Open Marriage

[Rob_Royale]

I have known four couples that opened their marriage. Only one stood the test of time and jealousy was the major factor. As a single guy I was involved with her for years and was friends with her husband.

All a woman has to do is show interest and she can get a boyfriend.
Classically the husbands were less successful, unless they were in a swinging situation. So back to the OPs idea, how a wife could keep things equitable.

The widowed best friend. You know, that one with the big tits he can't keep his eyes off at the beach.

Her mother. Mother-in-law fantasies are the hottest to a lot of guys. She drops him off at her moms house when she is heading out to a date. Mom is widowed and could sure use a hard cock herself.

Her boyfriend is married and it becomes an exciting swap scenario.

Husband is a handyman sort and she tells some of her single pals that hes an ace with a saw and a carpenters square and they can do anything they want with him. Her book club pals, her coworkers, her sister, whomever.

Maybe it's just a self confidence issue because he's out of shape now. So they join a gym and she helps him loose a few pounds, but while there they never let on that they are together.
She befriends a shy young woman and encourages her to flirt with the older guy on the treadmill. After his first successful tryst, he does much better and is even more dedicated to getting in shape. After a while he's got a bit of a repuation at the gym.

Maybe it's a simple as joining a sex club or swinger group. Maybe they have been together since HS and his sexual skills are nominal at best and she's never known any better until her first extra-marital affair.
Getting him trained up by someones elses sexy wives could be just what they need.

 

[dirk2024]

That's the point really. Stories like you are describing, "I get mine, who the fuck cares about you!" are a dime a dozen. There are tons of those stories. There aren't many stories about an appreciative wife that feels bound to providing her husband with the same. I mean I'm talking fiction here, it can't be out of the realm of possibility can it?

I think it's a laudible goal. The wife could start recruiting lovers for her hubby, perhaps even her sister. Not every story needs emotional turmoil, some can simply be great sex where everyone wins.

 

[coastalkid]

I have known four couples that opened their marriage. Only one stood the test of time and jealousy was the major factor. As a single guy I was involved with her for years and was friends with her husband.

All a woman has to do is show interest and she can get a boyfriend.
Classically the husbands were less successful, unless they were in a swinging situation. So back to the OPs idea, how a wife could keep things equitable.

The widowed best friend. You know, that one with the big tits he can't keep his eyes off at the beach.

Her mother. Mother-in-law fantasies are the hottest to a lot of guys. She drops him off at her moms house when she is heading out to a date. Mom is widowed and could sure use a hard cock herself.

Her boyfriend is married and it becomes an exciting swap scenario.

Husband is a handyman sort and she tells some of her single pals that hes an ace with a saw and a carpenters square and they can do anything they want with him. Her book club pals, her coworkers, her sister, whomever.

Maybe it's just a self confidence issue because he's out of shape now. So they join a gym and she helps him loose a few pounds, but while there they never let on that they are together.
She befriends a shy young woman and encourages her to flirt with the older guy on the treadmill. After his first successful tryst, he does much better and is even more dedicated to getting in shape. After a while he's got a bit of a repuation at the gym.

Maybe it's a simple as joining a sex club or swinger group. Maybe they have been together since HS and his sexual skills are nominal at best and she's never known any better until her first extra-marital affair.
Getting him trained up by someones elses sexy wives could be just what they need.

Thanks! Not all wives and gfs want to see their SO's as weak, or effeminate, or without sexual value. Not all wives/gfs turn into some "Dr. Jeykll and Mr. Hyde". What I see as more of a fantasy is a wife that loves her husband, cares for her children, built a life over decades that suddenly behaves in ways that are diametrically opposed to what her life has been all of her life. Someone like that, someone that has been treated with love respect all her life suddenly turning into "The Bitch from Hell" sounds more impossible to me. There are lots of stories in the "Non-Erotic" category. My idea doesn't have to be singularly held to the act of sex. It can be more about the dynamic between two people trying to make each other happy while expanding their sexuality.

Basically, I'm tired of the stories about a power exchange in marriage where the wife becomes a distant memory of what she once was. I'm tired of these type stories because they become so predictable. They follow a path that is ubiquitous, a unilateral decision to step outside the marriage, to defiance in face of objection, to denial, to chastity, to being "pussy free", to humiliation, to replacing hetero sex with homosexual sex. This is every bit as much of a "trope" as is "Honey We Have To Talk". These stories that have the "Cuckold Progression" and the accompanying escalation are far more unrealistic, pure fantasy for a masochist.

 

[Vitriolhack]

so how does she do that?

Maybe offer to find a unicorn for them? A threesome with another gal?

 

[coastalkid]

but these are not the premise of a good story.

This is the REAL issue. What makes for a good story is subjective. A lot of topics evoke a strong response of "No way in Hell" or "Bring it on! Love it! Can't get enough of it!". I like to think I have an open mind. I've given lots of stories their fair chance to pique my interest even if I'm not necessarily sold on their kink. I like a well told story more than a poorly written story about a kink I favor.

