Observations

[SLS69]

Your thread has certainly prompted all sorts of interesting comment and observations!

So it seems

 

[emsway]

Yes I've noticed a lot of them have been on years and never posted when you look at the profile.

I am proud of it thanks

Yes, the invitations and assumptions from men who have been on for years but never posted, and have no info in their profile can be annoying. Like y said, these guys throw out a big net to see if they can catch anything. Those guys are going to do what they do, regardless. Ultimately, we have the control. I just ignore them and they will usually go away.

 

[lilydance]

I maybe wrong here but we have to realize what type of site this is. Think about it, what would Lit be if we didn't have horny men around these parts? Honestly, how many women would stick around? Only the ones who are interested in other women. And there is nothing wrong with that.

Cmon. Boys chase girls. It always was and always will be. It'll never change. And you do have a nipple as your av which you have every right to have up there. BUT men also have the right to comment. If the comments bother you that much, do an experiment. Change your av and see if that doesn't calm the beasts down. Or have you tried turning of your PM's. Maybe just for a little while????

Men of Lit, you have nothing to apologize for.

 

[UrbanBohemian]

Not at all I'm possibly the least attention seeking woman your likely to come across.

I think that comment right there just demonstrated quite nicely why you and many other women on this site are annoyed.

Here's the mentality. "If someone is an asshole to you it's somehow your fault for not ignoring them or something." Okay, no... How about instead of absolving yourself because you're obviously awesome and perfect and never make mistakes you, I don't know, stop being an asshole?

It reminds me of the time someone I know had a dog who bit a woman who called animal control. She was just walking down the street and this little ratty dog runs out (unleashed free in the yard) and bit her. I knew the person with the dog and he was convinced he was the victim there and that lady was a bitch for calling AC on the dog. I told him "No, your dog bit her. This is on YOU. You deserve whatever happens. She didn't deserve to be bit. Your fault. Yours." And he just wouldn't hear me. Same thing here. It's just victim blaming. That's all it is. Just more MRA bullshit. Same mentality that leads to "Well what were you wearing that night? Maybe you should have dressed a little more modestly if you didn't want anything to happen to you." This is that same thing on a smaller scale.

And people wonder why I don't socialize with men on this site. Well, exhibit A. Right here.

 

[Mrtenant]

I think that comment right there just demonstrated quite nicely why you and many other women on this site are annoyed.

Here's the mentality. "If someone is an asshole to you it's somehow your fault for not ignoring them or something." Okay, no... How about instead of absolving yourself because you're obviously awesome and perfect and never make mistakes you, I don't know, stop being an asshole?

It reminds me of the time someone I know had a dog who bit a woman who called animal control. She was just walking down the street and this little ratty dog runs out (unleashed free in the yard) and bit her. I knew the person with the dog and he was convinced he was the victim there and that lady was a bitch for calling AC on the dog. I told him "No, your dog bit her. This is on YOU. You deserve whatever happens. She didn't deserve to be bit. Your fault. Yours." And he just wouldn't hear me. Same thing here. It's just victim blaming. That's all it is. Just more MRA bullshit. Same mentality that leads to "Well what were you wearing that night? Maybe you should have dressed a little more modestly if you didn't want anything to happen to you." This is that same thing on a smaller scale.

And people wonder why I don't socialize with men on this site. Well, exhibit A. Right here.

Translation....


He agrees and stuff

 

[Cashern]

Translation....


He agrees and stuff

But that 8,888 post though.

But no seriously what the other guys said. They're not wrong... I think people make the assumption that because this is a group of people with over active libido's we all want to hump like rabbits all the fucking time regardless of who is on the other end of the line etc.

Wrong. We want to hump like rabbits with people of like minded pursuits, not be your quick and easy one night jerk off routine.

 

[Mrtenant]

But that 8,888 post though.

