Ownership

[PleasureDaddy]

I know I secretly have feelings of possession and ownership. I know this can be a taboo topic. Let’s consider this a safe space to discuss. My feelings of ownership feel primal or natural. Where are you at? Do you like to own or be owned? I’m not talking about leashes and collars. I’m talking about that feeling in your heart and mind.

 

[chrischrissybottoms]

I like the feeling of or premise of being owned. my Mistress and i have a relationship or agreed upon and consensual understanding in which She feels i am Her property, and i am good with that. She is for all intents and purposes, a loving, caring, strict, and yet benevolent Mistress.

 

[Samantha47]

I like the feeling of or premise of being owned. my Mistress and i have a relationship or agreed upon and consensual understanding in which She feels i am Her property, and i am good with that. She is for all intents and purposes, a loving, caring, strict, and yet benevolent Mistress.

Very nice

 

[Dearelliot]

I think true ownership comes from the end of the whip...My pro Mistress believes the whip is a necessary reminder of who owns who...especially when, like in our case, money is involved.

 

[Samantha47]

I think true ownership comes from the end of the whip...My pro Mistress believes the whip is a necessary reminder of who owns who...especially when, like in our case, money is involved.

I want to be owned so bad with no control over anything done to me

 

[PleasureDaddy]

I want to be owned so bad with no control over anything done to me

So primal but also feels right.

 

[Samantha47]

So primal but also feels right.

Yes it does

 

[MountainMan406]

It's the letting go. I think we are ingrained to be independent, make our own decisions. But to be owned you are saying I want to give that up and I whole heartedly trust this person to do what's in my best interest.

 

[Samantha47]

It's the letting go. I think we are ingrained to be independent, make our own decisions. But to be owned you are saying I want to give that up and I whole heartedly trust this person to do what's in my best interest.

Yes I agree

 

[PleasureDaddy]

Yes it does

When the yes Sir or Daddy comes naturally. It feels good in your chest..

 

[Boat1]

It's the letting go. I think we are ingrained to be independent, make our own decisions. But to be owned you are saying I want to give that up and I whole heartedly trust this person to do what's in my best interest.

^^^^EXACTLY THIS! ^^^^
I HAVE this with my Lovely Wife Domme Goddess and the utmost trust in being OWNED by Her is unlike anything I've ever experienced! It's the most freeing thing... I refer to it as "Freedom Through Captivity."

 

[average_red]

I'm somewhere between "until death do us part" and "she is not yours, it's just your turn."

Ownership is normal in relationships, and ownership combined with responsibility and authority is probably the healthiest relationship dynamic. In all things. Even a vehicle, if you feel ownership over it, and take the responsibility for your ownership, will last longer and go further than a rental, or a company car that is always someone else's problem.

 

[Samantha47]

I'm somewhere between "until death do us part" and "she is not yours, it's just your turn."

Ownership is normal in relationships, and ownership combined with responsibility and authority is probably the healthiest relationship dynamic. In all things. Even a vehicle, if you feel ownership over it, and take the responsibility for your ownership, will last longer and go further than a rental, or a company car that is always someone else's problem.

So true honey

 

[PleasureDaddy]

I think ownership can go back deep in our psyche. If just from procreation where males want to make sure that they are raising their own progeny. Plus if you had the protective of your property instinct the ownership vibes would be strong.

 

[average_red]

I think ownership can go back deep in our psyche. If just from procreation where males want to make sure that they are raising their own progeny. Plus if you had the protective of your property instinct the ownership vibes would be strong.

It's a lot more than that. I've been in cultures where women are assumed to be promiscuous, those people will never advance on their own because if you don't own the children, not only do you not raise them, you don't tame the world for them.

 

[nadsforfun]

I've been with my husband for 11 years and married for the past 7.im now 34 and he started sharing me with his friends after wed been together for about 18 months and then with the occasionally stranger we'd meet in a club or contact site.a few years ago I was mistaken in a hotel bar for an escort as I was in a nice but revealing dress and I told the guy I was with someone so he left and when I told my husband he suggested I go back to him as it was a fantasy of us both.my husband followed us as I went to his room so he knew where I was and an hour later I returned as after having sex with the guy.we carried on doing it occasionally then I got the need for a pimp to control everything and yes take ownership.my husband wasn't sure at first but after a while excepted my feelings and said asking as at home I'm he's he's ok with me giving myself to another guy or guys.

 

[Brianna_Hope]

I know I secretly have feelings of possession and ownership. I know this can be a taboo topic. Let’s consider this a safe space to discuss. My feelings of ownership feel primal or natural. Where are you at? Do you like to own or be owned? I’m not talking about leashes and collars. I’m talking about that feeling in your heart and mind.

