OMG! It's so big. HELP!!!!!

[P. B. Walker]

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Originally posted by crazybbwgirl
shhhhh - don't tell! lol (j/k) Well - I must say there is nothing more disappointing than a well hung man who doesn't have a clue what to do with it. And in my experience, some well hung men must think they don't have to learn - their size is enough. Kinda like a really beautiful woman that just lies silent and motionless during sex.

That's why women always say that size doesn't matter. Cuz while a giant cock might be fun for a minute, in the long run we want someone who knows what they hell they are doing!

Well I can understand that. Obviously size can be negated by being a poor lover.

But at the same time, if I made an exact replica of myself and the other "me" had a 8 or 9 inch cock, and I had my average 6 incher, the majority of women would pick the other "me". And there's nothing wrong with that. I guess I'm just one of those people that rolls their eyes when they hear that phrase "size doesn't matter" because there are obviously certain situations where it does. Not always, but I think there are times when it definitely does.

But I do wish TxBelle all the luck and I can't wait to hear the rest of this story.

 

[ReadyOne]

I believe that women say "cock size doesn't matter" the same way men say "boob size doesn't matter" to the smaller chested women.

On second thought, that may be a poor analogy. Physically speaking, a fat cock gives women a lot more stimulation during PIV sex. No way big boobs could have that much of an effect on a guy (unless maybe he's jacking off between them).

 

[crazybbwgirl]

I believe that women say "cock size doesn't matter" the same way men say "boob size doesn't matter" to the smaller chested women.

On second thought, that may be a poor analogy. Physically speaking, a fat cock gives women a lot more stimulation during PIV sex. No way big boobs could have that much of an effect on a guy (unless maybe he's jacking off between them).

What about vagina size? Is that a better analogy?

 

[TxBelle]

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That's why women always say that size doesn't matter. Cuz while a giant cock might be fun for a minute, in the long run we want someone who knows what they hell they are doing!

Amen!


As for me I'm mostly freaking friged anyway so a cock really doesn't mean that much to me. But a tongue is another matter!

For the most part I'm just really scared of this one particular cock and hopeful that it may reveal some secret mystery that will change my life forever...ok I know that's not gonna happen but hey it's something to ponder. The reallity of the situation is that the way he carries himself, speaks, writes, and touches me is always just right and I want to find out if everything else will be just right too. Infact when I said earlier that the fantasy was usually better than the real thing....well I'm just hoping this time it's not true. I've been let down too many times.

For someone who never gets off during sex he got me off with just his hands. That's happened one other time (oddly enough in another vehicle...humm I detect a pattern).

And I'm really tired of boring straight sex. Eat me, fuck me, go to sleep. Some people like that but I get more satisfaction brushing my teeth and doing the dishes. Oh for someone to slap my ass, talk dirty to me, and tell me what they want and how they want me to do it....well damn! I've done the same boring thing for 22 years and with the same person for 14 of those years and not one suggestion I've made has been carried thru to completion more than once. I have a real suspicion this guy could, would , and will carry thru.

He's 24 and I'm almost 34. That's a big difference. He's elegant and a gentleman. I'm a klutz and crass. He's smooth and dark and 6'7" of muscled Adonis. I'm pale and pasty, with stretch marks up to my arm pits, no boobs, and surgery scars every where.
And we are both just fucking hot for each other. Oh well tis not for me to question.

 

[peachykeen]

Well here's the thing. I mean, bless you Tx and good luck and all but my feeling is that as great as a gigantic tool might be to behold and such - and yeah big ones do look great, in a "Hey, wowie!" kinda way, that cervical bruising thing that someone else mentioned is, you know, very real.

That whole argument of 'hey, if a baby can fit throught it yada yada yada' doesn't really hold water because the thing is that the whole baby is never actually in the vagina at any one time. When the head's a'comin' out, the feets is still a'way back up there in the womb, dig? Yes the vagina is very stretchy around in order to get the head out but, and I'm sure some women who have actually, y'know, pushed one out can back me up on this, IT FUCKING HURTS.

Honestly people, take a ruler and put it at your crotch, and then take a look just how far something that is a foot-long would go up into your body. On me, that comes just about up past the end of my breastbone, and I am over 5'8"!

So, Tx, darling, as I say, good luck, I hope you have loads of fun with your new young man and all but for crying out loud, do be careful!

 

[Four_Inch_Heels]

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That's why women always say that size doesn't matter. Cuz while a giant cock might be fun for a minute, in the long run we want someone who knows what they hell they are doing!