But no seriously what the other guys said. They're not wrong... I think people make the assumption that because this is a group of people with over active libido's we all want to hump like rabbits all the fucking time regardless of who is on the other end of the line etc.

Wrong. We want to hump like rabbits with people of like minded pursuits, not be your quick and easy one night jerk off routine.

I'm sending you a dick pic

 

[GiggLeGasm]

I'm getting a video AND a dick pic!

 

[Cashern]

I'm sending you a dick pic

LOL

Perfect XD

 

[Mrtenant]

I'm getting a video AND a dick pic!

I already sent you stuff everyday last week. Now you acknowledge? Dang. I gave up. Spreading the wealth now...its what I do.







HAHA thread killer strikes again

 

[jameslewis]

I'm getting a video AND a dick pic!

https://67.media.tumblr.com/7a8247b1976bc9ff4fd00e71469e66c6/tumblr_o6bd4rVokX1u8crymo1_500.jpg

 

[Rocketman00i69]

I must admit that a picture of your nipple on your profile does seem to say, PM me!

That being said, just because you show your nipple does not give anyone the right to be rude or post disparaging messages about you or any woman/man. Yes, Lit exists for all of us hyper sexual, super horny, kinky, wild, imaginative people. I would imagine that there have been millions of orgasms shared by people like us via Lit, but there is nothing to suggest that anyone has the right to be upset or angry if someone doesn't want to talk to you, cam with you, or fuck you.

You have the right to be upset if men/women act in such a manner. But here is the rub, the guys you wanted to get the message won't understand. If they were capable of understanding your points, they would not act that way.

 

[SLS69]

I must admit that a picture of your nipple on your profile does seem to say, PM me!

That being said, just because you show your nipple does not give anyone the right to be rude or post disparaging messages about you or any woman/man. Yes, Lit exists for all of us hyper sexual, super horny, kinky, wild, imaginative people. I would imagine that there have been millions of orgasms shared by people like us via Lit, but there is nothing to suggest that anyone has the right to be upset or angry if someone doesn't want to talk to you, cam with you, or fuck you.

You have the right to be upset if men/women act in such a manner. But here is the rub, the guys you wanted to get the message won't understand. If they were capable of understanding your points, they would not act that way.

I never said don't PM me, not the case at all I enjoy chatting with people from all over the place. The point I was trying to make was if you do PM someone don't do it with expectations that something is going to happen even if it has previously. As you say lit is a super horny place and that's great I enjoy it immensely but I'm not here to have expectations put on me and I'm not a possession. I'm here to have fun and explore my sexuality and yes your right the people I was aiming at won't get it but it was worth a go!

 

[TheSilverLining]

No really! I'm comfortable with my sexuality and whatever may or may not be on display doesn't mean I'm doing it for the attention

Nobody commented on your sexuality.
However, there's a delicious irony in stating that you're possibly "the least attention-seeking woman (we're) ever likely to come across"......with your nipples out.
No?

 

[SLS69]

Nobody commented on your sexuality.
However, there's a delicious irony in stating that you're possibly "the least attention-seeking woman (we're) ever likely to come across"......with your nipples out.
No?

Life is full of irony! I liked the pic I used the pic that's the top n bottom of it.

 

[Chris_Michael]

OP, you're not special. The only thing we know about you is where you're from and that you have one nipple. So, don't expect quality friendship if you're not putting in effort. You can't just throw a tit pic out there and expect respectful guys to approach you. I'm sorry if you expected this to be easy for you.

Now, go somewhere with all that bitching because aint nobody got time fo' dat.

 

[John_Q_Public]

Trust and respect are difficult to earn, but so easily lost. I don't know why you are filled with hate or why you insist on fucking with people. I have yet to find a positive word with your name on it.

Maybe you should seek professional help.

 

[Chris_Michael]

Trust and respect are difficult to earn, but so easily lost. I don't know why you are filled with hate or why you insist on fucking with people. I have yet to find a positive word with your name on it.

Maybe you should seek professional help.

