Overstimulation Kink and Alternate/Other Types of Orgasms

[Wonderer67]

Anyone into overstimulation kink?
Has anyone ever experienced orgasms that are not traditional penis or vaginal or g spot orgasms?

This morning, i had the most intense orgasm I've ever had in my 55 yrs on the planet. But it was not a "normal" one. I've had traditional orgasms obviously, but I've also had prostate orgasms from pegging or a prostate massager.

My wife and I practice orgasm control, and I'm 23 days into not ejaculating. During this time she has me edging for 90 minutes per day for 28 days. It's a combo of edging, pleasing her w my tongue, intercourse as long as I don't cum. It takes me a long time to cum and I am aware of how close I get so i can have sex and/or edge for a very long time. We've done things like this before and I like overstimulation.

Yesterday, we had very long and intense sex session before work - maybe 35-40 minutes. We mixed in intercourse and when i'd get close, I'd slow down, edge inside her, then speed up , back off, took it out of her, changed positions, went down on her, etc.

Then last night we had a 90 minute edging session like we have been. She broke out her Hitachi and vibrated herself while watching me.

In the middle of the night, i woke up very aroused, rubbing up against my wife in spoons position. She woke up and we went at it again, probably for about 10-15 minutes. Again, i did not cum.

This morning i woke up super horny, although my cock was pretty sore. I asked her if I could vibrate my cock and edge using her Hitachi. My cock was flaccid and i had the vibrator on the underside of my head and it felt good. Then i felt an orgasm rising - i started breathing really quickly. I knew it was not a traditional o, and I knew I would not ejaculate. My body started convulsing and I had an orgasm where all of the air was just pushed out of my lungs. I felt like I was expelling air and moaning from deep inside from my body and lungs for what felt like 45 seconds, but i honestly lost track of time and space. Then i had another shorter one. My arms shot out and my fingers were all splayed out like i was giving someone a "ten". I've had intense orgasms like this, but never one this intense. I did not ejaculate but was too over stimulated. I don't think it was a prostate orgasm either. I worked out afterwards, which didn't help and did some breathing exercises but was jumpy and anxious and irritable all day long. We decided not to edge tonight and I am kind of glad.

I have had shitty sleep/insomnia for two straight weeks and I am sure that plays into all of this.

Anyone into overstimulation kink? Has anyone ever experienced orgasms that are not traditional penis or vaginal or g spot orgasms? Do tell.

 

[AspiringAuthor]

Hmm... I've never gone as long as you've done with edging, but that's a huge kink of mine. Friday last week, I edged most of the day and into the night. The next day was more of the same. By Sunday, I couldn't think straight, and it was affecting my productivity (I'm an amateur writer) to the point where I couldn't even write sex scenes. My overwhelming need was to orgasm, which I did, and several times at that.

I've recently bought a book called The One Hour Orgasm, which I already knew about to an extent. I'm dying to try this with my boyfriend someday, but about 2 weeks ago, I was able to achieve this 'unicorn' of an orgasm without directly touching or stimulating my clit. It was just a steady stream of contractions, but I was afraid of being caught by my husband (my life is complicated,) so I stopped before I hit the 2 minute mark. I'm curious to see how long I could have gone using this technique, though I'm not able to do it completely on my own. It was good enough, but I'd love to try more of it. It was one of the more satisfying orgasms I'd ever had without being so intense that it wore me out.

All of this is to say, yes... I have an overstimulation kink. Never realized it had a name before today.

 

[masterslave00]

Overstimulating kink is in my case associated with repeated cumming until there is no more cum and just dry orgasm. Done that few times... Or post cum torture...

 

[Goldenfinger]

I don’t have a kink but I definitely understand overstimulation.

 

[eroticspank]

The answer is Yes. I will be back to explain.
ES

 

[eroticspank]

The anus is a unique muscle or at least it is in my body. If stimulated enough it begins to pulsate and eventually clamp down on the invader contracting in orgasm.

