly will follow your advise in this regard.