One query leads to another... why guys? ladies? any ideas?

[KillerMuffin]

So no m/m physical contact for me while nude. thats just plain icky. -Bobtoad

Thanks to Bobtoad, I am wondering something else now as well.

Why is it that most people (men and women) find that two women having sex with each other, particularly the 69 thing, is just exciting as all hell, but when two men have sex with each other, even in a 3some situation, it's just plain icky? Do people really think its plain icky or is that just something guys say to retain their masculinity? Bisexuality in women seems to be not only accepted, but encouraged by the horny humpers out there, but bisexuality in males seems to be considered icky. Any thoughts, opinions or whatever?

 

[Naked Hunny]

OK OK Ill admit that I have seen two men have sex and ya know what I thoroughly enjoyed it!! Anyone got a problem with that they can suck my left tit!! I was curious and a gay friend of mine and his lover were willing to let me into their life.

 

[insideShiraz]

I think it's because...

Guys feel that They do the thrusting, and don't recieve it. My girlfriend used to ask me why I'd want to put it in her ass, and not let her do the same to me, and that's what I'd tell her. But if I was fucked up enough, who knows what Hooves might stop by to play in some Ungodly way? But that does nothing for me, and that's the way it is...

A White collar criminal ended up in the same cell as mike tyson, and mike said do you want to be the Mama or the Papa. "The Papa!", said the White collar criminal..."Good choice", said mike,"Now come over here and suck Mama's dick"...

 

[Thumper]

I don't like(lick) guys...

It's just icky.

I just can't see anything attractive about the male body. I am still amazed that all women aren't lesbians..I mean what do you see in a male???? ewwwwwww!

BTW...I don't do the ass thing...and noone does it to me..

 

[Bobtoad777]

MadDog has the right premise

m/m is icky to me f/f is art

but seriously I don't plan on threesome any way m/m/m, m/m/f, or m/f/f. Ill be happy if I get married and finally get to have sex.

btw my homphobia comes from an abusive anal probbing male babysitter, which the courts now say the statutes of limitations has expired on. so now adays my bum is only used for outgoing products not incoming, and thats the way I like things.

 

[Silverlily]

Re: I don't like(lick) guys...

I mean what do you see in a male???? ewwwwwww!

Shall I elaborate?


I walked in on two guys once when I worked in theater. THAT was not pleasant. However, since then, I've seen two men in a caring relationship and that was every bit as erotic as a man and a woman.

Having said that, I'd like to point out watching any kind of coupling where one partner is not happy, isn't pretty regardless of genders.

 

[Sammyjo]

Yeah, I don't get that either...I tried to get my guy to let me put my dildo up his ass and he freaked out...like I was turning him gay or something. I said "So, seeing you with another guy is out then, too?" "Hell yes, it's out. No way am I going to get with another guy." Ummmm...k. I did have a very pleasant offer from a kind gentleman who told me I could watch him and another guy if I wanted. Hmmm...well, it hasn't happened yet, but my curiousity is getting the better of me. I think it would (and could) be totally erotic. I'm glad I'm not the only one.

 

[MinkSoul]

I tried the gay thing and found it wasn't for me. I wasn't repulsed by it....I just like women more.
In my opinion (i'm gonna get in trouble for this....i just know it....oh well) everyone is bisexual to some degree. Even the most Manly Man has just a grain of gay in him, he may not even notice it ever because it's so small, but I think it's still there...

Oh yea....as for two women having sex being art? Nope. for me....it's Hot Rutting Lust. Makes me hard as a rock.

 

[Samuari]

I really don't have any opinion, had never even considered it untill a freind brought it up and said that it was the most exciting thing that shehad ever seen. Not repulsed, just not something that I had ever before considered.

After consideration, if I knew that my lover was really excited by having sex with two men who were also having sex with each other, I would have to try it. I would be very aprehensive, and it would be eaiser to be involved in oral sex, but I would try. If it turned out to be one of those things that I am just incapable of, then I would do what ever I could to help her enjoy herself safely.

 

[Rosebud]

I am with the guys on this...I much rather see two women together than two men. Why waste a good dick on a man? LOL

 

[Ramlick]

I'm sorry, but I don't get even the slightest bit excited by the thought of fucking a man in his asshole. I mean it. Doesn't appeal to me. And if a guy put his lips on my dick, there's no way I'd ever get hard enough to cum. I just don't have any attraction whatsoever to men. So I guess I don't believe in the "we are all slightly bisexual" theory.

[Edited by Ramlick on 10-14-2000 at 09:10 PM]

 

[MinkSoul]

OOPS....

i think you misread my post. That was just my opinion. Theories have to be testable. I don't think this is.
And, you know what they say about opinions.

