One Change

[sereneone4u]

If there were something you wanted to change or improve about your sexual ways...what would it be?


Mine? I tend to laugh during sex...sometimes too much. One guy said he kinda thought I was laughing AT him...I wasn't.

I think that is a lovely trait. Some of the best sex is when you can laugh together.

 

[NeonSubtlety]

Consistency. What I want/need changes pretty frequently. Having personally seen, on a couple occasions, the frustration it can cause, I imagine it'd be easier for all those involved if I stuck to an MO.

 

[KalIsBack]

I think that is a lovely trait. Some of the best sex is when you can laugh together.

Erm... It can get a little bit awkward if a girl laughs. Really, it can undermine your confidence. Kind of like: 'Oh, you're trying so hard to make this work, but it's really not. You're so cute.'

But good, mutual laughter is very nice.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Erm... It can get a little bit awkward if a girl laughs. Really, it can undermine your confidence. Kind of like: 'Oh, you're trying so hard to make this work, but it's really not. You're so cute.'

But good, mutual laughter is very nice.

#co-sign

 

[luvthedesserts]

Thrust harder. It'll take her breath away. No breath. No laugh. Then find the hole you were fumbling to find and go to town before she stops you.

 

[KalIsBack]

Thrust harder. It'll take her breath away. No breath. No laugh. Then find the hole you were fumbling to find and go to town before she stops you.

lol. True. I know this now, and it's been a long time since a woman did anything other than moan, gasp, cry, or say my name while we were in bed. But I still have a couple ugly memories about girls struggling to be patient with me.

 

[ManOSafety]

One change...for that desire to remain and be able to fulfill the corresponding fantasy

 

[sereneone4u]

Erm... It can get a little bit awkward if a girl laughs. Really, it can undermine your confidence. Kind of like: 'Oh, you're trying so hard to make this work, but it's really not. You're so cute.'

But good, mutual laughter is very nice.

Well that is what I meant, mutual laughter and I bet she has an enchanting laugh.

 

[sereneone4u]

One that would be my ability to let go.

It can be hard for me at times.

 

[KalIsBack]

One that would be my ability to let go.

It can be hard for me at times.

Let go of what? If you don't mind my asking...

 

[sereneone4u]

Let go of what? If you don't mind my asking...

To not feel the need to be so guarded, vigilant all the time.

To just let go and enjoy the moment.

To give in, capitulate, surrender, stop resisting, etc.

To just feel, be engulfed, awash in pleasure.

Sorry I am not articulating it well.

 

[KalIsBack]

To not feel the need to be so guarded, vigilant all the time.

To just let go and enjoy the moment.

To give in, capitulate, surrender, stop resisting, etc.

To just feel, be engulfed, awash in pleasure.

Sorry I am not articulating it well.

You are. I get it, at least.

 

[rubydlite]

I'd learn how to have sex for sex sake instead of it being tied to the way I feel about my hub at any particular time....if I was upset with him...fine...have selfish...get what I want out of it sex...

Instead...when I feel less then admirable there's no sex....which means I've had none for a very long time.

 

[sereneone4u]

You are. I get it, at least.

To not make everything a power struggle.

 

[perkyT]

That's a good question, Perky. I'll think on it.

But so far, I've only been told I'm perfect. Makes it kind of difficult to improve on.

*boots KalKannot off the t'read*

Consistency. What I want/need changes pretty frequently. Having personally seen, on a couple occasions, the frustration it can cause, I imagine it'd be easier for all those involved if I stuck to an MO.

Sexual consistency? I like to mix it up & surprise...and be surprised.

To not feel the need to be so guarded, vigilant all the time.

To just let go and enjoy the moment.

To give in, capitulate, surrender, stop resisting, etc.

To just feel, be engulfed, awash in pleasure.

Sorry I am not articulating it well.

DivinelySerene...you articulated artfully.

 

[PeteHulbert37]

Change? What's this about change? Nobody really likes change anyway.

Rosy has her favorite position, and that is not going to change anytime soon.

 

[Leland1]

Im not a fan of having my balls touched, it tickles and gets me kinda nervous...

yeah, id change that

 

[perkyT]

Okay.

I blow at phone sex.

Too easily distracted...and I giggle like an awkward virgin.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Okay.

I blow at phone sex.

Too easily distracted...and I giggle like an awkward virgin.

Whoaaaaaa.....ummm...

Wow.

 

[PeteHulbert37]

Okay.

I blow at phone sex.

Too easily distracted...and I giggle like an awkward virgin.

I love it when women laugh and giggle. It's a display of a positive emotion. That has never bothered me. I would be more concerned if a woman cried. Though, that doesn't always mean sadness, so I dunno.

I bet I could make you giggle!

 

[perkyT]

Now...I thought all men like their balls touched. That is interesting. Do you tell the person up front or do you endure it.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Now...I thought all men like their balls touched. That is interesting. Do you tell the person up front or do you endure it.

Huh???

 

[pfflyerhot]

Change? Improve?

I'd like to change and improve my sexual ways by sharing myself uninhibitedly with a trusted partner who will appreciate me and share themselves equally uninhibited. In real life, I mean, not cyber.
Oh fuck. Just to even have sex... with a man... in person... (although I may have forgotten how) would be an improvement and a big change.

 

[perkyT]

Huh???

See Leland's post.

I'd like to change and improve my sexual ways by sharing myself uninhibitedly with a trusted partner who will appreciate me and share themselves equally uninhibited. In real life, I mean, not cyber.
Oh fuck. Just to even have sex... with a man... in person... (although I may have forgotten how) would be an improvement and a big change.

TotallyHot, I think all of the above will happen one day...when you least expect it.

 

[perkyT]

I love it when women laugh and giggle. It's a display of a positive emotion. That has never bothered me. I would be more concerned if a woman cried. Though, that doesn't always mean sadness, so I dunno.

I bet I could make you giggle!

Yeppers, I bet you could. I just have trouble stopping.