Thanks for the chuckles...
The thing that prevents me from even wanting to attempt exdpending the energy, is that I seem to attract asshats... not just asshats, but the sort of men who make me wonder if they work at being so rude and inappropriate, or if they had some sort of accident early in life that damaged their impulse control.
Anyone who meets me in real life knows I'm terribly private, and greatly dislike being flirted with by anyone less than a Friend who has taken the time to understand by mind and soul.
A guy who lives in my building stopped by my window the other day (ground floor, I keep the office window open and fan going). He's been hitting on me for almost a year. I always give him the ice princess treatment, never flirt, never share any personal information about myself (kink/etc), always turn down requests for dinner/walking/movies/board games.
So he stops by my window and starts to chat with me- I was only wearing a vintage slip, because it's hot outside. So he leers at me and comments on how sexy I look in my slip, and I'm thinking ya know a gentleman- while he might notice- wouldn't be so rude as to make a comment about it. I explain I'm terribly busy, really need to get back to editing things, etc because Tuesdays are very long drawn out days for me... and the guy says "Well maybe I should just come in and give you a spanking to wake you up and straighten you out!"
What. The. 'Eff?
On what planet do men like this live, where they think it's okay to make that kind of comment, to a woman they barely know?
Sigh... I just wish I understood why idiots like THAT find me attractive, and men I'm interested in, don't.
The thing that prevents me from even wanting to attempt exdpending the energy, is that I seem to attract asshats... not just asshats, but the sort of men who make me wonder if they work at being so rude and inappropriate, or if they had some sort of accident early in life that damaged their impulse control.
Anyone who meets me in real life knows I'm terribly private, and greatly dislike being flirted with by anyone less than a Friend who has taken the time to understand by mind and soul.
A guy who lives in my building stopped by my window the other day (ground floor, I keep the office window open and fan going). He's been hitting on me for almost a year. I always give him the ice princess treatment, never flirt, never share any personal information about myself (kink/etc), always turn down requests for dinner/walking/movies/board games.
So he stops by my window and starts to chat with me- I was only wearing a vintage slip, because it's hot outside. So he leers at me and comments on how sexy I look in my slip, and I'm thinking ya know a gentleman- while he might notice- wouldn't be so rude as to make a comment about it. I explain I'm terribly busy, really need to get back to editing things, etc because Tuesdays are very long drawn out days for me... and the guy says "Well maybe I should just come in and give you a spanking to wake you up and straighten you out!"
What. The. 'Eff?
On what planet do men like this live, where they think it's okay to make that kind of comment, to a woman they barely know?
Sigh... I just wish I understood why idiots like THAT find me attractive, and men I'm interested in, don't.