So for me, overstimulation of my anus with the help of a Domme got me to the point of anal orgasm. It is a full-body orgasm like you describe above that involves tingling throughout, spasms, and contractions but no ejaculation. I had several of these orgasms in a row, about 5 or 6 and it was exhausting, but it felt great. It was hard to believe my body could react that way but it did and it was the result of overstimulation.
ES

 

[AlexBailey]

I have several different kinds of orgasms, the least intense of which is caused by rubbing, sucking, or fucking my cock.

I’m not saying vanilla isn’t good or great, it’s just that it’s easier and less intense than other things can be.

With vanilla stuff, as a male I’m usually the one who is ‘doing’ someone else - sure someone can climb on me and basically fuck themselves on my cock, but it isn’t the same to me as really being fucked.

To me It’s kind of like how you can’t tickle yourself - to have the best most powerful orgasms I need stimulation that I’m not in control of and it needs to happen to more of my body than just my penis.

 

[Wonderer67]

I have to say, I think I have really come to terms that I no longer strive for traditional ejaculatory orgasm. It’s great and feels great and all, but long term edging and not cumming is my thing now.

It gets to the point that I feel badly and empty when I cum that way.

Over the weekend, wife was observing me… watching me edge and masturbate and in amazement at how frustrated I could get myself, stimulating myself to the edge and backing off, time and time again. Or just staying at the edge for extended periods of time.

I definitely had “body orgasms” from this: I feel muscular contractions in my arms, legs, my core, and interestingly the tops of my feet. It feels good.

Sometimes she teases me thru my underpants, rubbing my hard on, to where I would never cum from it. It’s absolutely maddening! Just tease… no denial because I’m just being stimulated but nowhere near cumming.

She gets many orgasms. Luckily she is pretty orgasmic. When we fuck, it’s always for her pleasure (I find it pleasurable too). I know it’s dumb but I always want to bring her off. Usually I can. But I am not allowed to cum. This dynamic really works for us.

I’ve learned to have body and prostate orgasms which feel really good. I rarely have ejaculatory ones, Altho I am trying for hands free ejaculation thru anal and prostate stimulation (no success).

I like to make sure the orgasm gap is in her favor. Usually like 30 or 40 -1. I usually cum about once every 3-4 weeks.

 

[AnalVerse]

The anus is a unique muscle or at least it is in my body. If stimulated enough it begins to pulsate and eventually clamp down on the invader contracting in orgasm.

So for me, overstimulation of my anus with the help of a Domme got me to the point of anal orgasm. It is a full-body orgasm like you describe above that involves tingling throughout, spasms, and contractions but no ejaculation. I had several of these orgasms in a row, about 5 or 6 and it was exhausting, but it felt great. It was hard to believe my body could react that way but it did and it was the result of overstimulation.
ES

anal orgasms are different and better

 

[eroticspank]

anal orgasms are different and better

Do tell and share your experiences.
ES

 

[AnalVerse]

Do tell and share your experiences.
ES

Usually use toys for long time.
Like to fuck myself to the toy in the doggy style.
I can come from the anal toy fuck only if not cumming for many days before.
sometimes use clothespins on my cock in the same position to add more fun

 

[eroticspank]

Usually use toys for long time.
Like to fuck myself to the toy in the doggy style.
I can come from the anal toy fuck only if not cumming for many days before.
sometimes use clothespins on my cock in the same position to add more fun

That sounds great. Did you use a dildo that sticks to the wall so you can do doggie style? I tried securing one between mattresses before and that worked well, but not great.
ES

 

[AnalVerse]

That sounds great. Did you use a dildo that sticks to the wall so you can do doggie style? I tried securing one between mattresses before and that worked well, but not great.
ES

stick to wall or other objects for doggy and sitting.
secured it to large a heavy billow before for a missionary position. my legs were up and around the billow

 

[eroticspank]

stick to wall or other objects for doggy and sitting.
secured it to large a heavy billow before for a missionary position. my legs were up and around the billow

That is a good idea, a large pillow for the missionary position! I recently saw a pillow online that looks just like a large butt with cheeks, a butt crack, and everything.
ES

 

[AnalVerse]

That is a good idea, a large pillow for the missionary position! I recently saw a pillow online that looks just like a large butt with cheeks, a butt crack, and everything.
ES

nice idea

 

[Wonderer67]

My wife teased the fuck out of me last night and again this morning. She was rubbing me to just short of orgasm thru my sweatpants in bed.

