one girl with five guys

[sandyb]

This sounds like a fantasy but my Dom/boyfriend wants me to spend a long weekend with him and four of his male friends at a house on a lake - "fish camp." I would be expected to service the whole crew whenever they want as well as cook for them. Sounds like fun but I've never been with a group of that many men for that long as the only girl. What should the basic rules be? With my Dom we engage in very rough sex including restraints and hard paddling but I'm afraid of doing that with a group of men; I'm up for fucking and sucking them all but I don't want to do multiple ass-fucking, nor do I want multiple insertions at the same time. I don't want to do the bukkake thing either - is this too many restrictions? I like an audience but I think I need to be able to call a timeout for an hour whenever I need it. What else? I don't want to be a wimp but I don't want to get hurt either.

 

[D's mariposa]

Talk to him and tell him exactly what you told us and negotiate from there. If it helps any, D once told me that while I may be lent out to others there are certain things that will be his alone to do with or to me. One thing you may want to ask for is this: don't leave me alone with them. While I've not been lent out yet, I put that in when we first started seeing each other, and he agreed. That gives you an additional protection.

Best of luck, and as always, takes tons of notes and come share all the yummy details with us, please!

 

[catalina_francisco]

Have to agree with D's mariposa. Communication is a must in this type situation, both before, during (if necessary), and after. I have been shared but he feels it important to not throw me into a situation of group play from the beginning, preferring to up the numbers gradually at this point. Also we have the ageement D's mariposa mentioned that he will always be present and in control of what happens, at least at this stage. Added to that is he is not prepared to hand me over to just anyone for pain play or anything outside sex and will only agree to it with someone he feels confident he can trust, and of course once again, be there to step in if he feels it goes beyond what he feels is safe etc. I would also have a serious discussion with him about what precautions he plans in regard to STD's as they are transferrable in various ways including touch and oral. Fun is okay but stops being fun when you are left with something damaging to your health for the rest of your life, and which can limit your life from that point forward...and contrary to many people's belief, you cannot tell from just lookig at a person, nor do I believe in taking their word on issues with such high risk. Good luck and let us know how it goes.

Catalina

 

[crazybbwgirl]

I'm so jealous..................

 

[Kajira Callista]

Ask for a blindfold. You lose your focus when "stuff" gets in your eyes.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Ask for a blindfold. You lose your focus when "stuff" gets in your eyes.

LMAO... these are words to live by.

 

[Kajira Callista]

LMAO... these are words to live by.

*nods lots*