Ok there are lots of OVER 40's in lit

[just pet]

I think having a partner who brings out the sensual nature is essential. I find that now I'm not nearly as inhibited as I was when I was younger. I've always been willing to explore, but now I do it with abandon. I don't worry, "is this the right thing to do?"

So true

My inhibitions seem to have vanished

And the sex police haven't knocked on my door in years
(or I haven't heard them )

 

[Hman48]

Age

and cunning.. with defeat youth and strenth everytime!!

(or something like that.. I know there is an old saying in there some place)

I agree with what has been said today!.. I am feeling better about myself now than when I was in my 30's.. the things I do now!!!

Plus .. it is nice to be comfortable enough to enjoy your prime.

 

[Ukin]

Over 40? and older!!

Glad to find this thread,,hope I can find it again..the memory starts to fade at my age

I loved my 40's..I just hope that my 50's are better..because if they are, hell, it's going to be fun, fun & fun

What I love about being our ages is, we know what we want from life and we just go out and get it...regardless of what it is...

I just say...enjoy life, it's far too short...enjoy sex...(if I can remember what is is)....enjoy loving...just enjoy

 

[lovemetender]

Oh baby... so am I. I turned 48 last March.



And if women are supposed to reach their sexual peak in their 30's, then I'm obviously a late bloomer

can I let you in on a secret my love...it gets even better in your 50s too

 

[lovemetender]

I think there are lots of us who would say the same. Best sex of my life happened after I turned 40. And I find that not only am I more sexual now, I'm much more sensual as well. I'm so much more in touch with that side of my persona now than I ever was before. And now, I don't hesitate to let it show in my daily life.

you go girl

 

[enjoyingitall]

Re: Over 40? and older!!

Glad to find this thread,,hope I can find it again..the memory starts to fade at my age

I loved my 40's..I just hope that my 50's are better..because if they are, hell, it's going to be fun, fun & fun

What I love about being our ages is, we know what we want from life and we just go out and get it...regardless of what it is...

I just say...enjoy life, it's far too short...enjoy sex...(if I can remember what is is)....enjoy loving...just enjoy

I couldn't agree with you more about enjoying life, sex and loving...thus my nickname..

I really am "enjoying it all"

 

[Ukin]

Re: Re: Over 40? and older!!

I couldn't agree with you more about enjoying life, sex and loving...thus my nickname..

I really am "enjoying it all"

Aye lass...you carry on enjoying it too

What I have noticed, once I reached 40..hell..that seems SOOOO long ago now too....the sexual side...and general life too..was taken at more of a leisurely pace....nothing more better than having a nice leisurely seesion of love making...but of course..there is still the energy to have the more frantic sessions

Now..where the hell is that Viagra and who has stolen my damn walking frame? Typical...there is a gorgeous naked woman over there...and I can't find either of them...dammit

 

[Dragonette]

Great thread Gil

Silly, of course it won't die, it is a popular thought!

I fit in here, very well, too well, next birthday I dread, half a century!

Now, what have I learnt, many things, to be myself, not to pretend, to explore my sensualality, to talk about what I like.
But I do that my way.

I have learnt so much, and I wish I knew so much then, back then!

No, I don't want to be a teenager again, but I would like to look as I did then and appreciate it!

Strange, I never believed then that I was pretty, and naive! Oh so badly!

No, I wouldn't go back, not without my knowledge.

Today, the openess of our new generations is great, but still, they tend to jump into, still without knowledge!

Why are there still teenagers getting pregnant? Safe sex is a must!
I hope that the next generation of parents are you, open and frank about it. We still have a gap.

I still see so many young ones asking, even begging for a mature person to teach them. They are reaching hard to find sexuality instead of sex.

Gays are now almost accepted, within sexual activity, it is accepted now, different srokes for different folks.

I myself now know what I like, I have unknown thoughts of other ways, maybe, maybe not.

I know have the confidence to accept my way, of enjoying does not have to be screaming and yelling!
I don't see stars or feel a mountain move, what I expected is not my way.
That hindered me, I was waiting for the earth to move, bells to ring, etc, etc, etc...

Until I learnt that a touch could create a tingle, that the sensual feeling was created deep within me and it was wonderful and aching at the same time, until I knew and felt that, then I opened to the full experience.

