Oh boy...need help here..

[Ariagoshe]

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[PinkOrchid]

 

[bunny bondage]

practice practice practice. in front of a mirror. as for the dancing, i'm a girl and only know how to dance from this side of the gender fence. i'm sad to say that most guys simply can't dance. god knows i've seen plenty of them at the club. of course, there are exceptions and martial arts is a GOOD place to start. sure, something like brazilian ju-jitsu wouldn't really help out here (i dont' think she'd appreciate a gi choke) but if you take a fluid art (like most chinese styles) then you've got a great advantage. i'm not saying go through your kata, but use those movments as a springboard. ok, on to music. pick something that makes you FEEL sexy. and a good beat would be good too. and for the love of god, PRACTICE. i can't tell you how goofy i looked the first time i ever danced, and even after years of doing it, i still dance at home for the mirror. alright, marching onward to clothing. that would depend on her tastes. dress in an outfit she likes, preferably something with lots of pieces. the tease would be pretty damn short if you were wearing jeans and a t-shirt. (personally, i like a man in a suit and tie. it looks SO sexy when it's coming off) oh yes, time. umm....i'd say just for the duration of the song. hope i've been some help! ^_^

 

[Native Alien]

run, do not walk to the nearest library and find Keith Caradine's ti

chai (sp) tapes...they have excellent fluid movements that can be

erotic if done to a slightly faster beat....find a bar that has a girl's

night and go watch.....i have one other suggestion but i won't

put it here....pm if you want it....and bunny has the clothing part

right....

 

[Weird Harold]

1) How does one actually 'dance' in such a fashion as to be erotic? ...

4) Musically speaking...I have odd tastes...

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Searching on the web, produced little to no results, so I'm posting here with a prayer in hopes that I might find insight.

Erotic dancing: I just came from dinner downtown on the strip, and we stopped on the way to the buffet to watch some "street performers" in the arcade at the Paris Casino. One of the things we watched was a couple dancing. Your question highlighted for me just how sensual the dance was and maade me think about just why it was sensual. I think it was becuse both dancers moved with and against each other as if they really cared about their partner and because they moved with the music.

Applying that principle to a strip tease -- move as if you had an imaginary partner helping you disrobe and let the music guide you. Don't think too much about dancing for your Attorney; if you dance for you and can get get into the music, then she'll enjoy watching.

Music Choice: Choose music you find sensual -- there is LOT of celtic music that is sensual, so it shouldn't be too hard to choose something that moves you to dance sensually.

Sources for inspiration: Check out "Chippendale's Dancers" inyour search engine and see if there are any film clips available for download or check your local video store for a Chippendale's tape. Failing that, check out a copy of The Full Monty. Those are probably the best known and accessible depictions of male strippers. Tom Cruise does a dance number in Risky Business tht might give you some inspiration as well.

One thing youneed to decide is if you're going for a bump-and-grind routine or something slower and more sensual. Personally, I don't find the energetic, up-tempo bump-and-grind style of stripper very erotic -- especially for a one-on-one dance situation. I think you'd do better with something slow and sensual than with something upbeat and sexy. Choose some music you like and think is sensual and then just ad-lib the dance to fit the music and set the mood.

 

[Lust Engine]

Does it have to be a dance? Couldn't it be a scenario where you tie her down gently and pleasure & arouse yourself for her to observe? You could work yourself up to a glorious erection, stroke yourself, and writhe in a sexy frenzy in front of her or just out of arm's reach. I think the main thing here is the TEASE. If you feel uncomfortable dancing I still think you need to tease & titillate. I think you could still do that by working yourself up in front of her. You could also slowly peel her clothing off as you're constantly stroking yourself and showing her your wares.

This might be an alternative to the dreaded two left feet syndrome.

 

[Ariagoshe]

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[lilpriss]

Long hair... leave it down... let it cover your face while you unbutton your shirt... use it to add to the show. Maybe start with it in a ponytail and take it down during... run your hands through it...

Do things s-l-o-w-l-y

Think aobut sex the whole time.... if you FEEL sexy you'll look sexy.

I agree with practicing in the mirror, then you'll see if you look sexy...

As far as dancing, I'd say practice, let go of inhibitions and go with it.

 

[Lust Engine]

Wear that confidence like a tight fitting G-string & flaunt it if you got it!

 

[LustrusStorm]

I would suggest going to a strip club (male or female) to get some ideas.

Take notes also then practice by yourself somewhere that she can't catch you.