I was surfin a bit of porn and came across osugirlsoncam.net and I KNOW THE GIRL -fresh-n-tight that is advertised on there. She is a bartender on North High in Columbus, I have been trying to hook up with her actually. What the hell do I do? Tell her? Go into her cam room and tell her there? I am lost on this and don't want to fuck up a good thing. I haven't told any of my friends yet because I am worried they will ruin it for me. PLEASE reply with some ideas.
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cherokee_dove
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Tread very carefully!
If you are wanting to hook up with her, under NO circumstances tell your friends. They might ruin your chance.
Try to make contact with her outside the realm of the bar. And then GENTLY let her know that you happened to be surfing the web, and ran across her picture.
Don't just blurt out where you found it, but see her response to you saying you had found it; first. If she asks where, then tell her. But do so in an advisory way.
Tell her that she might want to think about removing the pic, for fear of her job; or others finding it; and posting it everywhere.
Hope this helps.
If you are wanting to hook up with her, under NO circumstances tell your friends. They might ruin your chance.
Try to make contact with her outside the realm of the bar. And then GENTLY let her know that you happened to be surfing the web, and ran across her picture.
Don't just blurt out where you found it, but see her response to you saying you had found it; first. If she asks where, then tell her. But do so in an advisory way.
Tell her that she might want to think about removing the pic, for fear of her job; or others finding it; and posting it everywhere.
Hope this helps.
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Amen Cherokee,
Hell if it wasn't dishonest i would tell you to forget you ever saw the pic, because as soon as you mention it you fall into the "Horny net geek" category.
Find out other things she does, and take a real, and sincere interest in them, clubs she likes, hobbies, etc. You stand a better chance that way, remember, every guy hits on the bartender, so thin the playing field, go to her quilting club, or whatever.
Hell if it wasn't dishonest i would tell you to forget you ever saw the pic, because as soon as you mention it you fall into the "Horny net geek" category.
Find out other things she does, and take a real, and sincere interest in them, clubs she likes, hobbies, etc. You stand a better chance that way, remember, every guy hits on the bartender, so thin the playing field, go to her quilting club, or whatever.
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tread on eggshells
there is a chance that she used the pic someplace else and it got placed on that site by 'marketing' people... I know of several adult 'dating' sites that regularly will use any pics they like and then local descriptions and such... and then the pics tend to get stolen and used elsewhere..
the best thing you can do is.. ask her for some time, and ignore the pic in the short term.. after you know her a little better, mention you think you saw her online.. and let it develop naturally as your curious.. nothing more..
there is a chance that she used the pic someplace else and it got placed on that site by 'marketing' people... I know of several adult 'dating' sites that regularly will use any pics they like and then local descriptions and such... and then the pics tend to get stolen and used elsewhere..
the best thing you can do is.. ask her for some time, and ignore the pic in the short term.. after you know her a little better, mention you think you saw her online.. and let it develop naturally as your curious.. nothing more..
Well
I actually got the free membership to the site(pay for private webcam obviously) and looked at all the pics and videos. No way she doesnt work there or atleast did at one time. I actually see her regularly at a cardio kickboxing class atleast three or four times a week, we save each other a place etc. so not like I am just another guy at the bar.
It is gonna happen(unless she all of a sudden starts dating someone) but just hasn't, I think keeping my mouth shut is the way to go. Though after looking at her site it is so so so hard to do that.
I actually got the free membership to the site(pay for private webcam obviously) and looked at all the pics and videos. No way she doesnt work there or atleast did at one time. I actually see her regularly at a cardio kickboxing class atleast three or four times a week, we save each other a place etc. so not like I am just another guy at the bar.
It is gonna happen(unless she all of a sudden starts dating someone) but just hasn't, I think keeping my mouth shut is the way to go. Though after looking at her site it is so so so hard to do that.
phelon
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well then..
if she does work there... it makes it simple...
talk to her more, maybe drop a hint or two about your writing ... that should open up a door enough that she will say what she does.. and then once you know from her, the problem is solved
if she does work there... it makes it simple...
talk to her more, maybe drop a hint or two about your writing ... that should open up a door enough that she will say what she does.. and then once you know from her, the problem is solved
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