Overstimulation

[HerFireGoddess]

I admit to orgasm envy. It seems everyone can have them, and multiples of, but me...

Orgasms are hard to cum by for me (sp intended). I have had them, more frequently with M than with anyone else I've ever been with. But still, it's not all the time and never more than once in session.

Me too! I always thought I was weird because I can't orgasm more than once in a session, and it takes me a good 8 hours to recover. I always read these stories and thought that all women were multi-orgasmic but me, especially given that my wife is. Glad to know I'm not alone!

 

[njlauren]

There are a range of experiences out there, some people are very multi orgasmic, others have a hard time having one. I read some of the lit stories where a wife is cheating on her husband and is with some guy in his 40's who can orgasm 4 or 5 times in a night and I usually am rolling my eyes at that point, or they are still shooting 'loads of semen' on the last ejaculation...... These are stories meant to titilate, get someone hot and thus have their elements of disbelief (read a lot of those stories, average women's bust is a D or more, average cock size for most men except hubby is at least 8", etc..normal stuff doesn't titilate quite as much. My spouse reads a lot of the adult romance stuff and has more then a chuckle or two at the perfect male characters who can cum and cum, have perfect bodies, always know what to do, etc *lol*....

You see the same thing in BD/SM fiction, you see the man hating bitch dominatrix with the 'lowly worm' sub who is a pathetic wimp, you see stories where some newbie is getting 20 hits with a cane and is able to take it, or someone getting hit fully force with a bull whip and getting some bruises, lot of things that if they happened in real life wouldn't happen or would cause serious damage. Lot of those books are written by people not into the scene who write what they imagine.

Point is, it is meant to get someone off and being real is a lot less exciting then taking it out on a limb.

 

[Azalea]

So much of coming to terms with reality is realizing that it can never live up to our imagination.