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Something I've been thinking about lately....

One of my favorite times to have my mouth on him is after he's cum, whether inside me or not (although it usually is :eek:). I'm not fond of my taste, but something about the way it melds with his cum and his skin, I don't mind it so much then.

A few nights ago we had an animalistic night, where there's just need and sweat and groans and cries of pleasure with spans of quiet touch in between. He came more than once, I lost count for myself. He got up easily and I said something teasing. His body changed, that dominant shift, he straightened, his hips a little forward, his shoulders wide and back as he stared down at me lying on my side long ways across the bed. Something about the way he looks down on me in those moments when I'm below him.....

"For that you're going to clean me off."

I grinned and moved to him, I knew what he meant. I slid myself to the end of the bed, propped on my elbows, belly down, ass up, and licked our mess from his cock. Teasing and sucking his head, licking his shaft, taking him completely, tasting the mix of our flavors and his velvety skin.

He chuckled at my movements, my effort to please him, a hand lightly caressing my hair, fingers on my cheek, I released him and looked up at him with a smile leaning against his hand.

I was ready to go again.
 
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MastersDelight said:
Something I've been thinking about lately....

One of my favorite times to have my mouth on him is after he's cum, whether inside me or not (although it usually is :eek:). I'm not fond of my taste, but something about the way it melds with his cum and his skin, I don't mind it so much then.

A few nights ago we had an animalistic night, where there's just need and sweat and groans and cries of pleasure with spans of quiet touch in between. He came more than once, I lost count for myself. He got up easily and I said something teasing. His body changed, that dominant shift, he straightened, his hips a little forward, his shoulders wide and back as he stared down at me lying on my side long ways across the bed. Something about the way he looks down on me in those moments when I'm below him.....

"For that you're going to clean me off."

I grinned and moved to him, I knew what he meant. I slid myself to the end of the bed, propped on my elbows, belly down, ass up, and licked our mess from his cock. Teasing and sucking his head, licking his shaft, taking him completely, tasting the mix of our flavors and his velvety skin.

He chuckled at my movements, my effort to please him, a hand lightly caressing my hair, fingers on my cheek, I released him and looked up at him with a smile leaning against his hand.

I was ready to go again.
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Oh MD.

Very very hot.
 
MastersDelight said:
Something I've been thinking about lately....

One of my favorite times to have my mouth on him is after he's cum, whether inside me or not (although it usually is :eek:). I'm not fond of my taste, but something about the way it melds with his cum and his skin, I don't mind it so much then.

A few nights ago we had an animalistic night, where there's just need and sweat and groans and cries of pleasure with spans of quiet touch in between. He came more than once, I lost count for myself. He got up easily and I said something teasing. His body changed, that dominant shift, he straightened, his hips a little forward, his shoulders wide and back as he stared down at me lying on my side long ways across the bed. Something about the way he looks down on me in those moments when I'm below him.....

"For that you're going to clean me off."

I grinned and moved to him, I knew what he meant. I slid myself to the end of the bed, propped on my elbows, belly down, ass up, and licked our mess from his cock. Teasing and sucking his head, licking his shaft, taking him completely, tasting the mix of our flavors and his velvety skin.

He chuckled at my movements, my effort to please him, a hand lightly caressing my hair, fingers on my cheek, I released him and looked up at him with a smile leaning against his hand.

I was ready to go again.
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Mmmm...very sweet and wonderfully intimate, MD! He's a very lucky Master! 💓
 
GloriHoleLover said:
Mmmmm...the intensity of that springing release and first contact! And, the deliciously intimate pleasure of that first long, loving lick...for both he and I! 💋
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It's something that the playful part of me enjoys doing with a woman.....teasing her then 'springing him out'. Sometimes it's fun to just get out of her reach as she's about to lick me, then after some time, either forcefully stuff her mouth with my cock or tenderly feed her it...bit by bit.

MastersDelight said:
Something I've been thinking about lately....

One of my favorite times to have my mouth on him is after he's cum, whether inside me or not (although it usually is :eek:). I'm not fond of my taste, but something about the way it melds with his cum and his skin, I don't mind it so much then.

A few nights ago we had an animalistic night, where there's just need and sweat and groans and cries of pleasure with spans of quiet touch in between. He came more than once, I lost count for myself. He got up easily and I said something teasing. His body changed, that dominant shift, he straightened, his hips a little forward, his shoulders wide and back as he stared down at me lying on my side long ways across the bed. Something about the way he looks down on me in those moments when I'm below him.....

"For that you're going to clean me off."

I grinned and moved to him, I knew what he meant. I slid myself to the end of the bed, propped on my elbows, belly down, ass up, and licked our mess from his cock. Teasing and sucking his head, licking his shaft, taking him completely, tasting the mix of our flavors and his velvety skin.

He chuckled at my movements, my effort to please him, a hand lightly caressing my hair, fingers on my cheek, I released him and looked up at him with a smile leaning against his hand.

I was ready to go again.
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Loooooove the story and thank you for sharing, MD. You certainly did earn that reprimand there.....and it was good you did your duty. I am sure it was such a struggle for you.

:rolleyes:
 
I was looking around for something totally different and this article came up on my search. We discussed it early on in this thread but thought it was worth posting. Both Farawyn and Jen10022 talked about the shift or exchange of the power dynamic of oral sex.

So let's dispel the myth a guy going down on a girl makes him less dominant.

(I did date a guy who believed this way. He would NOT be physically lower than me in any sexual act. I laughed and laughed and told him I'd be happy to do a headstand and then he could be above me as he went to town and went down!! He was not amused.)


