Oh my gosh~ I have a date!

[Cheyenne]

Lancaster, just a little tip. When someone on the board has 15 posts, they don't come onto the board like ballbusters and go after someone who is an established member on the board. It's not a good way to make friends. We are a community here, a cyber community, but nevertheless we have a unique bond with many people on the board. We share things with each other at times. Lickerish wanted to share something important in her life with us. You just demonstrated an evil spirit to the rest of the board. Granted, we'll get over it, it's just not a good way for someone new to start out.

What she said.

She just said it a lot nicer than I would have.

 

[lickerish]

he just called and cancelled.








anybody want to go see Lonestar with me?

just kidding.

 

[lavender]

 

[Angel]

he just called and cancelled.








anybody want to go see Lonestar with me?

just kidding.

I'd go with yah if I was there.

 

[lickerish]

His brother just got back into town with his new bride from their honeymoon.. all the family promised to get together and spend time with each other.

My crush and his brother are trying to make amends after having a very estranged relationship. I don't want to stand in the way of that, so I told him that it was okay and not to worry about it.

Oh well.

 

[lickerish]

Angel~baby.. you're one in a million, thank you.

 

[Mr. Bootie]

Darn it!!!! Angel beat me to it.

I'd go with ya' Hon'. What an understanding sweetheart you are. It's too bad. I say.................his loss.

Hang in there lickerish.


kgboot

 

[lickerish]

Re: Darn it!!!! Angel beat me to it.

Hank in there lickerish.

kgboot

I could use a hank-y right now..

*sigh*

This bites. Anyone have smoke? I prefer Marlboro's.. light.. 100's. No?

How about te-kill-ya?

 

[Cheyenne]

I'm sorry it didn't work out for you. THIS time. But now you know that he WANTS to go out with you! AND you have a better idea that he is a great guy if family is important to him! Watch how he treats his family, as he will likely treat you the same.

 

[Mischka]

Lickerish, you kick ass. You have oodles of style, and I love your posts. Sucks about this Friday, but it just makes the anticipation of your eventual date that much sweeter, right?

And if he's busy again, then I know a gaggle of single Texas men that would swoon over someone like you.

 

[luv2tvl69]

he just called and cancelled.

I'm really sorry....that does suck.
Are you still going to see lonestar? Kgboot is right....."you are very understanding about the whole thing and it is his loss!!"

Yes, it does say alot about his family values, and someone who is in a close family will treat you well--thats a good trait to have. I just dont understand why he can reunite with his brother in the day, and hook up with you for the concert. Its just not fair. I hope you will be ok, put on a little attitude music--whatever venue works for you (I like "No Doubt" Tragic kingdom myself).


Hopefully he will be smart enough and considerate enough to call you either tomorrow or Saturday....and make another date.

Keep us posted, & if you just need to vent, email me or IM me at yahoo. Good luck, and keep your chin up.

 

[Starfish]

I am sorry lickey.
I'd go with you, and I'd give you good, hot oral sex after too, but alas, I am nowhere near you. (doublefrown)

 

[lickerish]

i need to freaking vent here

Here's the deal, he and I have had this mutual crush thing going on for the better part of 2-3 years now. He's seen me go from skinny to chunks in that amount of time and so I figured I blew my chance with him. (I just can't win with this "big booby, flat tummy, longs legs and small butt" ideal that I have going against me.)

When we see each other these days, it's the 'eyes lock and don't look away' type of sillyness. I adore him.

We never hooked up cuz he had some serious growing up to do (and he's older than me at 27), & had quite a few personal issues to overcome.

I was willing to wait cuz underneath all the bad stuff he portrayed himself to be.. I saw through it, and I knew what an awesome, caring, special guy he is.

He is finally getting his shit together. I risked getting my proverbial ass kicked, with my self-esteem level as low as it is, and asked him to this concert as a babystep towards something. Just going as 'friends', nothing more. No stress to impress, just be ourselves around eachother and have a good time. Ya know?

Right. I think I just got my ass kicked, again. But I'm not going to feel sorry for myself.. I'll be strong, I've had to be this long, I just won't let this get to me. Just another roadblock, right?

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Cheyenne.. you're right on the dot there.

