Online Dom: Self spankings, ideas, games

[mikeRotch69]

Hello there,

So I've been on Lit for awhile and have had the pleasure of being sort of a Dom to one or two women on here. I find myself more and more being an online Dom. It's a great way to learn, to get into the head of someone else, to listen, to communicate, some more of the soft skills of caring for a Sub. The difficulty is the actual physical parts.

Some of my subs enjoy pain a good bit, but without me being there and inflicting it I can only do so much. Especially when they don't have instruments of their own. It's hard to keep thinking of creative punishments or just play sessions every week and for some every day!

Tasks are easier, they usually do them while they are away. But play sessions are difficult.

For the moment, my go to's are self spanking with a wooden spoon, paddle, large flat hair brush. Using clothes line pins or hair pins as clamps for nipples and clit. Occasional Ice play, constant edging or multiple forced orgasms.

I was wondering what sort of things do you do or have had done to you? I'm looking for something in the house, no special tools, and methods of inflicting pain or games to play that involve pain. Whether they are punishments or not I'm sure my subs will take them as treats.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Hah! I hesitate to say anything. My reputation here is already... nearly scuttled actually, so what the fuck


But... I've been having fun with a pushbroom taken off it's handle, turned brush-side up, and, well... sat down on. One can get a variety of sensation, shall we say, on those delicate parts.

Tucking a pocket rocket vibe into the bristles adds to the fun, if you want to do a humiliating forced orgasm-- have her kneel over it, on the floor. ouch, and yum!

The pole can come in handy too, look up "BDSM Wooden Horse"

 

[StrayKat]

Hah! I hesitate to say anything.

Me thinks you should write a book about all the things you did or want to do.
I would be the first one to buy it.

 

[mikeRotch69]

Well that was.. eye opening haha, but I'd love more if anyone was willing to share!

 

[All_4_Love]

Me thinks you should write a book about all the things you did or want to do.
I would be the first one to buy it.

Me thinks she should write a book about more than just that. I've been lurking here for years. She's brilliant

My apology, as I just realized this could be considered a thread jack

 

[mikeRotch69]

Me thinks she should write a book about more than just that. I've been lurking here for years. She's brilliant

My apology, as I just realized this could be considered a thread jack

Haha no no it's fine. I hope then she gives me more ideas! I wonder if she can use her mind if I impose more restrictions:

- Only objects found in the house.
- No Vaginal insertion.
- Must be able to inflict it to self.
- Involve as little setup.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Haha if I think up, or remember, any more games I'll post them.

I like using household items, for the deniability factor and for the humiliation potential, if the sub is into that.

I do like insertion myself, even if it's just something bulky just sitting in there. Clitoral orgasms are a lot stronger when there's something pressing up against the Gspot. And I love butt play, so there's usually something in there too.

So.. I am really into bristle-y things right now. A coir bath brush stings like fuck-- a softer plastic bristle bath brush becomes excruciating if she drags it over her clitoris a dozen strokes. You can tell her how many times she has to do it. And if it has a long handle she can spank herself with that end.

 

[coatcheckgirl]

you are all beautifully, deliciously wicked folks. I do so adore it.


x

 

[seela]

At least I always have ginger and several types of chili in my kitchen, so those might be good to experiment with.
Kneeling on rice/peas/beans is a timeless classic.

The added bonus of using house hold items is that they usually bring back the memories of those kinky moments when they're used in day to day life.

 

[Redrosewitch]

Not sure how you are about this, but a Master I've just started working with had me holding back from peeing until I was bursting.
He got me to fuck myself with a dildo, spank my pussy, and play with my urethral opening. OMG the orgasms were fabulous.
Then I could pee and he got me to wet my hand and lick some of it up. For a piss minded sub....it was bliss !

 

[mikeRotch69]

Hmm a lot of these are pretty great. I think what I'll do is if the thread gets longer, I'll keep editing the main post and add all the ideas up there.

So far though kneeling on rice sounds like a good punishment and bristles hmm would a toothbrush on a clit work?

I also am considering trying the pee thing... make her hold it till she is about to burst and force her to make herself edge and cum before she can pee. Would work for those not into pee play as well.