I have been 7 weeks without orgasm.

Before bed, she rubbed my cock thru my sweatpants. She teased the head, occasionally the shaft, but it was like a bunch of sexy tongues on the underside of my cock. I’ve never felt anything like it before. It was exquisite and at the same time it was maddening.

I thought I may reach orgasm (I’d have to let her know) but I stayed just under orgasm for about 45 minutes. It felt great, but It was also a mental, physical, physiological and biological struggle.

Same things this morning…abt 20 minutes of teasing, this time. Then she had me take my cock out and masturbate for her… I did, which I enjoy… I like being observed when I masturbate… I edged and edged and edged and backed off each time I approached orgasm.

At one point she went down on me and sucked me. I was close and had to let her know when I was close so she could back off.

We’re going to the nude beach today for my birthday. Tonight she said she was gonna peg me with her strap-on. The only way I’m allowed to cum today is if I cum from her strapon fucking me, which almost never happens.
If I don’t cum that way, she promised me she’ll let me cum tomorrow and promised me a nice long, frustrating hand job. (It’s my birthday) That’ll be a nice present.

 

[Wonderer67]

Had another really intense non ejaculatory orgasm last night. My wife and I were mutually masturbating. Facing each other.

She had me start first and get to the edge. She likes watching me masturbate and I like to be observed by her. Took about 15 minutes of slow stroking for me to get to the edge.

Then she told me to edge slowly as she started vibrating using her hitachi. She had a hard time focusing so she could cum, unusually takes her 5-10 minutes but this time she was at least 20. I was lightly stroking as she did this, on edge watching and feeling great. She switched the hitachi from low to high.

That did it. She finally came - super hard and very intensely. She cums hard from her hitachi anyway but her first orgasm was off the charts. (I just asked her and she said her orgasm was rising and rising and and rising till she just felt energy streaming, and then super intense mid and low core and contractions.)

Meanwhile I was still stroking and edging. her orgasm almost put me over the edge, but I maintained it. She rested again for a few minutes and then went back at it. I was still edging, now about 40 minutes on edge. She came again, faster this time, but not as intense, but she’ll be the first to tell you she cums hard from her hitachi.

Rinse and repeat, she had a third hard cum, while I just edged and edged and edged. I’ve learned I can maintain the edge much better if I lay or sit down rather than standing. We finally finished: she had three orgasms and I didn’t cum, which is how we roll. We do orgasm control and when I do cum it’s fucking explosive!

 

[Wonderer67]

After our session, was when things really got intense. I turned off the light for bed, but kept the internet radio on timer for a hour. Listening to classic alternative on xmu.

I was pretty worked up, so had a bit of a hard time, falling asleep. I enjoyed just listening to the radio and feeling the waves of pleasure in my body from not cumming was actually extremely intense. Each song sounded better than the next, and as I listen to the music, I felt ann energy in my own core muscles, first in the upper core, and then the lower core near to my abdomen. Then I felt another intense wave of energy, starting deep inside my body, like near my prostate but not my prostate. It was like at the base of my spine. It wasn’t contractions just intense feel good energy.

Then that same strong energy in my upper thighs. I didn’t really have any muscle contractions, it just was really good energy feeling, I don’t even know how to describe it, but it seemed like those three places were intense: my core, the base of my body and my thighs.

Eventually, I did have some strong contractions. It was extremely intense and very memorable.

I have no idea what kind of orgasm this was, but it was a great one. And I did not cum from it.

 

[live4thebj]

 

[Wonderer67]

Wow!! My wife and I really enjoyed watching that over lunch (wfh today)

Very intense!

My wife really related. Sometimes after she has multiple orgasms, she’s like that woman: pretty much speechless, cannot function for a while, needs quite a while to get back in balance because of the energy streaming thru her.

 

[live4thebj]

Oh and for me hands down Aneros Vice for a big O. Prostate orgasms are hands down the best for me as a guy.

