Observations

[SLS69]

Just a few observations and comments I have re mainly the men of Lit

Whilst hugely enjoying the time I've spent so far on the forums I've had a couple of instances lately which have annoyed me somewhat. I make no bones about the fact that I enjoy 'playing' on here but that does not mean that....

1) If I play with you I will necessarily want to do it again

2) If I play with you we are in an exclusive situation

3) If you happen to be horny it doesn't always follow that I will also be horny

4) If you happen to be horny I'm free to play and not engaged elsewhere

5) Just because I'm here I will automatically want to add you to an IM site or go on cam

6) That I am not being a bitch or a cock tease if any of the above apply

I would imagine a lot of the women on here have had similar instances and what I'm really saying guys is have a little consideration. I know this doesn't apply to a lot of you and I have been treated with respect and politely in the main.

Thanks for reading

 

[HoldYouDown]

^This is the Lit equivalent of posting to social media "hey everyone, I was catcalled today! Cut it out with all the attention, fellas!"

Instead of nailing your theses to the church door, try ignoring people you don't want to interact with. That's what I do when overbearing or annoying women message me.

 

[Sigmund7]

Good list SLS. I may print it out and post it over my computer as a reminder.

 

[klippert]

Just a few observations and comments I have re mainly the men of Lit

Whilst hugely enjoying the time I've spent so far on the forums I've had a couple of instances lately which have annoyed me somewhat. I make no bones about the fact that I enjoy 'playing' on here but that does not mean that....

1) If I play with you I will necessarily want to do it again

2) If I play with you we are in an exclusive situation

3) If you happen to be horny it doesn't always follow that I will also be horny

4) If you happen to be horny I'm free to play and not engaged elsewhere

5) Just because I'm here I will automatically want to add you to an IM site or go on cam

6) That I am not being a bitch or a cock tease if any of the above apply

I would imagine a lot of the women on here have had similar instances and what I'm really saying guys is have a little consideration. I know this doesn't apply to a lot of you and I have been treated with respect and politely in the main.

Thanks for reading

Point well made. Though we never chat

 

[SLS69]

Good list SLS. I may print it out and post it over my computer as a reminder.

Thanks although I expect the trolls to be along anytime now

 

[SLS69]

Point well made. Though we never chat[/QUOTE ]

Thanks and no we don't but I do enjoy the pictures you post

 

[SLS69]

^This is the Lit equivalent of posting to social media "hey everyone, I was catcalled today! Cut it out with all the attention, fellas!"

Instead of nailing your theses to the church door, try ignoring people you don't want to interact with. That's what I do when overbearing or annoying women message me.

Not at all I'm possibly the least attention seeking woman your likely to come across.

 

[JulieAnn42]

Let me add, just because you are, or pretend to be a fireman, does not mean that I instantly want to fall into bed with you.

Same for the black men, with or without a huge penis.

No, I am not going to respond in a positive manner if you walk up to me with a very crude suggestion.

When I say I do not want to discuss a particular topic, I mean it.

And, just because I come to this site does not mean that I want to role play.

 

[SLS69]

Let me add, just because you are, or pretend to be a fireman, does not mean that I instantly want to fall into bed with you.

Same for the black men, with or without a huge penis.

No, I am not going to respond in a positive manner if you walk up to me with a very crude suggestion.

When I say I do not want to discuss a particular topic, I mean it.

And, just because I come to this site does not mean that I want to role play.

Like it

 

[vibes]

Lit is no different than the real world; except anonimity makes some bolder/ruder than they would be in the flesh

Exquisite nipple

 

[SLS69]

Lit is no different than the real world; except anonimity makes some bolder/ruder than they would be in the flesh

Exquisite nipple

That is very true but I would call it out in the real world too

Thank you

 

[LauraWilling]

Just a few observations and comments I have re mainly the men of Lit

Whilst hugely enjoying the time I've spent so far on the forums I've had a couple of instances lately which have annoyed me somewhat. I make no bones about the fact that I enjoy 'playing' on here but that does not mean that....

1) If I play with you I will necessarily want to do it again

2) If I play with you we are in an exclusive situation

3) If you happen to be horny it doesn't always follow that I will also be horny

4) If you happen to be horny I'm free to play and not engaged elsewhere

5) Just because I'm here I will automatically want to add you to an IM site or go on cam

6) That I am not being a bitch or a cock tease if any of the above apply

I would imagine a lot of the women on here have had similar instances and what I'm really saying guys is have a little consideration. I know this doesn't apply to a lot of you and I have been treated with respect and politely in the main.

Thanks for reading

My sentiments also! Some guys just don't get it at times and I try not to be mean or ignore anyone who writes me. I'm not just sitting here waiting for My Casanova to drop me a note. I love you guys, but sometimes I just can't be there when you are. Life rears it's ugly head and intrudes on my play time.