Opinions are like assholes......Everyone has one and no one thinks theirs stinks

 

[Thumper]

Kitten! Please give a 3-5 page treatise...

...on what you like about men.

In other words...yes! Elaborate! LOL

Rosebud......My SO has said that before....why waste a good dick on a man. Methinks it was a shot at me LOL

 

[SeXy ReDHeD]

Just my opinion here...

As much as I love men, I personally don't find it all arousing seeing two of them together, but on the other hand I can get extremely aroused seeing two women.

Women just have an inherent sensuality that makes a sexual encounter BEAUTIFUL. They are lovely, graceful, and intensely erotic. They are also able to let themselves become so immersed in the pleasure, in the HUMAN part of the sex in ways that men just can't... for whatever reasons. It's very deep (no pun intended )!

To ME, women provide the loving, nurturing element to sex that can just never be achieved with two men.

This is not to say that there is no nurturing involved in m/m relationships, but it is not the usual male role and it is not usually seen in m/m sex.

 

[TN_Vixen]

My best friend is gay and we've known one another for 20 years. He introduced me to gay porn and at first I was like.. eww..eww.. and couldn't watch it. Then I loosened up a bit and actually began seeing some of the scenes as very erotic. I'm still not much into watching a guy suck off another guy, but almost eveything else is hot as hell.

Now, where women are concerned, I don't find anything erotic about watching two women together on film... but I think it is stimulating to think about being with another woman - although I haven't... um, yet. (smile)

It is really hot for a guy to allow you to play a little on the backside. A finger, a lick, a probe and such... just watching his face as you do that while having his dick in your mouth is very hot.

And, I disagree with RedHead that 2 men together aren't as sensual as two women. Sometimes the level of emotion is just as strong and they can lose themself in the act just as deeply.

 

[Dixon Carter Lee]

In my opinion (i'm gonna get in trouble for this....i just know it....oh well) everyone is bisexual to some degree. Even the most Manly Man has just a grain of gay in him, he may not even notice it ever because it's so small, but I think it's still there...

Oh my God I've heard that fantasy-land dictum for 25 years now. I'd hear it from chorus boys, drag queens, transexuals and a thousand other actors and performers I've worked with over the years. "Everybody's a little gay." Christ. It's as much horseshit as the belief that everybody's straight, but some people are led astray and choose to be gay.

It's like the guy who plays the piano who can't understand why his best friend can't play. It seems so easy and natural to him -- he can hear the music in his head and coordinate his fingers over the keys. "I don't believe you can't play the piano. I can, therefore everybody must be at least a little musical."

 

[Gaucho]

A Little Post-Hoc Fallacy, eh, Dixon?

I am male.

Some males are gay.

Therefore, I must be gay (at least a little bit).

Right?

 

[KillerMuffin]

Re: Just my opinion here...

Women just have an inherent sensuality that makes a sexual encounter BEAUTIFUL. They are lovely, graceful, and intensely erotic. They are also able to let themselves become so immersed in the pleasure, in the HUMAN part of the sex in ways that men just can't... for whatever reasons. It's very deep (no pun intended )!

To ME, women provide the loving, nurturing element to sex that can just never be achieved with two men.

This is not to say that there is no nurturing involved in m/m relationships, but it is not the usual male role and it is not usually seen in m/m sex.

I'm afraid I'm going to have to disagree with you on that one. I have been in a position to observe and participate in a 3some with two bisexual men who were lovers, an item, romantically engaged, just about married. Part of what made it such an incredible experience was that they managed to be loving and nurturing without losing their masculinity.

But, then, this is also a matter of preference. To me, women are about as inherently sexy, sensual, beautiful and intensely erotic as watching a puke green Ford Gremlin with bald tires trying to run the kentcky derby. Women are not sensual or sexy to me. They lack that inner strength and the inner fire. They lack the ability to lose all of the inhibitions without getting drunk as hell, they lack the agressive single minded intensity, they are incapable of simply letting go of the rest of their lives and being nothing but a sexual being like a man does. When a woman has sex, she thinks about other things as well, a man only thinks about one thing, sex. Women are too caught up in worrying about the emotional side to just give themselves up to the pleasure of the touch.

There is something so intensely erotic about watching the uniquely masculine grace of a naked man moving.

 

[Latina]

Ooh, ooh! I know the answer, teacher. Pick me, pick me!

Is it because men have controlled the world for about 3 million years, so men got to decide and tell everyone what is sexy? A naked woman making love to a man is sexy. Two naked women making love to a man must therefore be sexier. A whole harem full of women making love to a man is GREAT for the man. Now let those women play with each other and let him watch, still no other man in sight who might threaten the fragile male ego by having a bigger cock or a better technique, just the one guy to dominate all those ladies. The SEXIEST, right?

