Online BDSM: Administering Punishment

[P. B. Walker]

So, you online BDSM'ers... time to come out of hiding

Let's here some unique and interesting ways for administering punishment/discipline over the phone-lines/long distances. How do you make you sweet little wench feel the sting of the whip? What's the strangest, cruelest thing your Dom has made you do for being naughty?

I'll start, I suppose...


For about a year I was involved with a married woman in Australia. It was an online BDSM relationship only. We were both totally new to it and learning as we went along. One of my requirements was for her to send me a daily email, sort of a daily report type thing. Well, she skipped a day, and basically down right refused to even send it in late. She was quite the cheeky girlie. Loved to be naughty and get punished for it. Her hubby had no idea she had these secret fantasies about BDSM. In fact, he was very much a prude, they rarely had sex and it was always the standard missionary with most of their clothes on (in case someone might walk in on them in the middle of the night with their door closed and locked).

So anyway, I had previously made her go out and get a dildo and butt plug. It wasn't too large, but just large enough. She'd never had anal before, and she wanted it badly. So we started her on a anal training program similar to what was discussed in an anal thread here lately. Well, I cut off her mastrubation for the rest of the week, and just before her hubby was due home for dinner, I made her go get the plug and insert it in her ass, while on cam... and then wait til hubby got home. I told her to leave it in all thru dinner, and the rest of the evening, and even after she went to sleep... basically, she had to keep it in until morning. She was allowed to masterbate, but only after she was in bed and her hubby was asleep (She was famous for masturbating next to him while he was asleep.. big thrill for her ).

When I read her daily report the next morning (notice that it wasn't a second late... LOL)... I was so aroused hearing about her experience, I had to retire to the men's room. <winks>.

I know... not all that exciting... but definitely risky. LOL

PBW

 

[Ms_Lilith]

my online doms have ordered me to slap my pussy and breasts to the point where they can hear the slap, and where I am whimpering (they knew me well enough to know that 1) I'd never even THINK of faking, and 2) if, for some bogus reason I DID fake, they'd know it was fake). I've also been ordered to go without play, to go without certain articles of clothing for a day. I've been ordered to tell my SO what I had done that was bad (my SO has been aware of these 'relationships' for a long time). One Dom once ordered me to knock on my roommate's door, and have her slap me across the butt, and once again, across the chest...

I miss it.. it's been a while since I've had a dom/sub conversation...

 

[SexyChele]

I've been involved in a very special long distance relationship that has been going on for just over a year and half now. We were in a public chat room one night, where we sometimes would flirt and tease other people while in private message to each other. One night, I got very bratty and felt he was paying too much attention to this other woman. I have to hand it to him, he never lost his temper. He just asked me if I would rather hear his voice, something I jumped at. At first the phone conversation went fine, and I was feeling very proud of myself. Then he started the "lecture" - never shouting or losing his temper, just totally in control. After we had talked, he gave me directions that involved a lot teasing - and then ordered me to slap my clit, over and over and over until I was actually beginning to see stars. Then he ordered me on my hands and knees, and directed me to give myself a spanking. (Not an easy thing to do while holding a phone!) Depending on how loud the slaps were, he would order me to go harder. Once my butt was red and hot, he told me to never push him again, and wished me a good night - after telling me to cum no less than 5 times before I went to bed.

I actually got so turned on from this, that I made an audio cassette tape for him, part of which was me giving myself a spanking with a leather belt.

The things one will do for that very special person.....

 

[WriterDom]

I've done pussy and ass spankings over the phone. More as play rather than punishment. She'll count off 10, and my rule is for each one I didn't think was loud enough, she'd owe me two more.

 

[sheath]

I'm very new to this forum...

My boyfriend and I are into things like this. We are also in a long-distance relationship, so the phone is our biggest avenue of communication.

One of the hottest things he ever had me do...and he likes to do it a lot...is to ask me to get a very sharp knife and the most expensive liquor I have in the house. He prefers Crown. Anyway, he tells me to use the knife on certain places...then pour the liquor on the cuts...and when I'm in just enough pain and aroused just enough, he rewards me.

That is my favorite...he has others that he enjoys. He likes me to slap myself, to use different household objects, to yank my hair and do other things that make me horny beyond belief...he's also been known to drive me to the edge of orgasm and then demand that I stop touching, stop everything. The first time we ever did it on the phone, he took me to the edge five times. I guess that told me immediately who was boss, didn't it?

But sometimes, just sometimes, he lets ME demand those things of him...and my God, what a rush!

God...I love this board.

S.