 

[ChrissyClitLit]

Didn’t really have interesting orgasms until HRT. Once I got the estrogen, and once my tits started coming in, shit changed a LOT. Nipple orgasms, especially during kissing, are near the top of my alternatives. Number one is anal orgasm. By a long shot. I’ve had anal orgasm pre-transition that come in two flavors: kind of a pushing, pulsating feeling (those are an intense tightening, but when they let up, you know for sure you had an orgasm), and the prostate explosion from your lower torso kind that make you wonder what the fuck just happened. But once I transitioned, the estrogen plus a prostate… fucking hell. My entire body goes through wave after wave and I nearly blackout.

I haven’t tried long duration edging or orgasm control. Though I do have a friend who uses pee desperation to some results that seem highly erotic (they’re not for me, but I can appreciate from afar).

 

[eroticspank]

Didn’t really have interesting orgasms until HRT. Once I got the estrogen, and once my tits started coming in, shit changed a LOT. Nipple orgasms, especially during kissing, are near the top of my alternatives. Number one is anal orgasm. By a long shot. I’ve had anal orgasm pre-transition that come in two flavors: kind of a pushing, pulsating feeling (those are an intense tightening, but when they let up, you know for sure you had an orgasm), and the prostate explosion from your lower torso kind that make you wonder what the fuck just happened. But once I transitioned, the estrogen plus a prostate… fucking hell. My entire body goes through wave after wave and I nearly blackout.

I haven’t tried long duration edging or orgasm control. Though I do have a friend who uses pee desperation to some results that seem highly erotic (they’re not for me, but I can appreciate from afar).

Wow, those are some great descriptions.

As a male not on any transition program, my anal orgasm is very much like your pre-transition description above. To me, it seems like the anal orgasm and prostate orgasm are separate. My anal orgasm seems to be a reaction to anal stimulation and I can feel it getting close with a warm feeling in the area, pleasure, and then explosion. My whole body tightens up and I feel my anus contracting. If she continues the stimulation, I will have another anal orgasm. Sometimes it is 3 or 4 in a row. Afterward, I feel physically exhausted.

The prostate orgasm for me starts with pleasure deep inside my ass and spreads out to the rest of my body with warmth. My whole body is warm all over, not hot, just warm and my skin is very sensitive to the touch, especially my nipples. The feeling right before prostate orgasm is like I have been edged for hours. The explosion starts at my prostate and then flows throughout my body. My whole body does not tense up like above, except for the initial explosion, it relaxes and mellows. I have felt this in a girlfriend I have fucked before. She tensed up initially at the start of her orgasm, then her body relaxed and cum juices flowed all over my dick. I could see she was in a state of euphoria and that is how I feel during a prostate orgasm. My cum juices are flowing out of my dick and I am enjoying the ride. Afterward, I am not exhausted but it is an emotional experience.
ES

 

[Wonderer67]

My wife was edging and teasing me slowly without letting me cum the other day.

She would tease me and I’d feel like an orgasm rising within me, but it didn’t feel like a prostate orgasm (it was not being stimulated) and it def wasn’t an ejaculatory orgasm.

It was a feeling that rose like deep within my core. Had really good and strong core ctoractions. Also could feel the nicest and weirdest feeling of pleasure from the muscles in the top of my feet. Weird I know…. Also at one point when my muscles were contacting, my left hand (only) was splayed out as wide as it goes.

I don’t know what kinds of orgasms these are, but they feel pretty good!!

I did not cum in the traditional sense.

 

[Wonderer67]

Last night my wife and I both had what I would consider “ strange” orgasms. We decided to mutually masturbate, and for whatever reason we decided not to do it at the same time.

Typically, I jerk while my wife plays with her hitachi vibrator, but last night I used her Hitachi on my cock and started while she was still getting ready for bed.

We both almost always withhold my orgasm, so I rarely cum anyway. But for about 10 or 15 minutes I had the vibrator on the underside of my cock - it felt amazing. I guess I had what you described as orgasms, but not in the traditional sense, just good strong core contractions.

It felt like I would never cum, but just felt really good. She took over and kept the pressure on me. I just had to tell her to take it off when I was close each time. I must’ve had five or six of these strong core orgasms.

They felt really good. Toes out, hands splayed our wide.

Then it was my wife’s turn.