You haven't looked then... Ask your girl. She still PMs me.

 

[John_Q_Public]

You haven't looked then... Ask your girl. She still PMs me.

Bahahaha....
I wasnt talking about you. Haha.

That's so funny. I had you on ignore!

By the way, the cinnamon girl doesn't even have an account & if she did, she would never PM you. She'd eat you ALIVE! Go crawl back under your rock.

 

[Mrtenant]

Bahahaha....
I wasnt talking about you. Haha.

That's so funny. I had you on ignore!

By the way, the cinnamon girl doesn't even have an account & if she did, she would never PM you. She'd eat you ALIVE! Go crawl back under your rock.

You haven't looked then... Ask your girl. She still PMs me.

Carry on ....rebuttal? Please....great stuff here....


http://static.parade.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/140706-Popcorn-ftr.jpg

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny---<-----that's me! The male half

OP, you're not special. The only thing we know about you is where you're from and that you have one nipple. So, don't expect quality friendship if you're not putting in effort. You can't just throw a tit pic out there and expect respectful guys to approach you. I'm sorry if you expected this to be easy for you.

Now, go somewhere with all that bitching because aint nobody got time fo' dat.

Denny------- At first I was siding with the OP and feeling sorry for her.
Yet even Chris M is wrong, the UK could be Upper Kansas and that may very well be someone else's nipple.
You wrote you don't look for attention. Well Fuck! The female nipple is the kinkiest and most erotic part on a woman's body. Why do you suppose 99% of the strip clubs demand the nipples are covered?

My wife and I have spent much of our lives on nude beaches and at nudest resorts. I've seen nipples. Yet the nipple that turns me on is the nipple peekig out from a blouse or bathing suit, when I least expect it, like you avatar nipple.

Looking at your nipple avatar makes me think of lots of erotic things I'd love to PM you and discuss. But I won't because I do respect the female membership.

With basically a blank profile and someone's nipple you tell us men that we are low life scum and need to follow your rules. It is you, Nipple Lady, that needs to appologize and go back to FaceThing.

Your nipple is giving me an erection and I need to send a kinky PM to a lady that might like some fantasy fun. Either grow up and realize what Lit is, or at least stop bitching! Us men have women to tease.

 

[jameslewis]

https://66.media.tumblr.com/1806746d4c9ee6545dc7f90a8865e035/tumblr_o6a2p4mXly1u8crymo1_500.jpg

 

[Chris_Michael]

Bahahaha....
I wasnt talking about you. Haha.

That's so funny. I had you on ignore!

By the way, the cinnamon girl doesn't even have an account & if she did, she would never PM you. She'd eat you ALIVE! Go crawl back under your rock.

How many times are you going to try to pull this trick off?

...and I was referring to sks, which is who you're always guarding.

 

[ydahecnot]

I'll bring the beer, Mr. T

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

Interesting commentary. Particularly interesting because I immediately applied the same attributes and experiences to a few WOMEN in lit. Everything you wrote applies to my experiences with a few women. I tend to feel guilty when I interact with some women, while feeling as you've written.

Interesting....good thread.....

Just a few observations and comments I have re mainly the men of Lit

Whilst hugely enjoying the time I've spent so far on the forums I've had a couple of instances lately which have annoyed me somewhat. I make no bones about the fact that I enjoy 'playing' on here but that does not mean that....

1) If I play with you I will necessarily want to do it again

2) If I play with you we are in an exclusive situation

3) If you happen to be horny it doesn't always follow that I will also be horny

4) If you happen to be horny I'm free to play and not engaged elsewhere

5) Just because I'm here I will automatically want to add you to an IM site or go on cam

6) That I am not being a bitch or a cock tease if any of the above apply

I would imagine a lot of the women on here have had similar instances and what I'm really saying guys is have a little consideration. I know this doesn't apply to a lot of you and I have been treated with respect and politely in the main.

Thanks for reading