Oklahoma

RCs_Sweetheart said:

hello to all okies out hear in in syber land i am an okie my self from tulsa living in ohio now

im sory rcsweetheart ismy wife i forgot to log her off this computer i am from tulsa
 
Ft Sill

36 M at Ft Sill for the time being. Hit me up if you may be interested I will try ANYTHING once. I figure you will never know if you really like / dislike it until you at least give it a shot.



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Big Ben IV said:
Not a whole lot as you can see...lol

That seems to be the way it goes on this thread. Do the fundies really have that much control over this state? I was hoping to have enough people to get together sometime...
 
LadyLight said:
That seems to be the way it goes on this thread. Do the fundies really have that much control over this state? I was hoping to have enough people to get together sometime...
I think us central states need to band together!...lol
 
Horny and single in Tulsa

Well, I broke up with my boyfriend about three, almost four weeks ago. It sucks!

I broke up with him for many reasons, one of which was distance. He lived an hour away and I know for most online (turned RL) relationships an hour is nothing. But for this single mom it's difficult.

I'm in school and dealing with three children. My boyfriend expected me or at least hoped that I'd come out each time I didn't have children. My ex takes the kids ONE NIGHT every other weekend.

On that one night I just want to collapse. Do nothing. It took real effort to get up and get ready then go all the way out to his place. Then to only get there and watch movies and not get enough sleep then rush home and suddenly have to turn on the mommy me again. It was exhausting.

Also there was the aspect that he didn't have a diploma. He was 31 years old (almost 32) and he hadn't gone out to get his GED yet.... only even thought about it when I started to ride his ass about it.

In the nearly year that we were together he had two jobs each one he lost, in a short amount of time. He's currently at a new one, but he thinks it's a matter of time before they fire him from that job.

I love him and the sex was good, but there's more to life than that....

A mother has to look at things from a financial point of view. What if this is a sign of things to come when you move in with him... or get married? I mean I fully intend to support and raise my children (that's why I'm currently in school), I'm not trying to find a man to support us or to even depend on. But I also don't want a man in my life that will be a financial drain.

I do feel like a made the right choice. An internet friend said that if we were meant to be together we'd find our way back to one and other. I still have feelings for him and perhaps if he can get his shit together (and maybe move closer or find a meeting place in the middle) we might give it another go.... I don't know right now.

Though I do miss the sex. I'm having troubles turning off the sex drive. I know eventually the sex drive eventually does turn off, but right now it's in overdrive.

(I won't do hook ups. I only do relationships so I guess I'm screwed.... well no actually I'm not)

It's overdrive because I'm not getting any. Though the good news is that since I don't know what to do with my sex drive, I've started to write a story. Perhaps in the summer (when school is out) I'll be able to post some more stories.

Anyways, that's all for me.... Missygail aka: Horny and single in Tulsa. :rose:
 
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missygail said:
Anyways, that's all for me.... Missygail aka: Horny and single in Tulsa. :rose:

It's so freaking hard to find a guy in Tulsa. I'm in solidarity with you. Not a mother, but it must be extra hard with kids around. Maybe eventually...
 
Oklahoma Yahoo Groups

Just thought I'd impart a bit of advertisment. I have several yahoo groups, some of which you might like to join.... that is if you don't mind a bit of PG chatting.

This one I don't own, but I am a moderator. The founder of the group wants to keep it only about Oklahoma and also wants to extoll any and all small oklahoma businesses. If you'd like to join it's here
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/oklahoma/

This one is mine completely. I created it when I got kinda cranky at the founder of the other group telling me and others to stay on topic in his group. I made one for Okies but we can talk about anything... (well anything PG, ya understand). Feel free to join that one as well.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/OklahomaDiscussions/

I don't know if we have any okie single parents like myself here, but if we do then you can feel free to join this group.
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/SINGLEPARENTOK/

I also have a group that's not especially for okies. It's for everyone on the net, but it's for people looking for a relationship. Not a hook up or a just for fun fling a real relationship. Join if this is what you are looking for...
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/loves101/

Do me a favor if you do decide to join any of these groups don't come looking for hook ups or anything like that. That's what you can use this place for (if that's what you're looking for).

Thanks, Missygail
 
LadyLight said:
It's so freaking hard to find a guy in Tulsa. I'm in solidarity with you. Not a mother, but it must be extra hard with kids around. Maybe eventually...

