on the other end of the crop

shy slave

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I often tease Him and ask when it will be my turn with the crop and be the PYL.

Over the weekend He was twiddling the crop around whilst talking to me about ordinary stuff.

Without warning He suddenly gave me it to me and said ‘Go on then, use it.’
I was very hesitant, not least because if I hurt Him I would probably regret it :D

Anyway gently tapped Him up and down His arms, legs, chest, and cock.

Was I scared? Terrified I hated it!!

I mean how do you know when it’s too hard, too soft or beyond acceptable.

Trying to inflict a crop on someone I love and care for was not a responsibility that I could not accept, nor do I want it again. After all I might hurt them!!!
Anyone else been given an opprotunity like this and if so did it make you want to switch or did it switch you off?

wanders off to re-look at own bruises, and to think of something else to tease Him about as that failed, and ended up back firing :( lol
 
I've dated switches who've demanded that I dominate them occassionally. It was hard to accept, and I'm still not comfortable on that side. But, I learned how to do it, to please the one I was with.

To be successful, I had to approach it as another submission. I was giving into His desire to be submissive. When I approached it like that, I could do it, pleasing Him. As to pain, the most I could do was biting, clawing, slapping, etc. I am not familiar with anything else to be comfortable doing that.

I sympathise with you shy slave. It's a very uncomfortable feeling.
 
Though I am a switch, I tend to lean more towards the submissive role. I love what he does to me. I beg for it sometimes. However, when the roles are reversed, I am limited in what I am comfortable doing to him. Things he does to me suddenly aren't as wonderful if I'm no longer on the receiving end. I can't explain why this is, but I understand the reluctance and the disappointing outcome.
 
Glad to know

I am not alone. Thank you both Kitty I like your approach of seeing it as another way to submit, if he asks me again I will try that. I am off to bed now, I hope I don't have nightmares about being made to inflict pain:eek:
 
Re: Glad to know

shy slave said:
I am not alone. Thank you both Kitty I like your approach of seeing it as another way to submit, if he asks me again I will try that. I am off to bed now, I hope I don't have nightmares about being made to inflict pain:eek:

That's it. I'm going to have to take that quiz thingie in your sig line now.
 
I already knew that of you, Uncle Betticus. Just as mine came out submissive when I took it. :rose:
 
Myst said:
Though I am a switch, I tend to lean more towards the submissive role. I love what he does to me. I beg for it sometimes. However, when the roles are reversed, I am limited in what I am comfortable doing to him. Things he does to me suddenly aren't as wonderful if I'm no longer on the receiving end. I can't explain why this is, but I understand the reluctance and the disappointing outcome.

Wow! It is good to see you, Myst!

:rose:

As for me, when I was subbing, I was only asked, one time, to top my Dom. I couldn't do it. I thought perhaps that I could have, if we weren't already in the middle of a scene in which I was the sub. I also had no experience with this.

When I started switching, I was topping subs and subbing for a Dom on occasion.

Ultimately, submitting has lost it's place in my life. I love being on the giving end of the crop.

:devil:
 
I've been in a similar situation with my now former Domme. She's actually a switch and I thought I was.... But I'm not so sure. I just happen to be really good with a flogger. I can do flogging without being in a Dominant mood. I just see it as doing something therapuetic.

After her grandmother died she went into this space where she just wanted to be topped. Being the good subby I am I tried and I wont say I failed but it was extremely difficult for me. I generally ended up making her safeword right off the bat. heh I suck at the top end of things.

I'll stick to being a sub
 
This is too funny..

When D and I had been together for about a year; his ex sub (who likes to annoy the hell out of him.. the bitch) coyly asked him for a birthday spanking. This was just after she started switching; and she knows he's not into guys. She set him up by telling him the night of the party at the club that she decided she didn't want to collect her spankings at the party, and if he wanted to do it, he'd have to spank her male sub, cause he was taking all her spankings for her.

So D says "if you're going to take them by proxy, I'm going to give them by proxy!" and made me do it.

I was SO not into it; but I wasn't going to let him down, cause I knew she set him up to embarrass him. But I was all queasy (literally!) at spanking this guy. I held my cookies til I was about halfway done, and then I looked down and saw how red his ass was getting and my stomach turned over. I hastily asked to be excused before I hurled on the poor guy, rushed to the bathroom, tossed my cookies and came back.

And then D made me finish it, because it became a submission issue for him. He knew I wasn't enjoying it, but he also knew that I would do my best to follow through because he told me too. AARRGGH.. At which point, he decided that I don't have a Dominant bone in my body, and he won't ask me to do that again..

Later that night though, (after my stomach had settled) he got out he yummy elkhide flogger and rewarded my obediance rather nicely!
 
M is as skilled as I am at rope bondage, more so in certain ways. I periodically make use of his talents for my own flights and highs in rope. It's not his happiest moment, but it's not traumatizing for him, he finds enjoyment in it.

It's much harder to get him to do anything corporal to me. If I feel like being spanked or whacked it's better to get G to do it.

If I want to get pierced, the girlies are naturals at that one and I ask them to do it.
 
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