 

[VerbalAbuse]

This is the REAL issue. What makes for a good story is subjective. A lot of topics evoke a strong response of "No way in Hell" or "Bring it on! Love it! Can't get enough of it!". I like to think I have an open mind. I've given lots of stories their fair chance to pique my interest even if I'm not necessarily sold on their kink. I like a well told story more than a poorly written story about a kink I favor.

then give us a such a good premise or story line. this is the "story ideas" subforum, but you don't have one, and you don't like ours.

I don't know. if you don't like her procuring girls for him (creepy, yes), or buying him a plane ticket to a brothel country, then... huh, realistically, what remains?

let her get him a fishing rod, I say. or maybe a chess board. maybe a table top game starting kit.

 

[VerbalAbuse]

Maybe offer to find a unicorn for them? A threesome with another gal?

why so stuck?

why not a hot dude?
why this presumption that homosexual play is sine qua non humiliating and degrading? why can't sucking dick be exhilarating and liberating?

 

[VerbalAbuse]

An open marriage/relationship is all about trust. My wife loves cock as much as pussy, I however have never been interested in it. why just because she is married to a lesbian should she not enjoy the shaft of a man when she wants or when I want the woman who is attached to the cock in question. Emi and I have had great fun while telling each other about our adventures. ads to the spice in our marriage.

wait, so she is married with you AND A LESBIAN?

 

[Vitriolhack]

why so stuck?

why not a hot dude?
why this presumption that homosexual play is sine qua non humiliating and degrading? why can't sucking dick be exhilarating and liberating?

I never made any such assumptions, as my stories will clearly demonstrate.

I do agree that sucking dick with your wife could be exhilarating.

 

[Britva415]

That is not a discussion on topic for the story ideas.forum

Yet, you discussed it

Only to push back when you heard something you didn't like.

But when you said something someone didn't like, it was "I got mine, who gives a fuck about yours"

 

[Britva415]

wait, so she is married with you AND A LESBIAN?

Same person

 

[VerbalAbuse]

I never made any such assumptions, as my stories will clearly demonstrate.

I do agree that sucking dick with your wife could be exhilarating.

why sucking cock w/o your wife be less exhilarating?

 

[VerbalAbuse]

Same person

sorry, I could not help it.

 

[coastalkid]

why so stuck?

why not a hot dude?
why this presumption that homosexual play is sine qua non humiliating and degrading? why can't sucking dick be exhilarating and liberating?

To me happy is happy. If it's something you want, get and love, then that's all that matters to me. Mostly I'm looking for the compassionate wife that takes on that "compersion" attitude that men always have after she's realized how fun and fulfilling her life is and wanting (preferably needing) to "just see him happy". A flip of all those "male only" compersion scenes, it makes her happy "just" seeing him happy, especially after undeniably enjoying the fun she's had. If the husband was curious and ashamed to share it with her wife that could work too. I'm thinking more about a wife that knows her husband needs something and she works to make it happen because she is overtaken by "compersion". How much more unrealistic is that than a masculine husband in French Maid outfit servicing BBC while a wife is thrilled by heaping on ever escalating indignities? I believe a good writer could tell either story.

 

[Carnevil9]

If I can interrupt the bickering for a moment, I know a way that will make the story work. The OP said they are a "long married mature couple." The wife, seeing how unhappy her beloved husband is, moves them into a 55+ retirement community. If you've never been to one of those, they are full of widows. Many of them lonely, horny widows. A widowed gentleman is like a unicorn there, and is likely to get more wrinkled ass than a toilet seat. I'm sure a husband in an open marriage would have just as much luck.

 

[DeusAudivit]

I have known four couples that opened their marriage. Only one stood the test of time and jealousy was the major factor. As a single guy I was involved with her for years and was friends with her husband.

All a woman has to do is show interest and she can get a boyfriend.
Classically the husbands were less successful, unless they were in a swinging situation. So back to the OPs idea, how a wife could keep things equitable.

The widowed best friend. You know, that one with the big tits he can't keep his eyes off at the beach.

Her mother. Mother-in-law fantasies are the hottest to a lot of guys. She drops him off at her moms house when she is heading out to a date. Mom is widowed and could sure use a hard cock herself.

Her boyfriend is married and it becomes an exciting swap scenario.

Husband is a handyman sort and she tells some of her single pals that hes an ace with a saw and a carpenters square and they can do anything they want with him. Her book club pals, her coworkers, her sister, whomever.

Maybe it's just a self confidence issue because he's out of shape now. So they join a gym and she helps him loose a few pounds, but while there they never let on that they are together.
She befriends a shy young woman and encourages her to flirt with the older guy on the treadmill. After his first successful tryst, he does much better and is even more dedicated to getting in shape. After a while he's got a bit of a repuation at the gym.

Maybe it's a simple as joining a sex club or swinger group. Maybe they have been together since HS and his sexual skills are nominal at best and she's never known any better until her first extra-marital affair.
Getting him trained up by someones elses sexy wives could be just what they need.

Non of this tells the story of you and the open marriages. i was so looking forward to reading those story's.