 

[tnhardon]

Just a few observations and comments I have re mainly the men of Lit

Whilst hugely enjoying the time I've spent so far on the forums I've had a couple of instances lately which have annoyed me somewhat. I make no bones about the fact that I enjoy 'playing' on here but that does not mean that....

1) If I play with you I will necessarily want to do it again

2) If I play with you we are in an exclusive situation

3) If you happen to be horny it doesn't always follow that I will also be horny

4) If you happen to be horny I'm free to play and not engaged elsewhere

5) Just because I'm here I will automatically want to add you to an IM site or go on cam

6) That I am not being a bitch or a cock tease if any of the above apply

I would imagine a lot of the women on here have had similar instances and what I'm really saying guys is have a little consideration. I know this doesn't apply to a lot of you and I have been treated with respect and politely in the main.

Thanks for reading

As someone who has trouble finding women to chat/cam with, I really hate that there are men out there who do this stuff. These same rules apply to both men and women. No one should expect someone who is online just for their pleasure. If you are wanting to chat with a real person, you have to take their feelings and situations into account.

We are all here to have fun. Men, please don't scare off the few women who actually enjoy doing stuff online. They are few and far between, so appreciate the ones that we do have.

 

[stu_gats_2000]

I can not speak for all but I apologize for us caveman... at times there is alack of blood flow to the brain sometimes caused by picture threads, the fantasy that lit bring out of us and we forget that there are real people on the other end that may not be feeling excited or want to exchange with you.

Cheers

 

[HighPlainsDrifter]

Just a few observations and comments I have re mainly the men of Lit

Whilst hugely enjoying the time I've spent so far on the forums I've had a couple of instances lately which have annoyed me somewhat. I make no bones about the fact that I enjoy 'playing' on here but that does not mean that....

1) If I play with you I will necessarily want to do it again

2) If I play with you we are in an exclusive situation

3) If you happen to be horny it doesn't always follow that I will also be horny

4) If you happen to be horny I'm free to play and not engaged elsewhere

5) Just because I'm here I will automatically want to add you to an IM site or go on cam

6) That I am not being a bitch or a cock tease if any of the above apply

I would imagine a lot of the women on here have had similar instances and what I'm really saying guys is have a little consideration. I know this doesn't apply to a lot of you and I have been treated with respect and politely in the main.

Thanks for reading

I dont think we've met, but I, too, would like to apologize for those us (and all men are guilty to varying degrees) who have allowed our gonads to regulate our thinking and our manners. All women deserve respect.

 

[TheSilverLining]

Not at all I'm possibly the least attention seeking woman your likely to come across.

You're aware we can all see your nipple, yes?

 

[SLS69]

You're aware we can all see your nipple, yes?

No really! I'm comfortable with my sexuality and whatever may or may not be on display doesn't mean I'm doing it for the attention

 

[SLS69]

My intention was not to illicit apologies from you guys honestly just wanted to make some think a little bit before they wade straight in there

 

[ydahecnot]

Frankly, a lot of guys will just make you just one of dozens they will send out the same feeler/cock pic to. They probably barely ever visit threads. I think you have some common-sense courtesy concerns. That's better than the women who put out a laundry list of how you must talk to them. Human contact is a bit more organic than that. And I say, be proud of your nippletar.

 

[Mrtenant]

This mean we ain't picking out curtains together tomorrow or what?

 

[GiggLeGasm]

so.. I spend a lot of time talking about the sweet people I deal with at work..

Yesterday, I discharged a 35 year old lady from our unit at 11:45am. At 1:00pm, she said that she couldn't leave because she didn't have anywhere to go. I noticed on her demographics page, that she shares a residence with a gentleman friend and asked her if this was the same man who was in her hospital bed, snuggling against her naked body, when I arrived in the morning.

She shared with me that he is crazy and she has no intention of returning to their shared home.

Some people have different views on the mixed message. I did share with her, as a part of my nursing duty, that many men see the naked breast more as an invitation.. crazy as that sounds.

 

[SLS69]

Frankly, a lot of guys will just make you just one of dozens they will send out the same feeler/cock pic to. They probably barely ever visit threads. I think you have some common-sense courtesy concerns. That's better than the women who put out a laundry list of how you must talk to them. Human contact is a bit more organic than that. And I say, be proud of your nippletar.

Yes I've noticed a lot of them have been on years and never posted when you look at the profile.

I am proud of it thanks

 

[Friendlymann]

Your thread has certainly prompted all sorts of interesting comment and observations!

 

[Mommysboy570]

Hit on

 

[Leigh81]

I flirt on the threads, but not into cyber so I don't have to worry. That's with either sex.
I do go a little further with 2 people but no orgasms lol

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