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ORAL SERVITUDE - redux
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I beg to differ that going down on a girl is more pleasurable than receiving.
I'd much rather suck a cock and feel that empty ache in my pussy than have someone mouth all over my pussy.
Your point that it's a submissive act for a girl to receive oral is well written and hot!
I just threw the question out there because I ran across that post when I was looking for something else. I don't think it's really an issue -- I don't think a guy is less dominant for going down on a girl.
Carry on with the usual oral hijinx.
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Ok. This thread.
All kinds of hot buttons pushed!!
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1354360
All kinds of hot buttons pushed!!
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1354360
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Oral Servitude Should Work Both Ways?
I do enjoy this thread and as a guy appreciate the attention of a woman to me, I also enjoy giving the lady the same attention. I think the servitude should work both ways in a healthy relationship. But I am rather ignorant of the dominant /submissive dynamic. About which I am not complaining, just stating a preference. Or stating my ignorance!
I have had a few cyber chat sessions with young women who seemed comfortable with me directing the action. I found that I liked that. I plan to explore that some more. Thanks to all who post here.
I do enjoy this thread and as a guy appreciate the attention of a woman to me, I also enjoy giving the lady the same attention. I think the servitude should work both ways in a healthy relationship. But I am rather ignorant of the dominant /submissive dynamic. About which I am not complaining, just stating a preference. Or stating my ignorance!
I have had a few cyber chat sessions with young women who seemed comfortable with me directing the action. I found that I liked that. I plan to explore that some more. Thanks to all who post here.
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Good point!
I was, of course, speaking from a purely male perspective ...
So you like going down on a girl better than you like getting a blow job?
Glad you like the thread! And glad you're exploring - that's most of the fun.
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I don't know about him, but yeah, I think I do.
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That would be me, too, CC. Although I prefer orally serving men, when I do find myself with a girl, my desire is to fully serve HER pleasure! I couldn't care less about me getting off, by blowjob or otherwise! (If she were to insist on my getting off, I would prefer to masturbate to orgasm while she watches...after I've given her all the oral pleasure she could take!)
I really AM a pure pleasure-giver and sexually pleasing others is truly my PASSION and desire! My lover's pleasure and climax really IS my pleasure and climax! I LIVE to please...and it's always been this way for me! It's just how I'm wired, I guess...
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I've enjoyed this thread. A few bits of input from me ...
I've only had really good cock worship from one partner in my life, but then I do think I am harder to please than most guys. Someone earlier in the thread said when a girl is really excited about it, it makes all the difference, and it really does. She was a complete cock slut and when I would tell her what was going to happen, she couldn't wait for me to face fuck her ... straight to her knees. Obsessively wanting to suck on my dick and relishing every moment of having it in her mouth was key to the experience. It needs to be savoured like your favourite food; like the tastiest ice cream on the hottest summer day.
A girl who thinks she has the skills and knows what to do is invariably somewhat disappointing to me. Going through the motions, pulling out your tried and tested moves and thinking they'll work is kind of empty for me without the worship. The only time a girl not being into it is hot is during some sort of non-consent fantasy. I'd rather receive oral from someone who had no clue what they were doing, but was gagging to do it, and could be directed, than someone with a bag of tricks, but is just doing it because it's been requested and "it's part of sex".
As for giving oral, I am a hygiene freak, at least with where my tongue goes. Basically before a partner is going to have my dick in her face, I will 9/10 have made sure it's nice and clean in the bathroom before. I want it to be delicious. As such, I also demand the same in return.
One girl I was seeing was super clean, and would routinely keep herself clean after going to the bathroom. Funnily enough, she was a stripper, so as you can imagine was hairless, and that was lovely for my preferences. I could just rip her pants off and have a go whenever and be confident she was fresh and love getting a face full. Most girls are more "normal" with their hygiene, which means they don't exactly make themselves super clean after every time they go to the bathroom, which is fine ... especially when you consider PH balances and stuff. Girls shouldn't be cleaning their pussies after every pee to avoid problems. And to be fair, it's easier for me to take a piss and then wash my dick under the tap than it is for a girl to do the same. Hygiene won't stop me, but I'm far more into it when they are lovely and fresh.
Anyway, I make it pretty obvious when things may happen, and a girl can 'freshen up' by herself before things happen, in the same way I would. However, when stuff was more spontaneous, and I wanted to eat that pussy, I had to take control of that myself. For example, if we'd been out all day and just got home, and I'd been teasing her about wanting to slam her down on the bed, grip her thighs, and bury my face in her cunt ... well, it spoils the anticipation if she has to go off and do her thing while I twiddle my thumbs ... but similarly, if we've spent the day hiking and I want a face full of fresh pussy when I get home, something has to be done.