I found I enjoyed it slow, touching, exploring and teasing, I found I knew how to touch, where to touch, how to touch, I wanted to give, to show and experience together, slowly.

But then I found how a man could touch me, give to me, his enjoyment was giving, watching me, stopping me from sharing, making it my moment!

Paradise, excatsy, teasing and tantalising, then fulfillment.

Then I showed him my way, returning the favour, knowing him and touching and teasing him, being confident and gentle, knowing he trusted me to show him my way.

We had a fantastic time together, we both learnt a lot more, he did create the 'tingles' and that is what I want now!

Oh, I enjoy the sexual act, I gain my sexual pleasure and I give it back, but I still yearn for that feeling.

I have had many great moments, but that 'tingle' is always missing. So now, I believe it was a once only, he is my soul mate, but not now.

Age and maturing is great, the knowledge, the experience, even without always being physical is great. Sex is just that, sensuality and feelings are a lot more, deeper.

I don't play, it means more to be that playing, I have shared and taught (occasionally), but they are special friends, always.

Maybe soon I will find another that will create the 'tingles' and then we can age together, gracefully, smiling, content and happy.

I still dream, today is a new day, maybe...

 

[MissTaken]

Almost 40

but rather enjoy the attention of those who are 40 plus!

*waves*

Hi all!

 

[just pet]

Re: Almost 40

but rather enjoy the attention of those who are 40 plus!

*waves*

Hi all!

I am staight but you have always had my attention
You're such a cutie
With a bright mind

 

[lovemetender]

Re: Almost 40

but rather enjoy the attention of those who are 40 plus!

*waves*

Hi all!

we'd certainly make an exception for you love

 

[lovemetender]

Re: Great thread Gil

Silly, of course it won't die, it is a popular thought!

I fit in here, very well, too well, next birthday I dread, half a century!

Now, what have I learnt, many things, to be myself, not to pretend, to explore my sensualality, to talk about what I like.
But I do that my way.

I have learnt so much, and I wish I knew so much then, back then!

No, I don't want to be a teenager again, but I would like to look as I did then and appreciate it!

Strange, I never believed then that I was pretty, and naive! Oh so badly!

No, I wouldn't go back, not without my knowledge.

Today, the openess of our new generations is great, but still, they tend to jump into, still without knowledge!

Why are there still teenagers getting pregnant? Safe sex is a must!
I hope that the next generation of parents are you, open and frank about it. We still have a gap.

I still see so many young ones asking, even begging for a mature person to teach them. They are reaching hard to find sexuality instead of sex.

Gays are now almost accepted, within sexual activity, it is accepted now, different srokes for different folks.

I myself now know what I like, I have unknown thoughts of other ways, maybe, maybe not.

I know have the confidence to accept my way, of enjoying does not have to be screaming and yelling!
I don't see stars or feel a mountain move, what I expected is not my way.
That hindered me, I was waiting for the earth to move, bells to ring, etc, etc, etc...

Until I learnt that a touch could create a tingle, that the sensual feeling was created deep within me and it was wonderful and aching at the same time, until I knew and felt that, then I opened to the full experience.

I found I enjoyed it slow, touching, exploring and teasing, I found I knew how to touch, where to touch, how to touch, I wanted to give, to show and experience together, slowly.

But then I found how a man could touch me, give to me, his enjoyment was giving, watching me, stopping me from sharing, making it my moment!

Paradise, excatsy, teasing and tantalising, then fulfillment.

Then I showed him my way, returning the favour, knowing him and touching and teasing him, being confident and gentle, knowing he trusted me to show him my way.

We had a fantastic time together, we both learnt a lot more, he did create the 'tingles' and that is what I want now!

Oh, I enjoy the sexual act, I gain my sexual pleasure and I give it back, but I still yearn for that feeling.

I have had many great moments, but that 'tingle' is always missing. So now, I believe it was a once only, he is my soul mate, but not now.

Age and maturing is great, the knowledge, the experience, even without always being physical is great. Sex is just that, sensuality and feelings are a lot more, deeper.

I don't play, it means more to be that playing, I have shared and taught (occasionally), but they are special friends, always.

Maybe soon I will find another that will create the 'tingles' and then we can age together, gracefully, smiling, content and happy.