I had one guy that lived in Tulsa (though originally from Chicago) but he turned out to be completely nuts! Not to mention he thought of me as his personal taxi service when I didn't want him to meet my children. I ended that relationship!

I don't know what the deal is with guys in Tulsa. I remember back in the day my friends and I used to cruise the mall (as teenagers) and we'd meet guy after guy living every where else BUT Tulsa.
 
After reading all these replies...

1. I can't beleive this thread is still around.

2. Why is it seems all the hot (and level headed) women are IN Tulsa??? lol
 
smohk said:
After reading all these replies...

1. I can't beleive this thread is still around.

2. Why is it seems all the hot (and level headed) women are IN Tulsa??? lol


1. Why can't you believe it's still around? :confused:

2. There are a ton of hot, level-headed women in Tulsa. There are no hot, level-headed, educated, gainfully employed, self-supporting men for said woment to be with. Why we stick around here, I have no idea. :rolleyes:
 
Hi, MissyGail!

missygail said:
Well, I broke up with my boyfriend about three, almost four weeks ago. It sucks!

I'm sorry you had to end your relationship, but I think you made the right decision.

I've told all my online lady friends, that if a man is REALLY interested, he would pay the expenses necessary to get to them. I may be old fashioned, but I don't believe any man should be a financial drain. I just don't think anyone man is SO G.I.B. that he can warrant having a woman support him. Although I wouldn't mind having a rich red headed widow woman with big breasts be my sugar-mommy to spoil me, I don't expect it to ever happen.

I have a sister who has been married to slobs like that and wondered, WHY a half-way intelligent woman would put up with that kind of crap.

There ARE descent men in Tulsa. Most of them are probably taken, but the others are just hidden treasures. You really have to search for them. It isn't easy, but it is possible.

I hope you find your's.
 
Good morning okie country how is every one today im fine i am from tulsa and jenks area living in ohio now i whould like to invite you to the rebel ranch a thread me and my wife started up
 
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Oookkkaaayyy... I guess there aren't enough for a get-together. Is there ANYONE from Oklahoma that would be interested in ANYTHING???

I might be looking for a woman in the Tulsa area to help make a certain Lit guy's fantasy come true... no female-female contact involved... serious only... pm me for details.
 
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Someone tried to arrange one in OKC once.

LadyLight said:
Think we have enough people in the Tulsa area to get together sometime?

It didn't work out, but feel free to try one in Tulsa. There might be more interest here.
 
Aww, I'm a former Okie, does that count? :)

Just thought I'd say hello since I never bump into anyone from OK around here.

Wonderful weekend wishes to everyone! :rose:
 
Myspace...

Hey, I know most people around here don't like myspace much. But, I'm gonna give my myspace url anyways.

If you are a myspacer then add me. Lemme know where you come from first though.... just so I know. Though if a profile is blank I won't add.

Anyways.

http://www.myspace.com/missygail

There's a dude that created a myspace group called Oklahoma erotic.

http://groups.myspace.com/oklahomaerotic

That link won't take you anywhere because it's an 18 and older group and you have to be invited by a member or moderator. I think this guy created the group so he could have cybersex with the women on his friendspace.. honestly and discuss his fetish for ass to mouth (yuck)

I just thought I'd post this in here in case anyone from here wants to show him how to do a erotic group right.

To join, email me, become my friend and tell you'd like an invite and I'll get it to you.
 
bobwhitecrow said:
I'm sorry you had to end your relationship, but I think you made the right decision.

I've told all my online lady friends, that if a man is REALLY interested, he would pay the expenses necessary to get to them. I may be old fashioned, but I don't believe any man should be a financial drain. I just don't think anyone man is SO G.I.B. that he can warrant having a woman support him. Although I wouldn't mind having a rich red headed widow woman with big breasts be my sugar-mommy to spoil me, I don't expect it to ever happen.

I have a sister who has been married to slobs like that and wondered, WHY a half-way intelligent woman would put up with that kind of crap.

There ARE descent men in Tulsa. Most of them are probably taken, but the others are just hidden treasures. You really have to search for them. It isn't easy, but it is possible.

I hope you find your's.

I went on a date tonight. It was nice. The guy was nice, so who knows. And he's from Tulsa.

Oh hey Bob. Guess what I ain't rich. I don't have big breast and I'll never be anyone's sugar momma... but I've dyed my hair red.
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v185/missygail/fancy090-1.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v185/missygail/fancy097.jpg

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v185/missygail/fancy015.jpg

:nana:
 
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