One Night Stand of LTR?

[Hawkwind2002]

I'm just wondering what most of the people here would go for, if it would lean more towards one or the other depending on the gender, soooo... which do you prefer?

 

[ciarran1983]

I think it would depend on the person i was and the situation.

 

[Aquagal]

I think it would depend on the gender I was.

 

[Ask For More]

LTR always. Although having said that the best sex I've had was on a one night stand. The dilemma!

 

[Hawkwind2002]

I think it would depend on the gender I was.

I'm not sure what to make of that... what I meant in my question was if the guys would go more for the one night stand and the women for the LTR, or if it would be a pretty even mix...

 

[luvthedesserts]

Sex every once in awhile depending on the law of diminishing returns and how drunk I can get her or sex on a somewhat regular basis depending on what mood I've put her in from the shit coming from my lips?

I'll go with the larger chance to make Mr. Happy all wet and warm. Chances are she'll eventually get horny and let me play with her naughty bits.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

LTR with a connection so strong you have fun together with others thrown in the mix sometimes.. Jmo..
Two birds, one stone, so to speak. .

 

[Aquagal]

I'm not sure what to make of that... what I meant in my question was if the guys would go more for the one night stand and the women for the LTR, or if it would be a pretty even mix...

Why didn't you say if the women would go for one night stands and the guys for LTR?

 

[Hawkwind2002]

I didn't want to limit the way the replies could be... i'm curious to know how people think and view things like that...

 

[NotHisLady]

I want both.

The comfort of knowing the person I'm with will be there when I wake up every morning AND the thrill of taking someone in my arms that is passionate and enthusiastic at night.

Is that really asking for so much?

 

[FadedHope]

One night stands aren't fulfilling for me. For sex to be really good, imo, it has to happen several times to learn each other. I want to get into their minds, to know what touch makes them gasp, moan and hold their breath...

 

[Gyps33boi]

One night stands aren't fulfilling for me. For sex to be really good, imo, it has to happen several times to learn each other. I want to get into their minds, to know what touch makes them gasp, moan and hold their breath...

There's a certain mental and emotional connection I need, also, to be able to fully explore someone. A certain level of intimacy that I can't quite reach with a stranger, where you have to be able to not only explore, but let someone in to your mind and potentially your soul.

 

[QuantumJumping]

Never did a ONS.
No desire to.
When the guy is tossing in his sleep, becoming heavy all day just thinking my name, and I'm thinking about him the same way...then I'm ready.

 

[Sensualdreamer]

Perhaps consider adding a poll option to your post?

Personally I much prefer a LTR w/ an active (translate regular/daily) sex life

 

[janeyl]

I want both.

The comfort of knowing the person I'm with will be there when I wake up every morning AND the thrill of taking someone in my arms that is passionate and enthusiastic at night.

Is that really asking for so much?

I'm lucky in that I get both of those within my relationship...

But then I also get to explore the other options too...

 

[Hawkwind2002]

Perhaps consider adding a poll option to your post?

Sorry, I'm not all that techno-savvy... I don't know how to do anything fancy like that (which is why I don't have any avatar either)