I still dream, today is a new day, maybe...

Great post!

 

[Guest]

thanks Gil_T2 for this great thread..

i never thought my 40's would be so enriching.. in so many ways..
and i'm just getting started !!

love to all...

 

[MizTabby]

still alive...

Trust me... the 40's will be the best period of your life.

Your free of many of the worries you had in your earlier years.. family, finances etc..

.. and as your worries disappear, your libido will appear stronger than ever, and your inhibitions will be a thing of the past.

But best of all, these will be your best years... and you will know it and make the most of it

So sit back and enjoy... the best is on it's way.

at 45!!

Ladybird that's just how I wish it could be, and I'm really glad that's the way it is for you

All the rest of the 40'ers, sounds like you're at the right place at the right time of your lives, wishing you ALL wonderful moments with memorable people

now if only that fuckbuddy would materialize!!

 

[tonitits]

over 40

I am 43, and in the last 3 yrs have learn alot and became more comfortable with my body and sexuality. I am having the best time of my life right now. I too am told that I look like I am in my 30's. Also I took the real age test online and it showed that my real age is 34. So do I still qualify?

 

[enjoyingitall]

Re: over 40

I am 43, and in the last 3 yrs have learn alot and became more comfortable with my body and sexuality. I am having the best time of my life right now. I too am told that I look like I am in my 30's. Also I took the real age test online and it showed that my real age is 34. So do I still qualify?

Yep, you're in. And welcome.

 

[just pet]

This thread is so re-affirming
Getting older does not have to be scary
And look at all the cool people we can talk about Woodstock with!

 

[enjoyingitall]

This thread is so re-affirming
Getting older does not have to be scary
And look at all the cool people we can talk about Woodstock with!

It really is great to read about all the over 40s people loving life.

But, I don't know too much about Woodstock. My kids think I do though.They try to make me older than I am sometimes.

 

[MissTaken]

Thanks, pet and love me tender.

This is a great thread!

It makes forty seem far less ominous than it needs to be !

 

[tonitits]

40

In my 20's i had no clue what was going on, 30's I spent raising my son, he is still young, but not as needy and now I am aware of what I want and how to get it. I also know how to please a man and enjoy doing so. I always just rolled with the flow and let the man do whatever to please me. I am more open and willing to try new things and am not afraid to ask for what I want! It just keeps getting better and better. I am actually anxious to see if 50's are as great!!

 

[Gil_T2]

I'm stunned at how many other horny 40 ppl there are

WELCOME ONE AND ALL......

Feel free to post on any subject you want....WE ARE ALL MATURE !
(sometimes).
Thanks also to those who have posted pics and hope we get to know each other.

Well I wish I could have hung around longer (last night in Australia) and to see all who have posted this morning (Au) it was a buzz (or was that my pacemaker).

What fears,hope,wishes and desires

All I know is that I'm as horny now as I was as a teen..... it just takes longer to get it done....which isn't a bad thing either.

I hope you all come back often and post like crazy....

 

[Gil_T2]

Ok I have seen some posts worried about turning 50

Well it will happen to me in FEB 03 and it does worry me a bit even though it will be just another b/day when it comes to it. (I hope).

KEEP POSTING BOYS AND GIRLS......

 

[KnightWing]

Putting in my two cents worth...

It's not so bad... Looking to apply for the position Psyche was trying to fill. That is if it's not filled yet. Glad you are all enjoying yourselves. I too am getting close to that 50 mark, however I am as sensual and like sex as much as ever. Now I just need to find a new partner.....taking applications.

Everyone have a great night. Stay safe,

Wing

 

[Gil_T2]

I'm glad so many are enjoying this thread

So many ppl that I've read posts from in other threads without knowing your ages but now knowing they take on extra meaning.

And there are some making contact with other sexy 40+ ppl too.

 

[psyche]

Re: looking for that fuck buddy

It's not so bad... Looking to apply for the position Psyche was trying to fill. That is if it's not filled yet. Glad you are all enjoying yourselves. I too am getting close to that 50 mark, however I am as sensual and like sex as much as ever. Now I just need to find a new partner.....taking applications.

Everyone have a great night. Stay safe,

Wing

Maybe we can interview each other Wing.