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Dominants are Still In Control Even When They’re Going Down

Regardless of how he chooses to give me an orgasm – hand, cock, toy, or tongue – my orgasms still belong to him. I have to beg for permission during or receive permission before he begins before I can orgasm. I swear to gawd, one of his greatest pleasures in life is hearing my voice raise three octaves as I screech out a “Please, Daddy, can I cum” in a whisper without coming completely unglued or having an orgasm without permission.


Dominants Give as Much as or More than They Take

If a Dominant refuses to give something like oral because they perceive giving pleasure to their submissive a weakness, that submissive needs to kick them to the curb and go find a real Dominant.

Both partners should find their own pleasure in the partnership, the relationship, and/or the play. If you’re not into oral for your own reasons, that’s one thing. But if you’re told you “shouldn’t” expect oral from a Dominant (or on the flipside, as a Dominant you “shouldn’t” give oral to your submissive) think again and know that advice is bullshit.

No, not every moment in a D/s relationship is about pleasure. I’m pretty sure the good Doms really hate punishing their submissives, and I know submissives really don’t like being told no. But in this one thing, oral sex, a Dominant who gives it is still just as Dominant as they are when they receive it.
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cookiecat said:
I was looking around for something totally different and this article came up on my search. We discussed it early on in this thread but thought it was worth posting. Both Farawyn and Jen10022 talked about the shift or exchange of the power dynamic of oral sex.

So let's dispel the myth a guy going down on a girl makes him less dominant.

(I did date a guy who believed this way. He would NOT be physically lower than me in any sexual act. I laughed and laughed and told him I'd be happy to do a headstand and then he could be above me as he went to town and went down!! He was not amused.)


reposted from Kayla Lords
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There's a myth that a guy going down on a woman makes him LESS Dominant?
How so?

Do the men/Doms feel this way?
 
cookiecat said:
I was looking around for something totally different and this article came up on my search. We discussed it early on in this thread but thought it was worth posting. Both Farawyn and Jen10022 talked about the shift or exchange of the power dynamic of oral sex.

So let's dispel the myth a guy going down on a girl makes him less dominant.

(I did date a guy who believed this way. He would NOT be physically lower than me in any sexual act. I laughed and laughed and told him I'd be happy to do a headstand and then he could be above me as he went to town and went down!! He was not amused.)


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This is how I see it:

Regardless of the tool, be it his cock, his fingers, his tongue, or a toy, HE is in control. He is directing my level of arousal. He decides if/when I cum. And he does this for his own enjoyment. He LIKES seeing me squirm and beg and mewl with need. He LIKES seeing the direct results of his attention on me. Just because his tongue is on my clit doesn't mean he's servicing me or is below me. He's just making me pliable, twisting me into what he wants and desires.

In fact, I feel like when he uses something other than his cock he's exerting MORE control. While I'm reduced to my basic need, he's calm, cool, watching and waiting until he feels I've reached the point he's looking for.
 
MastersDelight said:
This is how I see it:

Regardless of the tool, be it his cock, his fingers, his tongue, or a toy, HE is in control. He is directing my level of arousal. He decides if/when I cum. And he does this for his own enjoyment. He LIKES seeing me squirm and beg and mewl with need. He LIKES seeing the direct results of his attention on me. Just because his tongue is on my clit doesn't mean he's servicing me or is below me. He's just making me pliable, twisting me into what he wants and desires.

In fact, I feel like when he uses something other than his cock he's exerting MORE control. While I'm reduced to my basic need, he's calm, cool, watching and waiting until he feels I've reached the point he's looking for.
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Yes, but there is a power shift here, too.
Maybe that's what cookie means?
 
Farawyn said:
There's a myth that a guy going down on a woman makes him LESS Dominant?
How so?

Do the men/Doms feel this way?
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Yes, I've been with men who think this and I've "heard it around." :rolleyes:

Here is another post from a different online discussion:

Because unlike other forms of intercourse the sexual pleasure being given is one-sided. It's not, in theory, mutual giving of pleasure. It is one person acting to serve the sexual needs of the other.

It puts the one giving the oral pleasure in the position of providing "service" to the other. In fact it is usually even more submissive that way because they are not only putting themselves in that position, they are doing it happily.
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Farawyn said:
Yes, but there is a power shift here, too.
Maybe that's what cookie means?
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You know what? In my tired foggy brain, I was getting the orals mixed up! :eek: You guys were talking about giving oral to a guy. I started this conversation about a guy going down on a woman.

Yikes.
 
cookiecat said:
I was looking around for something totally different and this article came up on my search. We discussed it early on in this thread but thought it was worth posting. Both Farawyn and Jen10022 talked about the shift or exchange of the power dynamic of oral sex.

So let's dispel the myth a guy going down on a girl makes him less dominant.

(I did date a guy who believed this way. He would NOT be physically lower than me in any sexual act. I laughed and laughed and told him I'd be happy to do a headstand and then he could be above me as he went to town and went down!! He was not amused.)


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It is pretty damn funny that some people think this. Hell if anything, you could have more control over things because you control how fast you lick, suck, nibble...yadda yadda. Plus to me it seems like a cop out, coming from the types of "Doms/Dommes" that confuse submission with abusing someone. Yes, it's physically a one sided form of pleasure, but psychologically it is much, much more. If not actually giving you an orgasm, I would hope that at least bringing your partner such joy would be a pleasant experience for you as well.
 
cookiecat said:
Yes, I've been with men who think this and I've "heard it around." :rolleyes:

Here is another post from a different online discussion:






You know what? In my tired foggy brain, I was getting the orals mixed up! :eek: You guys were talking about giving oral to a guy. I started this conversation about a guy going down on a woman.

Yikes.
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I love you so, cookie. :heart:
 
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