Orgasm and crying????

[RedHotMamaTN]

It is not uncommon for me to cry after a really good orgasm. i did this for the first time last week with my love and he thought he had done something wrong. I couldnt talk for a minute or two. The more I tried not to cry the more i did.

I have even cried when im alone and play. SO im asking is this normal and does anyone know why i do this? I was embarassed for him to see me cry but he said he loved knowing he pleased me so well that i cried.
Does anyone else do this or am i the only one? lol

 

[WynneWynneLife]

No I don't believe you are the only one as I also have cried when orgasming. I think I did so because of the intense trust I felt with my husband that allowed to finally orgasm at 38 yrs old. Probably not the same reason for you but I think that when in the throws of an orgasm we are completely unmasked. Nothing is hidden and we are very vulnerable. I think crying is pretty normal for some woman. If he wasn't wigged out by it but he loved that you felt so intense than just let it be. Enjoy.

 

[HesterPrynne]

I do this sometimes too ... when the emotion is there ... and it's so beautiful ... and intense ... and there is love and trust and you have this amazingly intimate connection with your partner ....

For me the tears have always been good ... like ... everything good has to come out and it's more than moans and sighs and trembling ....

Enjoy the emotions and the moment. It really is a beautiful thing.

 

[richfun]

It is such an emotional and intense moment, tears are fine and natural.

As a guy I have certainly cried at that wonderful moment.

LOL x

 

[DarkRefuge]

I may simply freak out if my partner starts crying at that moment. I would think she's in a lot of pain or there is something severely wrong.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Completely normal, I'd say

You're at the peak of emotion and, as everyone knows (don't they?), crying is a release. So you've cum and you're so charged because of a beautiful experience, you cry. I understand it totally.

 

[Tryharder62]

Not alone

Your not alone. I appreciate your post because I thought I was the only one. I don't do it everytime but when it is intense I do. It can make the partner feel strange until they know you had an awesome orgasm.

 

[SpicyVixen]

I have never done this but I can understand why it happens.

 

[Boundlife]

I may simply freak out if my partner starts crying at that moment. I would think she's in a lot of pain or there is something severely wrong.

If you had been warned that it could happen would it help?

 

[o_so_wet]

I think it's normal. I've done it. I think it's just a release of endorphin and emotions. Just tell your man that if he makes you cry when you're having an orgasm....he knows he's just rocked your world

 

[Loverskitten]

I think it's just a release of endorphin and emotions.

Yes, exactly. I've done it too.
I also cried one time I got scared, it was like there was too much emotion in me, it just burst out and I couldn't stop it. An odd feeling.

 

[Scentofawoman]

When I cry my husband knows it was really, really good. Now I laugh, then we are in for a fight.

 

[iansearchof]

Obviously it isn't abnormal

I once enjoyed a relationship with a woman who had very intense orgasms and always cried. She had had some traumas and I thought that we (or I) somehow had triggered painful recollections. She assured me often for the first year or two that it simply was "relief." For me it was a time of intense sharing for which I always will be grateful.

A few women friends have volunteered similar responses.

 

[Kitty_Schrödinger]

Sometimes I cry. It doesn't happen often, but usually when I've been stressed for a long period of time, or emotionally drained, or missed/ am missing my lover, etc.

But- mostly- I laugh. As soon as I feel the peak, that moment when it becomes too much, too good, too... everything, and that fantastic bubble of pleasure and emotions bursts-I come and I giggle. I just can't stop, it's bit like a moaning and scream- involuntary.
Yeah, couple of guys I've been with found it odd at first, but I've been very lucky for most of my lovers adore that part of me.

 

[Water_Melon_Man]

She cried cuzz I slapped the bitch.

 

[Kitty_Schrödinger]

oh yey a troll.

 

[islandzx99]

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[secretlover1]

You're not alone and no it's not abnormal x

 

[talldad1]

My first girlfriend that I lived with would often cry when she came. Most of the time we had orgasms together when we made love. It was very special and sweet, I loved it and her very much. I just think it's wonderful when a woman cries when she comes.

 

[mayflowers]

I have cried after an orgasm but only when it's masturbation.

 

[talldad1]

I have cried after an orgasm but only when it's masturbation.

Could it be that your best sex at this point it with yourself, and that's why you can be moved to tears?

 

[RedHotMamaTN]

Thank you everyone for your response! WOW! Im not alone! lol My love and I have only been together a month today and there is such a strong connection between us. I was surprised that I was crying so quickly with him. I couldn't believe that I had cried. He was so sweet when he realized he hadn't hurt me. Just pulled me close to him and just held me until I stopped. I did tell him if I cried again that it was GOOD tears. In the past when I had cried when I was alone I feel it was from the stress of not having someone to share the orgasm with and i was alone.