Orgasm problems

SweetasHunnie

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I have no problem having a orgasm ... i always have multiple .. but my broblem is i cant if he is penetrating me... I know he wants me to.. but it just dont happen....(i want to too.. its not only him)

It has happened one time.. like 2 years ago.. when i was under the "influence" of stuff.. but nothing since....

does anyone have suggestions??

Thank You :)
 
i think you're making the mistake of thinking this is a problem. it isn't: this is in fact the norm for women. if you want to orgasm while he's in you, i find that simultaneous direct clitoral stimulation is very helpful.

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My wife generally won't have an orgasm without clitoral stimulation as well when I'm inside her. Or unless I get her *real* worked up before hand, but then she usually doesn't last long before an orgasm anyways if that happens.
 
Thank you for your input.. i gues its not a problem other than i know he wants me to.. so it makes me want to.. if that makes any sence at all :).
 
SweetasHunnie said:
I have no problem having a orgasm ... i always have multiple .. but my broblem is i cant if he is penetrating me... I know he wants me to.. but it just dont happen....(i want to too.. its not only him)

It has happened one time.. like 2 years ago.. when i was under the "influence" of stuff.. but nothing since....

does anyone have suggestions??

Thank You :)

Yes bring another chick to bed with you to lick your clit as he fucks you.
 
ickle_stace said:
why thankyou

I know I'd prefer another guy instead hehe, well I've never had another girl, so as far as i know i would! :D

Why stop there? I have one fantasy that involves both! ;)
 
SweetasHunnie said:
I have no problem having a orgasm ... i always have multiple .. but my broblem is i cant if he is penetrating me... I know he wants me to.. but it just dont happen....(i want to too.. its not only him)

It has happened one time.. like 2 years ago.. when i was under the "influence" of stuff.. but nothing since....

does anyone have suggestions??

Thank You :)

I find that different positions can stimulate my clit. For instance, if I'm on top, I can get an angle that rubs my clit against him, and that helps with orgasms during sex. Or you might get on your hands and knees and finger yourself while he does you doggy style. He could also stimulate you in that position with HIS fingers, but frankly I find that my own fingers are much more likely to bring me to orgasm than his.

Experiment with different positions to see what gets your clit stimulated, and then have sex in those positions more often ;)

Also, try not to overthink it. Don't worry about having the orgasms. I know what you mean about knowing he wants you to have one, but sometimes that just ain't gonna happen. Maybe it'd solve his problem if he got you off with his tongue before sex, so he'd know he gave you an orgasm before he reached his own. But that's for you guys to decide, and not some How-To forum = )
 
hhmm...

all your points are interseting!!!!

and we do have this thing involving another couple.. so i will keep this in mind ;)


thank you all :)
 
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