One night stand safety, or How Not to End Up on DateLine

[inside_out]

There are definitely times when I've met a guy at the bar and wanted to go home with him. When I was recently overseas, I was so into it. But I can never commit because I don't want to end up missing or murdered, and once you get into a guy's car or house you're basically at his mercy. If I take him to mine, then he knows where I live and that's how stalkers happen. Every girl knows that when you go out to drink, 'you always leave with everyone you came with.'

How do you ladies decide what is safe or unsafe? Am I the only one who feels this way? Any suggestions for having some spur of the moment fun without your friends meeting Nancy Grace next week?

(This might be the wrong forum for this. Unclear.)

 

[bob53]

Check out on site swing clubs in your area.
Some also do hotel takeovers on weekends.
Be sure to read reviews on them as their enforcement of rules vary.
The ones I have been to are very respectful and no means no.
When I say that no means no it does not mean argue about it either.

 

[FGB]

There are definitely times when I've met a guy at the bar and wanted to go home with him. When I was recently overseas, I was so into it. But I can never commit because I don't want to end up missing or murdered, and once you get into a guy's car or house you're basically at his mercy. If I take him to mine, then he knows where I live and that's how stalkers happen. Every girl knows that when you go out to drink, 'you always leave with everyone you came with.'

How do you ladies decide what is safe or unsafe? Am I the only one who feels this way? Any suggestions for having some spur of the moment fun without your friends meeting Nancy Grace next week?

(This might be the wrong forum for this. Unclear.)

Sweetheart..."Girls Talk!" Find out from someone you know well.

There are several ways to improve the chances of survival in that situation.

 

[FGB]

Also ask in or on the "How To Board".

 

[CeasarBoobage]

<snark>Threesome every time!</snark>

How do you know to ever trust anyone? The next cab driver could make you his next meal.
Trust your gut most of the time. At the very least, send the guy's details to a trusted friend. A picture/video of his Driver's license, car plate, address, phone number, etc. STAY SAFE!