So a few times I would march her to the bathroom and making sure this was done before I did anything. Bear in mind, none of my partners have considered themselves a sub or been really aware of BDSM in a big way. It really worked with a more subby partner I had. I remember when we first did it, I marched her upstairs to the bathroom, stripped her naked, and made her perch on the edge of the bath and spread her legs. She had to slowly wipe herself down while I stood in front of her fully clothed, wiping into all the folds my tongue will be. It was definitely degrading, so it's not for someone who doesn't like a bit of that. However, I wasn't making her feel bad, as I was talking about her lovely pussy and how I wanted it to be clean so I could enjoy it "Clean that fucking sexy cunt for me" and stuff like that. She obviously had that side of her, and was really excited by the humiliation.
To be honest, it is far easier to just wait for some to have a bath or shower, then either attack them when they were getting dried, or join them half way through. There's nothing like moist naked bath thighs, a warm pussy, and an unsuspecting girl.
I tell you what, my life would be much easier if I didn't give a crap about unclean private parts, but I do. Oh well. I like what I like.
I've only had really good cock worship from one partner in my life, but then I do think I am harder to please than most guys. Someone earlier in the thread said when a girl is really excited about it, it makes all the difference, and it really does. She was a complete cock slut and when I would tell her what was going to happen, she couldn't wait for me to face fuck her ... straight to her knees. Obsessively wanting to suck on my dick and relishing every moment of having it in her mouth was key to the experience. It needs to be savoured like your favourite food; like the tastiest ice cream on the hottest summer day.
A girl who thinks she has the skills and knows what to do is invariably somewhat disappointing to me. Going through the motions, pulling out your tried and tested moves and thinking they'll work is kind of empty for me without the worship. The only time a girl not being into it is hot is during some sort of non-consent fantasy. I'd rather receive oral from someone who had no clue what they were doing, but was gagging to do it, and could be directed, than someone with a bag of tricks, but is just doing it because it's been requested and "it's part of sex".
As for giving oral, I am a hygiene freak, at least with where my tongue goes. Basically before a partner is going to have my dick in her face, I will 9/10 have made sure it's nice and clean in the bathroom before. I want it to be delicious. As such, I also demand the same in return.
One girl I was seeing was super clean, and would routinely keep herself clean after going to the bathroom. Funnily enough, she was a stripper, so as you can imagine was hairless, and that was lovely for my preferences. I could just rip her pants off and have a go whenever and be confident she was fresh and love getting a face full. Most girls are more "normal" with their hygiene, which means they don't exactly make themselves super clean after every time they go to the bathroom, which is fine ... especially when you consider PH balances and stuff. Girls shouldn't be cleaning their pussies after every pee to avoid problems. And to be fair, it's easier for me to take a piss and then wash my dick under the tap than it is for a girl to do the same. Hygiene won't stop me, but I'm far more into it when they are lovely and fresh.
Anyway, I make it pretty obvious when things may happen, and a girl can 'freshen up' by herself before things happen, in the same way I would. However, when stuff was more spontaneous, and I wanted to eat that pussy, I had to take control of that myself. For example, if we'd been out all day and just got home, and I'd been teasing her about wanting to slam her down on the bed, grip her thighs, and bury my face in her cunt ... well, it spoils the anticipation if she has to go off and do her thing while I twiddle my thumbs ... but similarly, if we've spent the day hiking and I want a face full of fresh pussy when I get home, something has to be done.
So a few times I would march her to the bathroom and making sure this was done before I did anything. Bear in mind, none of my partners have considered themselves a sub or been really aware of BDSM in a big way. It really worked with a more subby partner I had. I remember when we first did it, I marched her upstairs to the bathroom, stripped her naked, and made her perch on the edge of the bath and spread her legs. She had to slowly wipe herself down while I stood in front of her fully clothed, wiping into all the folds my tongue will be. It was definitely degrading, so it's not for someone who doesn't like a bit of that. However, I wasn't making her feel bad, as I was talking about her lovely pussy and how I wanted it to be clean so I could enjoy it "Clean that fucking sexy cunt for me" and stuff like that. She obviously had that side of her, and was really excited by the humiliation.
To be honest, it is far easier to just wait for some to have a bath or shower, then either attack them when they were getting dried, or join them half way through. There's nothing like moist naked bath thighs, a warm pussy, and an unsuspecting girl.
I tell you what, my life would be much easier if I didn't give a crap about unclean private parts, but I do. Oh well. I like what I like.
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