 

[coastalkid]

If I can interrupt the bickering for a moment, I know a way that will make the story work. The OP said they are a "long married mature couple." The wife, seeing how unhappy her beloved husband is, moves them into a 55+ retirement community. If you've never been to one of those, they are full of widows. Many of them lonely, horny widows. A widowed gentleman is like a unicorn there, and is likely to get more wrinkled ass than a toilet seat. I'm sure a husband in an open marriage would have just as much That works too! One of the aspects that interests me is when the wife discovers it just isn't as easy for an older man as it is for women. How she notices how it affects his insecurities and confidence. Basically everything that she went through before becoming a successful hot wife. Rather than rule him she wants help him. The tendency is that ALL women want to dominate their husbands. That theme is overdone and honestly predictable to me. I'd enjoy a story where the roles switch where the wife is the one that encourages, anticipates his struggles/objections just like he did getting her into it. Something where it's sort of an eye opener for her. She realizes she's totally in the place he was and she wants to see him enjoy it as much as she already has. I just think there could be a myriad of ways to portray the character of that wife. I think I've developed this bias from female characters that seem more mean than a "loving wife". I don't like that "Dr. Jeykll & Mr. Hyde" thing.

 

[DeusAudivit]

wait, so she is married with you AND A LESBIAN?

No babe, I am a lesbian and she is marred too me!

 

[coastalkid]

If I can interrupt the bickering for a moment, I know a way that will make the story work. The OP said they are a "long married mature couple." The wife, seeing how unhappy her beloved husband is, moves them into a 55+ retirement community. If you've never been to one of those, they are full of widows. Many of them lonely, horny widows. A widowed gentleman is like a unicorn there, and is likely to get more wrinkled ass than a toilet seat. I'm sure a husband in an open marriage would have just as much luck.

That works too! One of the aspects that interests me is when the wife discovers it just isn't as easy for an older man as it is for women. How she notices how it affects his insecurities and confidence. Basically everything that she went through before becoming a successful hot wife. Rather than rule him she wants help him. The tendency is that ALL women want to dominate their husbands. That theme is overdone and honestly predictable to me. I'd enjoy a story where the roles switch where the wife is the one that encourages, anticipates his struggles/objections just like he did getting her into it. Something where it's sort of an eye opener for her. She realizes she's totally in the place he was and she wants to see him enjoy it as much as she already has. I just think there could be a myriad of ways to portray the character of that wife. I think I've developed this bias from female characters that seem more mean than a "loving wife". I don't like that "Dr. Jeykll & Mr. Hyde" thing.

 

[coastalkid]

Non of this tells the story of you and the open marriages. i was so looking forward to reading those story's.

Me too! If there were stories that people have written I'd read them. It's a difficult thing figuring out how to search for those type stories. Honestly, I'm tired of these stories that make demons out of their wives/gfs. It seems narrow minded to me to believe that when women become empowered that they become mean and self centered too. I get that people have an evil side to them or they can have it. I just want to read some stuff about "regular" wives, not shot with a "Martian Slut Ray Gun", not Dr. Jeykll & Mr. Hyde, just a wife that has had fun and wants her husband to have fun too. It doesn't have to be complicated but there are a lot of potential directions it could go.

 

[sirhugs]

Me too! If there were stories that people have written I'd read them. It's a difficult thing figuring out how to search for those type stories. Honestly, I'm tired of these stories that make demons out of their wives/gfs. It seems narrow minded to me to believe that when women become empowered that they become mean and self centered too. I get that people have an evil side to them or they can have it. I just want to read some stuff about "regular" wives, not shot with a "Martian Slut Ray Gun", not Dr. Jeykll & Mr. Hyde, just a wife that has had fun and wants her husband to have fun too. It doesn't have to be complicated but there are a lot of potential directions it could go.

the place to post is the Looking for a Story forum.
you can also search tags on the story side.

 

[dirk2024]

Me too! If there were stories that people have written I'd read them. It's a difficult thing figuring out how to search for those type stories. Honestly, I'm tired of these stories that make demons out of their wives/gfs. It seems narrow minded to me to believe that when women become empowered that they become mean and self centered too. I get that people have an evil side to them or they can have it. I just want to read some stuff about "regular" wives, not shot with a "Martian Slut Ray Gun", not Dr. Jeykll & Mr. Hyde, just a wife that has had fun and wants her husband to have fun too. It doesn't have to be complicated but there are a lot of potential directions it could go.

Make sure you stick to the Erotic Couplings and/or the Group Sex categories. Stay far away from Loving Wives.

 

[coastalkid]

the place to post is the Looking for a Story forum.
you can also search tags on the story side.

Thanks! I just started using this forum. I should have posted there also, because I am interested in reading stories like what I have described here. I do believe it does qualify as at least an idea for a story.

 

[Britva415]

the place to post is the Looking for a Story forum.

Why is that not true of every single post in the Story Ideas forum?

How is this not a proper story idea?

 

[DeusAudivit]

Why is that not true of every single post in the Story Ideas forum?

How is this not a proper story idea?

i think the post reads as he is looking for story already written, but i might be wrong.