I agree totally!

My last bf before my hubby was over 9" long. I could take him no problem. Just be sure you're very wet. I even took him up my ass once (lol), but it took alot of pushing, grunting and groaning. Your pussy will pretty much stretch to take any size.....think about women who like to be fisted.

 

[razon]

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Well I can understand that. Obviously size can be negated by being a poor lover.

But at the same time, if I made an exact replica of myself and the other "me" had a 8 or 9 inch cock, and I had my average 6 incher, the majority of women would pick the other "me". And there's nothing wrong with that. I guess I'm just one of those people that rolls their eyes when they hear that phrase "size doesn't matter" because there are obviously certain situations where it does. Not always, but I think there are times when it definitely does.

But I do wish TxBelle all the luck and I can't wait to hear the rest of this story.

Nope. I would pick the original you. Big ones hold very little fascination for me and they do not feel better to me. I prefer the massaged feeling rather than the overstuffed feeling.

So there.

 

[razon]

Oh. And another thing P. B. Walker ... while I'm here let me say that I love your L.A. AV.

 

[Jim311]

He's black with a large penis.. THE STEREOTYPE IS TRUE!

 

[P. B. Walker]

Originally posted by razon
Oh. And another thing P. B. Walker ... while I'm here let me say that I love your L.A. AV.

THanks

 

[TxBelle]

He's black with a large penis.. THE STEREOTYPE IS TRUE!

Yeah but he eats pussy so ......

 

[P. B. Walker]

Originally posted by TxBelle
Yeah but he eats pussy so ......

Don't kid yourself... those guys love eating it as much as we do.

 

[Sybarist]

Personally if I saw a cock like that in the palm of my hand I would run screaming in the other direction!!!!

Give me a nice and easy average size, and a guy who knows how to use it and I'm on cloud nine. No worrying about "will it fit, will it hurt, will it kill me" for this better than average gal!!

I am with peachykeen in this. I'd be so afraid it would hurt, (I had my childbirth experience already..... during childbirth, and it TORE and BLED and I had STICHES for goodness sake!!!) that wouldn't be able to go through with it. Maybe I'm a weenie, but there you go...

You know, the average woman only has sensation in the first 6 inches of her vagina anyway. Natures planning and all that. Anything bigger than that is just a waste from the pleasure standpoint, and you start to get into things like cervical bruising, ovary knocking, and well, cramps.. LOL! Of course you'll get the fullness factor, and the ability to wear the T-Shirt that says "I fucked a foot long and lived to tell the tale" but how are you going to feel if it's not worth it?? What if it freaking hurts and you damage something?? ICK...

Good luck!!
Syb.

 

[TxBelle]

Personally if I saw a cock like that in the palm of my hand I would run screaming in the other direction!!!!

You know, the average woman only has sensation in the first 6 inches of her vagina anyway. Natures planning and all that. Anything bigger than that is just a waste from the pleasure standpoint, and you start to get into things like cervical bruising, ovary knocking, and well, cramps.. LOL! Of course you'll get the fullness factor, and the ability to wear the T-Shirt that says "I fucked a foot long and lived to tell the tale" but how are you going to feel if it's not worth it?? What if it freaking hurts and you damage something?? ICK...

Good luck!!
Syb.

I've always said I would run screaming too!

The average woman only has feeling in the first 6 inches you say? Hell that's all I thought we had period. Do we have anything beyond 6 inches of vagina? I don't think I do. I think all I have is cervix and uterus. Maybe that's my problem.

I've actually had that whole cramping and thinking do I need to go to the hospital thing happen a few times with my husband. It snuck up on me after the fact....like when I stood up and went OH SHIT that was good but I'm gonna pay by not being able to walk with out pain stabbing me in the lower abdomen for two days.

As for how I'm gonna feel if it's not worth it and what if it hurts or damages something....Well I'll try to stop before I damage something. Pain is a good indication something isn't right....unless its controlled pain with a safe word!
Anyway I'd just feel aweful if I didn't try. What a waist of a perfectly good opportunity with someone I know and trust and enjoy a great deal. My open relationship with my husband has pretty much been a null point since I'm often too tired and too picky to bother with screwing around. The couple of times I have done so I've regretted it as just plain old sex and don't know why I even followed thru except that alcohol was involved or my husband initiated a 3some. There's precisly one person I get excited about being with and we've never had intercourse but he stilll gets me hot and he's from this board. I'll be damned if I'm passing this chance up because I'm chicken....actually just concerned. Which is why I came here. I want to make sure I'm aware of as many issues as possible to make this as safe and rewarding as possible. If it's bad OH Well atleast I tried!