Misckha.. you just made me smile. Thank you for your kind words. But if a gaggle of men from Oregon don't swoon for la Lickerish, I'm sure your Texans won't either. Ah well, c'est la vie.

luv2tvl69.. I don't know if I'm gonna go. I'm pretty much done up for friends now that I kicked my crackwhore (in reference to another thread I started) to the curb. Considering the concert is tomorrow night, I think it's too late to ask anyone else.

Starfishie.. I swear you're going to be the one that pushes my curiousity to the edge of no return.

 

[luv2tvl69]

Right. I think I just got my ass kicked, again. But I'm not going to feel sorry for myself.. I'll be strong, I've had to be this long, I just won't let this get to me. Just another roadblock, right?

Well, maybe not....if he is smart enough to work out another date, maybe its just a minor "traffic stop."

I cant tell you how often I have felt just like you. I read your posts and you come across as an intelligent, nice, caring person...you are a catch for anyone. Dont let this disappointment make you feel differently. If he doesnt realize what he has in you its HIS LOSS! Dont get too down, we are all here for you to vent to, share with, lean on, stand by you. Thats the wonderful thing I found with literotica, as you get to know people thru their posts and interaction, it makes you feel like a big family. You are NEVER alone.

 

[Ravenloft]

Ravenloft.. plenty of men, trust me. You guys don't see everything in those pics I post, ya know.

...Are you saying you're a hermaphordite?

COOL!

Whats it like?!

*Giggling like an ass*

Well, I say its this guys loss. Family sucks ass if you ask me. I'd rather have been on a date.

 

[PacificBlue]

From one Oregonian to another...I think the men of Oregon have moldy brains from the rain! *giggle*

I'm sorry about him canceling that just bites.

 

[Angel]

Hey if I suddenly had the spare cash to fly out last minute, I'd do it just to go with you, but alas, I am broke and stuck in NY.

go to the concert licky. You deserve to have some fun, so go.

 

[lickerish]

...Are you saying you're a hermaphordite?

COOL!

Whats it like?!

*Giggling like an ass*

Well, I say its this guys loss. Family sucks ass if you ask me. I'd rather have been on a date.

NO... gawd. lol. I'm 100% female.

It all has to do with the comment I made earlier..
"I just can't win with this "big booby, flat tummy, longs legs and small butt" ideal that I have going against me."

I didn't mean that was his ideal.. I just feel that is the ideal of society and that I don't stand a chance. I know I'm not the only woman that feels this way.

Men suck! oh wait, so do I.

 

[lickerish]

Hey if I suddenly had the spare cash to fly out last minute, I'd do it just to go with you, but alas, I am broke and stuck in NY.

go to the concert licky. You deserve to have some fun, so go.

You are awesome Angel.

I want to go, but I don't want to go alone. As if I wasn't pitiful enough, sheesh. lol.. I don't know, i'll figure something out. Maybe I'll take crackwhore just to keep her clean for the night.

 

[Ravenloft]

"big booby, flat tummy, longs legs and small butt" ideal that I have going against me."

Babe... If you looked like that, I know I would be constantly be looking for the blow up spout... *Shrugging*

 

[batter]

sorry to hear it

dont hold it against him. shit does happen.
it sounds like he may be family oriented.
besides, what's not to like about you and the kids?
his loss and when he realizes it, he will be back.

i was just listening to Lonestar. "Already There"
i bet they do an awesome concert.
if i were single and near you, i would have gone with you and i know we would have had a blast!

all in all, have a great weekend.

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

From one Oregonian to another...I think the men of Oregon have moldy brains from the rain! *giggle*

Watch it! I resemble that remark!

Orygun one liner jokes (let's hear the groans!):

Well yeah it rains - but it is a dry rain.

345 bicyclists fell off their bikes last year in Orygun and drowned.

Don't like the weather in Orygun? Wait 10 minutes (or a day or two) - it will still be raining.

Hey! What is that strange yellow orb in the sky? No wait - it went away.

People in Orygun don't tan - they rust.

Orygun - where the two state university mascots both have web feet.

STG
PS - Lickerish, the guy sounds like he doesn't have a moldy brain - that would be giving him too much credit. I hope he figures out what he is missing.

 

[Chuckus]

lickerish,

I just read this entire post. My heart fell for you. Let me give you my two cents here.

