Ok serious sex related thread

[Kitte]

Here is my question, since relocating I am not able to be loud while masturbating. I find I bite my lip or hold my breath to be quiet.( A not easy task) but what I have notice is that the quality of my orgasms has decreased. I mean they still feel good, but not AS good? Ya know. So here is my question... could holding my breath etc. Be killing my buzz or is it the stress of being in the situation where I CANT be loud.

I joke about it being all about the breathing, and Im wondering do other ladies find the same thing.

*counting the days till I can be loud again*


~k~

 

[TWB]

Screaming in pillows or underwater works for me.

 

[J.B.]

I have the same problem. Couple of things I found out.
- deep breaths help
- pillows are your friends
- a pillow underneath blankets is even better (though it does hinder movement, but when you get to just that spot it really doesn’t matter.)

 

[Guest]

 

[enjoyingitall]

I make good use of pillows, too.

I've found that if I'm thinking about not being loud, then I can be a bit distracted and the orgasm isn't as strong.

 

[Kitte]

at least I am not the only one *sigh*

I have done the pillow thing but it makes me feel suffocated. I think I just need to let loose....kick everyone out of the house and just go crazy.

 

[calypso_21]

Ah, I say fuck it. Be loud. Hell, the kids, the people down stairs and the neighbors hear me...in that moment it's all about the self pleasure baby! And the air flow.

 

[MsMuffet]

Chica, turn on the radio! Preferrably something sexy... Like Madonna's Justify My Love... Your moans will fit right in! LOL

 

[Kitte]

Oh dear goddess NO. I can face many things in my life....that IS NOT ONE OF THEM...

It is bad enough the witch found my toys when "making my bed" which she has been told repeatedly NOT TO DO.

I can see it now, sorry bout the noise dad but I was having some ROCKIN phone sex.


ACK!

 

[LukkyKnight]

Orgasms are about release, eh? If you're holding back for whatever reason it seems to me you'll be restraing the pleasure as well. Still, a restrained orgasm beats a poke in the eye with a sharp stick any day.

 

[Kitte]

Orgasms are about release, eh? If you're holding back for whatever reason it seems to me you'll be restraing the pleasure as well. Still, a restrained orgasm beats a poke in the eye with a sharp stick any day.

I havent been poked with anything for awhile so I will take your word for it

 

[LukkyKnight]

Very trusting of you.

You know, the sound of a trash compactor or a buzz saw might mask your bliss...

 

[eagleyez]

i was just flying thru and

*what ya'll said*

yipee...

 

[teddybear4play]

I can't help you, as I've never had this problem. I've always been a quiet orgasmer.

TB4p

 

[dragonhearted]

Here is my question, since relocating I am not able to be loud while masturbating. I find I bite my lip or hold my breath to be quiet.( A not easy task) but what I have notice is that the quality of my orgasms has decreased. I mean they still feel good, but not AS good? Ya know. So here is my question... could holding my breath etc. Be killing my buzz or is it the stress of being in the situation where I CANT be loud.

I joke about it being all about the breathing, and Im wondering do other ladies find the same thing.

*counting the days till I can be loud again*


~k~

the idea of being inhibited can keep one's orgasm from being as fulfilling as one would like it to be....