 

[crazybbwgirl]

Just do it! Then write us with all the awesome details! lol And I agree with the cramping thing. My lover is a healthy 6 inches - and after vigerous sex I cramp. I always tell him its my uterus saying thank you. hahaha - but I have a very high pain threshold, had 2 very easy childbirths. Maybe that's why my outlook is so positive? Pain is mostly in your mind. You'd be amazed at what you are able to control and how much your body can take!

 

[TxBelle]

Just do it! Then write us with all the awesome details! lol

Ha Ha. Have I ever told you how much I like your posts? Probably not but you are brilliant. Anyhow we are going out next wekeend so I'll let you guys know how it goes.

 

[UncleTom555]

Have to agree with P.B. Walker. Seems the whole "Size doesn't matter" crapline is just that, crap. Proof: Once you saw that she mentioned the dude's cock was a foot long, all the women said was "Wow! You are so lucky!" and similar things. Usually, you all say the "You're married and shouldn't sleep with others" line. This time you cheered her on.

 

[razon]

Have to agree with P.B. Walker. Seems the whole "Size doesn't matter" crapline is just that, crap. Proof: Once you saw that she mentioned the dude's cock was a foot long, all the women said was "Wow! You are so lucky!" and similar things. Usually, you all say the "You're married and shouldn't sleep with others" line. This time you cheered her on.

Hmmm. It seems this thread has been a bit hijacked which is not fair to TxBelle who is just looking for a little advice.

So I started a "Does size matter?" thread (maybe this has been done, I don't know) so we can continue this debate over there and give TxBelle back her thread.

Care to join me?

 

[crazybbwgirl]

Have to agree with P.B. Walker. Seems the whole "Size doesn't matter" crapline is just that, crap. Proof: Once you saw that she mentioned the dude's cock was a foot long, all the women said was "Wow! You are so lucky!" and similar things. Usually, you all say the "You're married and shouldn't sleep with others" line. This time you cheered her on.

I agree that women try very hard to be politically correct regarding cock size on this board. But I think men bend over backwards to be kind towards us bbw's here too - so I'm not complaining! lol But re-read this thread - most of us say sure we like a big cock, but its not the end-all, be- all. We'd rather have an average cock used well.

Thank you TXbelle - I'm just envious.....

Razon - the size question is asked about twice a week - but the answers are always good! I'm going over there now to see what people are saying.......

 

[ramshackle]

Stated very well, sweet lady!!

 

[hnglkeahrse2002]

The ol' "What's good for the goose" trick ...

Tx, after going through the thread and then back to your original post, the mention of this man's youth sticks out like ... well, like he does. And young guys don't necessarily understand the power of their endowment or (as has been mentioned) the ability to bruise.

That said, you might want to try giving him a taste of what you will experience, especially when it comes to anal sex. Meaning, slide something into his ass and give him a taste of being on the receiving end. The implement doesn't have to be something as large as he is (although if you convince him to take something that large, and he happens to enjoy it ... ).

Use something large enough so he can grasp an appreciation of his own tool. One of your smaller toys should work, or the two of you could go shopping for something special. And if initially he isn't interested in having something go up his ass, well, you're a woman, and women can be extremely convincing when it comes to sex ... but like the whole size question that's another thread.

Patience. Lube. And relaxation. Regardless of the orifice. And enjoy, you lucky devil.

 

[hnglkeahrse2002]

Double post!

The only thing worse than a double post ...

 

[hnglkeahrse2002]

Yikes again!

... is a triple post!

 

[Imi]

Re: Double post!

The only thing worse than a double post ...

Hmmm, are you telling us you get excited about the prospective of having a woman fuck you with one of her toys? *wide eyed innocent blink*

 

[ReadyOne]

Have to agree with P.B. Walker. Seems the whole "Size doesn't matter" crapline is just that, crap. Proof: Once you saw that she mentioned the dude's cock was a foot long, all the women said was "Wow! You are so lucky!" and similar things. Usually, you all say the "You're married and shouldn't sleep with others" line. This time you cheered her on.

The girl is an admitted open marriage and has the blessings of her spouse. Thus we way, "go for it!"

It's those who are cheating that get the warnings from the group...