Been there...there is actually a lot of feeling of security that comes with that. Not being the kind of partner that is flirty that aspect wouldn't be an issue, and not being the decision maker in the relationship is actually a relief. To be a cherished and coveted possession is romantic to me. And that's how he stole me away from another

 

[nadsforfun]

I know I secretly have feelings of possession and ownership. I know this can be a taboo topic. Let’s consider this a safe space to discuss. My feelings of ownership feel primal or natural. Where are you at? Do you like to own or be owned? I’m not talking about leashes and collars. I’m talking about that feeling in your heart and mind.

I'm now 34 and I've been shared for years by my husband and yes we both love it.i now occasionally have sex with business guys/reps etc for money in a hotel near to us which started as a fantasy but now I like selling my body.im looking for a guy to take control of me and own me now like a proper pimp and sell me for sex plus use me for his own fun.my husband knows and understands my feelings and says as long as I'm his at home and when we are together fine but if I arrange to work for a guy I can as long as I'm happy with it and we still have our own life and fun.

 

[ChloeOfCascadia]

I know I secretly have feelings of possession and ownership. I know this can be a taboo topic. Let’s consider this a safe space to discuss. My feelings of ownership feel primal or natural. Where are you at? Do you like to own or be owned? I’m not talking about leashes and collars. I’m talking about that feeling in your heart and mind.

A little bit. And by a little bit I mean a lot.

May I contribute to this thread, too?

about me
I'm 42, mtf trans person, seeking women only.

Feelings of possession- funnily enough, I'm getting less and less jealous as I get older and I mainly just want my lady love to come back to me, every night if at all possible.

I want her for cuddles and kisses and snuggles and so we both don't grow old alone. If for her, that means the occasional boyfriend or girlfriend that she informs me of, that's acceptable at this point.

But, when do I feel possessive- it's more of a primal, sexual urge when I am having sex with her. I feel as though I'm claiming her body.... especially the part of the body she's making love to me with. So I feel, an instinctive impulse and sensation, that I am claiming her pussy, and saying this woman is mine. I am taking her with me in life. I am going to love her over and over again. I trust her with my heart and my body. She trusts me. We are a couple.

So, it's not jealousy per se and I feel it is still romantic and egalitarian and accepting of her as an equal, autonomous person and all that enlightened stuff we need to accept as part of modern civilization.

But for those minutes or hours, I am her daddy, and she is mine to have and to make love to. She's giving herself to me. I'm accepting her and taking her and claiming her pussy. She's mine, in a lusty, animalistic sense.

I can't explain it, but I feel very very possessive of her, more and more, peaking at the moment of climax.

And then when I collapse to the bed and we lay spooning or side my side or I prop myself up and rest my head against her.... as I'm kissing her and caressing her and snuggling her, she's my sweet girl. I snuggle her and I feel warm and accepted by her, and I want her to feel the same.

I accept all of her. I'm hers. I've given myself to her, completely.

It is romantic, it's also very primal and sexual. I can't explain it, only feel it.

Do I like being owned?

Well I am more of a dominant in the bedroom so this doesn't come up as much in the sexual sense, but romantically, I am absolutely hears.

My heart, my body, my mind belong to her. I am her partner in life, her friend, she is the one who decides where I sleep at night and with whom. I will honor her and be faithful and never cheat on her.

And I will be with her as long as life allows me that choice.

So, in the emotional sense, in the romantic sense, yes, I love being owned.

I'm currently unowned and that tears my heart to pieces. I'm looking for her.

While there can be kinky play in the bedroom, IF that is her thing, with light bondage and pet names like "daddy" or "good girl" or whatever tickles our particular fancy, whatever she likes to be called, whatever she wants to call me. If there's spanking, or collars, or whatever. Or not.

It doesn't matter outside the bedroom. Within it, we are equals and I love and respect her and we are playing a game where she's still in full control, but we're pretending she's not.

And, outside the bedroom, we're equals and I love and respect her and we're not playing that D/s game and I am a romantic and a friend and I never stop being so, inside, during the bedroom games.

And she owns me.

And my heart would love to believe she is willingly mine as well.

I will never know. One can never truly know the heart of another. The only heart you know is your own.

I would love to believe...

 

[PleasureDaddy]

I'm now 34 and I've been shared for years by my husband and yes we both love it.i now occasionally have sex with business guys/reps etc for money in a hotel near to us which started as a fantasy but now I like selling my body.im looking for a guy to take control of me and own me now like a proper pimp and sell me for sex plus use me for his own fun.my husband knows and understands my feelings and says as long as I'm his at home and when we are together fine but if I arrange to work for a guy I can as long as I'm happy with it and we still have our own life and fun.

I think this shows a level of confidence that I find admirable. For all parties involved.

 

[nadsforfun]

I think this shows a level of confidence that I find admirable. For all parties involved.

thankyou,we've been into swinging for a long time and my husband has seen guys do everything to me and me to them so we both enjoy what we do,so as he says he trusts me enough to have let me have sex for money already so he's sure he will be fine with having a guy to take charge of me and he's happy for me to sign a contract of ownership as long as I'm in agreement with what it says.