Introduce a second or third cock into this male paradise,
one that might challenge the only male in this scenario. BUZZ! Wrong answer, you lose!

Ergo, lesbian=sexy, gays=repulsive.

Did I get it right, teach? Did I? Did I? Huh? Huh? What do I get for having the right answer? Huh? Was a good little girl to get this SO right?

Oh, that's no good. How can I be bad, so you'll all spank me with your big beautiful cocks?

-- Latina

 

[Cheri]

Re: Re: Just my opinion here...

Women just have an inherent sensuality that makes a sexual encounter BEAUTIFUL. They are lovely, graceful, and intensely erotic. They are also able to let themselves become so immersed in the pleasure, in the HUMAN part of the sex in ways that men just can't... for whatever reasons. It's very deep (no pun intended )!

But, then, this is also a matter of preference. To me, women are about as inherently sexy, sensual, beautiful and intensely erotic as watching a puke green Ford Gremlin with bald tires trying to run the kentcky derby. Women are not sensual or sexy to me. They lack that inner strength and the inner fire. They lack the ability to lose all of the inhibitions without getting drunk as hell, they lack the agressive single minded intensity, they are incapable of simply letting go of the rest of their lives and being nothing but a sexual being like a man does. When a woman has sex, she thinks about other things as well, a man only thinks about one thing, sex. Women are too caught up in worrying about the emotional side to just give themselves up to the pleasure of the touch.

I think both you guys are full to the gills of generalizations. Women have inheritly sexuality or lack inner strength and inner fire are really a load of dog doo. Both women and men are individuals capable of being eros incarnate or the god/goddess of all sexual duds.

 

[Samuari]

Re: Re: Just my opinion here...

There is something so intensely erotic about watching the uniquely masculine grace of a naked man moving.

You're in pretty good company here, the ancient Greeks always portrayed male athletes nude, and the Romans staged nude wrestling matchs as party entertainment. (next stage for the WWF?)

The attitude that bothers me the most is that the vast majority of the respondents have such a knee-jerk reaction to male bi-sexuality, and this in a bunch of self proclaimed sexual adventurers.

Hypotheticaly, if my wife were to request a three-some with a bisexaual man, I would be in there trying like hell. Understand also, that this is so hypothetical that it nearly begs the question. If after thriry years of being in love, and twenty-five of mariage its never come up, its unlikly to. And if I was to find a hairy man in my bed learing lustly at ME, I may be singing a diferent tune rather quickly. I hope not, but I don't know, hypotheticaly.

[Edited by Samuari on 10-16-2000 at 01:29 PM]

 

[KillerMuffin]

Duly chastized Cheri. Not that I know anything about sex with women, other than the bitching I hear from the guys.

 

[shit4brains]

Bi-fems are great! Two bi-fems live with me now, and if, or when they leave, I will try to replace them with two more. I've never known a bi-male and I don't really care to. To each his own, but not around me please.

 

[Samuari]

I've never known a bi-male and I don't really care to. To each his own, but not around me please.

If you've never known one, how do you KNOW. You have bought into the programing that infects this society. Just keep an open mind.

 

[SeXy ReDHeD]

Re: Re: Just my opinion here...

Women just have an inherent sensuality that makes a sexual encounter BEAUTIFUL. They are lovely, graceful, and intensely erotic. They are also able to let themselves become so immersed in the pleasure, in the HUMAN part of the sex in ways that men just can't... for whatever reasons. It's very deep (no pun intended )!

To ME, women provide the loving, nurturing element to sex that can just never be achieved with two men.

This is not to say that there is no nurturing involved in m/m relationships, but it is not the usual male role and it is not usually seen in m/m sex.

I'm afraid I'm going to have to disagree with you on that one.

Women are not sensual or sexy to me. They lack that inner strength and the inner fire. They lack the ability to lose all of the inhibitions without getting drunk as hell, they lack the agressive single minded intensity, they are incapable of simply letting go of the rest of their lives and being nothing but a sexual being like a man does. When a woman has sex, she thinks about other things as well, a man only thinks about one thing, sex. Women are too caught up in worrying about the emotional side to just give themselves up to the pleasure of the touch.

I will agree with you that women are, for the most part, unable to lose themselves in the touch... but what's so beautiful is when a woman DOES. It is possible, just not common. I've personally only seen one man (out of 13 lovers) that has been able just give himself up to the pleasure the way a woman CAN. Men, IMHO, are always thinking, always quiet, always sooo... I don't know, stoic, I guess.

Maybe it's the men I'm with, maybe it's me, who knows... maybe that's their way of letting loose! But that's just how I see it!