Orgasm: Loud or quiet?

[Gelert Lonewolf]

Ok, this might sound different, or not. I find it a huge turn on to see or hear or feel my partner turned on. And so, it is a big turn on for me when my partner has a very... "vocal" orgasm.

I was wondering two things:
1) How many of you, when having an orgasm, are vocal, and
2) How many others find their partned turned on a turn on (if that makes any sense at all)

Thank you very much...

 

[mickwannabe]

I am quite vocal during orgasm, as my partner requests it. She also gets very loud, to the point of us having to play loud music during sex.

 

[SkyyAngel]

I am pretty vocal and it drives me ABSOLUTELY INSANE when my bf is too.

Knowing that I turn him on is a huge turn on as well.

 

[Gelert Lonewolf]

I am pretty vocal and it drives me ABSOLUTELY INSANE when my bf is too.

Knowing that I turn him on is a huge turn on as well.

I'm glad I am not the only one. Also, I am glad my post was relitivly understandable, lol. Thanks for replying, your imput i very much apreciated.

 

[niteloser]

I am quite loud during gspot Os. But clit ones are more moaning. I have to have loud music so that my neighbors don't get tooo mad

 

[Gelert Lonewolf]

I am quite loud during gspot Os. But clit ones are more moaning. I have to have loud music so that my neighbors don't get tooo mad

Lol. Ok, that brings up another question, if you dont mind me asking - Have either you or your partner been too loud during sex (or whatever) to the point where you recive complaints? If so, how do/did you react?

 

[niteloser]

Lol. Ok, that brings up another question, if you dont mind me asking - Have either you or your partner been too loud during sex (or whatever) to the point where you recive complaints? If so, how do/did you react?

hahah yes! I live in a dorm still. My neighbor later in the morning slickly reminded me to put music on before going to "town" with my boy that early. I turned bright red and apologized for the loudness. Now I turn on music and leave it on all night just incase he wants to have sex in the morning.

 

[silverwhisper]

dude, you are so not alone in that respect.

ed

 

[Gelert Lonewolf]

Nite- well, if it works... lol.

Whisper - Yeah, thanks. Glad to hear it, lol.

 

[silverwhisper]

well, think about it. you want to know what you're doing to your partner is working, and when you come right down to it, the more vocal the response, the more effective, all things being equal, yes? :>

so, if your excitement is in any meaningful way driven by your partner's enjoyment, then more vocal="hey, i'm doing good, here!"

ed

 

[Gelert Lonewolf]

well, think about it. you want to know what you're doing to your partner is working, and when you come right down to it, the more vocal the response, the more effective, all things being equal, yes? :>

so, if your excitement is in any meaningful way driven by your partner's enjoyment, then more vocal="hey, i'm doing good, here!"

ed

You have an amazingly good point here. Yeah, perhaps that part of the turn on comes from the self confidence gained from knowing you are doing something right. You know, I had never thought of it like that before.

You have opened a brand new viewpoint to me Whisper. Thank you very much.

 

[handlebars69]

I prefer to be quiet and dig my nails into his back, but he however, wants me to be extremely loud.

 

[Gelert Lonewolf]

I prefer to be quiet and dig my nails into his back, but he however, wants me to be extremely loud.

Ah, another interesting concept. Instead of volume, go for physical contact. Usually, I would say volume, but if I were you partner, I'd be happy with the nails, but then again, I have always been a bit partial to some "Slap and tickle" - lol.

 

[silverwhisper]

[bows]

such assistance as i am able to offer is freely given. i'm glad you find it of help. :>

ed

 

[Gelert Lonewolf]

[bows]

such assistance as i am able to offer is freely given. i'm glad you find it of help. :>

ed

Very much so, thank you once again. Your imput has been invaluable.

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

definitely very VOCAL

 

[Gelert Lonewolf]

definitely very VOCAL

Awesome. Obviously a very definita answer as well, lol.

 

[handlebars69]

Ah, another interesting concept. Instead of volume, go for physical contact. Usually, I would say volume, but if I were you partner, I'd be happy with the nails, but then again, I have always been a bit partial to some "Slap and tickle" - lol.

For me, sex has always been about the physical aspects, not the audio. I suppose thats why I never got into phone sex.

 

[Melodiosa]

I also get pretty loud, and the guys I've been with loved it. Teehee, when my ex-boyfriend found my g-spot, I was so loud that his neighbor started pounding on the walls. Good times, good times...

 

[Mr.L.J.M]

loud is good, its fun, its exciting!

 

[MissVictoria]

I'm loud to the point of being ridiculous. It isn't by any choice of my own, however... thats just how I'm wired. I've had partners that got off on it, and partners that were very embarassed by it.

I think vocalization is, as most anything, a variable during sex that may or may not be a turn on. I, myself, am very turned on by noises, by being spoken to, etc.

 

[Gelert Lonewolf]

loud is good, its fun, its exciting!

Thats something that brought another idea to me, might it be that it is sexual exciting having a load partner (or being loud yourself) because of the aspect of someone hearing or getting caught or something like that?

BTW, Thanks to all who have replied, as always your imput is much appreciated and I hope many more people will express their opinion on this matter.

 

[rydia57]

hahah yes! I live in a dorm still. My neighbor later in the morning slickly reminded me to put music on before going to "town" with my boy that early. I turned bright red and apologized for the loudness. Now I turn on music and leave it on all night just incase he wants to have sex in the morning.

Sex in the morning.....mmmmm! Just wake up, feel for something hard and then hop on! I love the feeling! I wish could control my moaning so the neighbors wouldn't hear tho.

 

[Gelert Lonewolf]

Lol. I don't see why neighbors complain - I wouldnt, lol.

 

[MintSoda]

I tend to be a screamer and he's a mute in bed.