I can totally and completely understand IF the guy wants to make ammends with his brother. So beit. Good for him. That shows class and courage and MORALS. Quite honestly that is kewl. Can't ask the guy to "block out" tomorrow night to goto the concert. My question is this.....Did he not already know well in advance that his brother was coming back in town? He should have never accepted the date IF he knew that his bro was coming back in town and he had those intentions. But being the kind person I am, give him the benefit.

As far as you. Go to the darn concert. Just go. You need to get out and do what you said you were going to do. Who cares if it is just you. Go have fun. Go have a few drinks and unwind a bit. I am sure there are plenty of guys who would swoon over you. *I know I would if I were around where you live, promise* Go and have fun, call up an old friend and just go. Surprise them. Don't say WHY you are calling at the last minute, it is irrelevant. Oh and did I say.......... Go and Have fun yet?

There are those who care, I just happen to be one of many (that I am sure of............)

 

[Shy Tall Guy]

NO... gawd. lol. I'm 100% female.

It all has to do with the comment I made earlier..
"I just can't win with this "big booby, flat tummy, longs legs and small butt" ideal that I have going against me."

I didn't mean that was his ideal.. I just feel that is the ideal of society and that I don't stand a chance. I know I'm not the only woman that feels this way.

I think you have a very sexy body type; curves in all the right places and proportions. Unfortunately I can't see your face, but I am sure it is as beautiful as the rest of you. Don't worry - there are a lot of people out there that couldn't resist you if you let them know you were available.

Men suck! oh wait, so do I.

Now all you need to do is put the two together.

STG

 

[lickerish]

Chuckus..yes he did.. his brother asked, before he left on the honeymoon a few days before, that the family get together when he gets back. SO he knew it was going to happen, just not when. Thursday night he found out that the brother was coming back Friday night. I know he needs to work on this thing with his brother, so I said that it was okay.. hanging out with me is not that important.

~OKAY~ here's the 'after concert update'

About 6 hours before the concert I still did not have a definite plan to go with anybody. So far, crackwhore was the only one I could come up with, but she couldn't find a babysitter. While I was at work I emailed this guy who I work with, we had dated some 8 months previous, and I asked him if he wanted to "play hooky and come see a concert with me". (I worked from 8AM to 4, his shift is 1PM to midnight) He said yes.. next thing you know he's telling his supervisor 'hey, a friend just asked me to a concert'. His supervisor said, 'sorry to hear about that migraine'

So, I get home and get ready. My sister gave me a pair of those 1/2 calf pants (what the heck are those called anyways?) they're those light tan coloured ones.. and I wore a low~cut, red tank top w/ no bra ( nipple rings were quite obvious, hehehe) and black chunky, slip-on open~toe type, mule looking shoes. I painted my finger and toenails red at the last minute. I wore a little bit a makeup.

He drove up, turned off the truck, opened the door and started to get out.. I walked out of my apartment and took a few steps towards him, he looked up and his eyes popped out, jaw dropped, and then he had a cheesy grin. I said "what?!" and blushed and had to turn away to hide my cheesy grin.

(he is used to me just wearing jeans and t-shirt/ tank tops.. and makeup, for me, usually consists of chapstick )

The concert itself was pretty good, tho I was a little ticked that I spent $60 & it only lasted about an hour and 20 minutes. But, they played all the songs that I love the best and I got an autographed CD. So it wasn't all bad. It was funny, there was a bungee jumping type thrill ride at the fair.. and in the middle of one of the songs someone did it.. the lead singer paused mid song cuz he didn't expect it, and stood there with his jaw dropped, and then continued singing a few seconds later.. it cracked the whole audience up it was so funny.

My friend and I had gone from sitting side by side, respectively, but as the concert wore on we ended up cuddling in each others arms.. we kinda picked up where we left off 8 months before. After the concert we walked around the fair.. he made me do that one game where you slam the sledgehammer on that post thing and it's supposed to ding up at the top of that pole if you hit it hard enough.. well I didn't quite get it up there, but they gave me a prize anyways, so I took a blue teddybear and gave it to my friend. He just laughed at the role reversal cuz the guy is supposed to win the prize for the girl.. haha.

Anyways. The night ended a few hours later, I'll leave it up to you guys to figure out what we did in those last hours..

The whole evening went well, I'm glad I went after all.



(I still wish I had gone with my crush tho)