"offline" on yahoo

Sassybutterfly

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Why do most men always set their status to "offline" on lit. I have the sneaking suspicion it's b/c it better allows them to be engaged in multiple chats.
 
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I never have my profile offline unless I'm not talking to anybody. I kinda miss the days when you were signed on as 'offline' meant you couldn't send messages to people.
 
I often have mine off-line, but thats so that I don't get disturbed and sidetracked when I'm chatting to someone that I really want to give my full attention to:devil::)

I just don't like having to "guess" whether friends or otherwise are online and it seems like I miss a lot of people that way.
 
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But what can you do? Set a good example and offer a spanking to re-enforce slow learners...
 
Yeah for this reason. I am available as I have no reason to hide. Don't forget people are sneaky too.

People are very sneaky and I have felt a little bit creeped out by some messages on yahoo that I've been getting. It seems that basic etiquette is not followed. I mean, I can't believe when men ask me to add them to my messenger list and then don't remember WHY they did, what my name is on here, or when they did it!
 
I always show my status except for here in Lit.

I always think people are hiding something when they sign on as invisible.
 
I am new here and not sure about the status of people on the literotica.com forums but it always annoys me when someone wants to be added to my yahoo list and then won't ever come off invisible, even for that initial chat. Add to that the people who complain you never chat with them and yet they are the ones who are hiding on invisible. :rolleyes:
 
I am new here and not sure about the status of people on the literotica.com forums but it always annoys me when someone wants to be added to my yahoo list and then won't ever come off invisible, even for that initial chat. Add to that the people who complain you never chat with them and yet they are the ones who are hiding on invisible. :rolleyes:

Exactly! Major pet peeve. And, then, they have no idea why they requested to be added in the first place.
 
Glad to hear that I'm not paranoid.

You aren't. I've always wondered about it too. If you have nothing to hide, why sign on that way? Are there people that you don't want knowing or is it that you think you're going to get caught?

If I'm online, I want people to know so I can at least have someone to talk to every once in a while, you know?
 
You aren't. I've always wondered about it too. If you have nothing to hide, why sign on that way? Are there people that you don't want knowing or is it that you think you're going to get caught?

If I'm online, I want people to know so I can at least have someone to talk to every once in a while, you know?

totally!
 
Since we're kind of on the subject, why doesn't anyone use mics on Yahoo anymore?
 
Since we're kind of on the subject, why doesn't anyone use mics on Yahoo anymore?

I tried it many years ago but too many of the guys were super creepy and reverted to just being mindless idiots. Now I have kids and I definately don't need to expose them to that! :D
Besides finding a guys (or womans :eek: ) imaginative and descriptive side is much more appealing than just hearing him blurt out horny come ons.
 
I tried it many years ago but too many of the guys were super creepy and reverted to just being mindless idiots. Now I have kids and I definately don't need to expose them to that! :D
Besides finding a guys (or womans :eek: ) imaginative and descriptive side is much more appealing than just hearing him blurt out horny come ons.

Spoken like a wise woman.
 
I tried it many years ago but too many of the guys were super creepy and reverted to just being mindless idiots. Now I have kids and I definately don't need to expose them to that! :D
Besides finding a guys (or womans :eek: ) imaginative and descriptive side is much more appealing than just hearing him blurt out horny come ons.

To me, someone that has a nice voice and imagenation means everything. I've seen women that could barely string a sentence together try and get the guy to do all the work. Of course I've seen guys do the same thing.

I want equal interaction or it just doesn't appeal to me at all.
 
To me, someone that has a nice voice and imagenation means everything. I've seen women that could barely string a sentence together try and get the guy to do all the work. Of course I've seen guys do the same thing.

I want equal interaction or it just doesn't appeal to me at all.

Rich description and imagination are key.
 
Yeah, the whole idea of someone mumbling about masturbating isn't a huge turn on. But some real discussion and deep conversations are worth everything.

Absolutely...I hate convos like this

Hey you have pics?
I'm rubbing my cock?
are you touching your clit?
Are you about to cum?
 
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