On one of my threads last night.....

phace5

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I mentioned that a few years ago, I read in the paper that a teacher was suspended from work for the way she dealt with two boys, who were bulling girls.

She made them dress as girls in front of the girls they bullied.

Many parents, including the mothers of the boys supported the teacher and she was reinstated.

Do you agree with what the teacher did?
 
Re: Re: On one of my threads last night.....

Rubyfruit said:
Nope.

Humiliation is not a tool I'd use to help kids figure life out.

I don't think I could have put it better.
 
Re: Re: On one of my threads last night.....

Rubyfruit said:
Nope.

Humiliation is not a tool I'd use to help kids figure life out.

i agree.
 
No. I think the basic lesson that you shouldn't bully girls got across, but I think this punishment failed to deliver on the whole the message that being a girl does not mean you are a target for humiliation. I believe this will reinforce that the girls should be shunned for the feminity and that the boys may not want to be caught again but will now strive all the more to act macho in compensation.
 
surely all that would do is make the boys angry (no-one likes being shown up) and more likely to continue to bully the girls as they will blame them for their humiliation?
 
I remember reading also that.....

One of the boys mothers told the teacher to do it again if the bullying continued.

It did not.
 
Re: I remember reading also that.....

phace5 said:
One of the boys mothers told the teacher to do it again if the bullying continued.

It did not.

humm in that case I was wrong.
 
Re: I remember reading also that.....

phace5 said:
One of the boys mothers told the teacher to do it again if the bullying continued.

It did not.

Until he was 28 and beat up a woman for humliating him in public
 
Hey, I wasnt allowed to cross dress until I moved out of the house, so I dont think it is fair AT ALL.
 
Re: Re: On one of my threads last night.....

Rubyfruit said:
Nope.

Humiliation is not a tool I'd use to help kids figure life out.

i agree with ruby (and want to nibble her ;) ).
 
when mom was little and went to school.. she was chewing gum and a nun caught her. she was made to wear a long paper tongue and her gum was stuck to her nose and was made to go to every school room and stand there.

everyone knew if you wear that tongue that you where being punished.
 
Pixie Mischief.......

I adore your new avatar.

What do you think of how the teacher dealt with the boys?
 
Re: Pixie Mischief.......

phace5 said:
I adore your new avatar.

What do you think of how the teacher dealt with the boys?

thank you! now... only if the av was me LMAO


I dont agree with it. just like I dont agree with what they did to my mother.
you cant humiliate kids like that. will make them fucked up in the head.
 
Certainly respect can be taught in other ways. Respect never comes from humiliation - only anger and resentment!

:rose:
 
I told someone about this and she remembers it being in the...

news too.

She is not too sure whether it was acceptable.
 
I don't think dressing as a girl gives the correct lesson.


I know that a teacher would never be allowed to remain in the classroom after doing it now. I was verbally reprimanded for standing a child in a corner who couldn't stand in line to wait for the bathroom. I was told, "We don't humiliate children."
If standing in a corner is humiliating, then dressing up as a girl is beyond humiliation.
 
We had a teacher who used to give you money for a taxi home if...

he caught you yawning in lesson time.
 
yes, it's very important that we actually have two threads about this:rolleyes:

phace, why don't you just make one thread, title it "I am obsessed with the idea of spankings and humiliation in general, please come talk to me about it", and then just keep bumping it forever?
 
Re: I remember reading also that.....

phace5 said:
One of the boys mothers told the teacher to do it again if the bullying continued.

It did not.
I hope her medical coverage includes therapy.
 
LMAO too true actually he has more then 2 he has several others
in the BDSM forum lol


peachykeen said:
yes, it's very important that we actually have two threads about this:rolleyes:

phace, why don't you just make one thread, title it "I am obsessed with the idea of spankings and humiliation in general, please come talk to me about it", and then just keep bumping it forever?
 
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